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so my ex boyfriend dumped me for this girl, straight out told me he was only with me because he couldnt get her.
he's being really confusing .. and not helping me to get over him. like he saw my away message sayin i was at the wrestling meet ( he came on right after i put my away up ) and i get to the wrestling meet and he shows up right after me, and sits a row in front of me. like right there. && well today i was suppose to hang out with a kid named tom. and my away message again and this time it said bonfire with tom. and tom and my ex are friends. so i get to toms and he's like i talked to mark. he said he saw you away message and he was going to stop up but he was out of service range when i called him.
why is he going out of his way to be where i am, its not making it easy for me .. he dumped me for a whore, he really hurt me this time (we've had a few problems in the past, we were together 9 monhts) i cant be friends with the guy i love, cause i cant get over him. but hes everywhere. i want to say something ... but what, and is that a good or bad idea? ... :-/
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hes plain out rude
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It sounds like he liked you though. It is possible to like two people but he did go out with you for that long. So I'm sure he developed feelings for you. Was he treating you nicely or was he an ass?
I think he wants you to notice him, that way you would talk to him and like him more. Maybe he couldn't get with that girl and wants you back thing.
But when a guy is putting you off in the side lines. It's not worth it.
But if you like them, I guess you could try talking to him..
So yeah, you should write something false in your away message :] Like you're hanging out with this dude at some place.
Have the dude go along with your plan.
So when he goes, you're not there.
You can always talk to his friends, ask him why he always shows up where you are.
You could always say you're out with a friend in your away message. :]
But it seems like, he's watching you and seeing if you have gotten over him, especially if you mention you're hanging out with guys.
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I've never given an answer like this before, but FUCK HIM. i dont have enough info to give you any advice, if you wanna you can IM Me (AIM) Erockmichael36
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Honestly I don't think you realy need to talk to your ex. He is an ass. He treated you terribly while you were togeather, he dumped you in the most disgusting childish way possible and he is continuing to treat you terribly by following you around. You shouldn't have anything to say to him but "Hey ass! Leave me alone already."
Stop putting where you are going in your away messages. People survived for years without aim and msn, you don't need to adverstise your every move and if he doesn't know where you are, he wont show up.
You don't need to talk to your ex since you could solve the problem by simply removing him from your contacts or by not putting where you are going in your away message. No reason to confront him, just change what you are doing.
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I can't say for sure whether this guy is really over you or not, but if hes following you everywhere and it feels like hes stalking you (which it what it sounded like to me) then it is possible that he made that whole thing up for some odd reason> Guys are confusing, adn while I'm no expert I think that you need to talk to him especially if its really bothering you. If you guys have been togetehr for 9 whole months then you probably know eachother well and would feel comfortable talking ot eachother (but if not because of the breakup. thats understandable too). Basically, what I am trying to say here, is talk to him or one of his friends nad just tell them how you feel, so that you can start to feel better.
I really hoped that helped =)
Good Luck
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