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avoiding me
im a sophomore... soo this guy who i met last year and talked to him sometimes during school... well i ran into him a few times sometime after school started back this year, and after a little bit he started runnin outta class to see me in the halls, would come by my locker after school to talk to me and walk with me to the bus, and call me every night sometimes numerous times if i didnt answer, for like at least a month straight. i was never mean to him i was always nice and stuff but all of a sudden he quit callin, quit comin to talk to me, and is giving me the cold shoulder. he'll walk right by my locker without even looking at me, and the other day when he passed me i walked up behind him and tapped him on the shoulder to say hey and happy birthday and he was just like 'what!?' when i tapped him.. so i was like well fine then i was just gonna say happy birthday... and he still didnt say anything else so i walked on. whats up with this?
dont say talk to him because obviously he's not talking to me haha and we werent really good friends to begin with anyway so honestly i really dont care but im jw what that behaviors about.
and also i dont have feelings for him at all incase youre wondering.
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alright...heres the thing, sometimes when people have feelings for someone else they tend to do things like that(running out of class to see you..etc)If i had to guess,he prob. have a lot of romantic feelings about you and because you have none for him,it prob. hurt his pride a little. i know what it feels like to like someone and not have them like you back..it hurts..so i understand why hes doing this. don't worry though, hes just trying to save whatever self asteem he has left..and its not your fault by ANY means..so don't think that if you do. i remember being very frustrated,angry,and hurt..but i got over it. now me and the guy are best friends. just give him time..time heals everything..and eventually, he'll get over it and himself and stop acting like such a baby! hope i helped! tell me how it goes!
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well... to me it sounds like he really liked you and then finally realised that you didnt like him that way back and got all embarrassed, as to what you could do, i hav no f#@king idea! lol, just keep being nice and see if comes around, if he doesn't then you said you didn't care anyways.
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It sounds like to me either:
A) Something happened to him personally and he's just trying to cope with it. Some people from a death or something among those lines actually become an introvert (shy/reserved) when trying to come to terms with things. Wait a month or so and see if his behavior changes.
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B) He had feelings for you, but he realized that you weren't interested so he took it kinda personally. This is a guess at least from what you said. Usually, if I like someone I do the exact same things that he was doing with you at the time. If he's a "nerdy" guy like me, that's his way of saying he likes you. However, yes I took in the other things you said into account as well.
Hope this somewhat helps.
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Well I think he liked you at some point or still does. It could be his way.. (avoiding you) of trying to get over you.. If a guy gives you a lot of attention like that and you didn't really give it back.. It's kind of hopeless to continue it. Maybe he wanted to be with you. And like you said.. you don't have any feelings for him.. so maybe he got that idea already.
Maybe he would confront you about it. I don't think he will because it's awkward and he knows he was being an ass.
But if it bothers you a lot.. just go up to him and take him aside.. and talk to him.
Just ask him if you ever did something wrong.
And that would bring up the way he has been acting.
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