I'm having a lot of trouble at school. I'm really not happy. I think a lot of people at my school don't like me. It's mostly just the girls in my choir class.
I'm really shy.. and I don't really talk to people unless they talk to me first. But I've never been mean to anyone ever. And a lot of girls in my choir class are kind of snotty to me and I don't know why. I've never really talked to any of them because I'm so shy and they're all kind of friends with everyone else in the class but me. I always get the feeling that they don't like me.
I don't know what to do. It makes me really upset and I LOVE choir but I never feel like I'm even part of the class because no one ever talks to me. I don't think it's because they think I'm mean but I think it's because they think I'm ugly and that really hurts my feelings.
I need advice. I don't know what I'm asking for specifically but yeah ... and don't tell me to be more talkative and less shy because I've tried and I'm just shy. I can't not be shy you know? And whenever anybody talks to me, I'm always really nice... so I don't know what else to do!
im pretty shy too, its alright to be shy. I have a few people in my class that i know are really, really nice but no one else knows. Its probably not that they think that your ugly but (im not tryin to be rude here and i know its a strange analogy) its like your an animal and because you dont talk, they think that you dont have as many feelings as they do, they ink your strange and weird because you dont talk. you dont have to talk more but i have too say that one of the nly ways you can get them to stop being mean to you is get involved in the choir group activities more and if they do talk to you then be cheerful and dont just say one or two words that makes them think your even worse, hope this helped :)
[view]
im a sophomore... soo this guy who i met last year and talked to him sometimes during school... well i ran into him a few times sometime after school started back this year, and after a little bit he started runnin outta class to see me in the halls, would come by my locker after school to talk to me and walk with me to the bus, and call me every night sometimes numerous times if i didnt answer, for like at least a month straight. i was never mean to him i was always nice and stuff but all of a sudden he quit callin, quit comin to talk to me, and is giving me the cold shoulder. he'll walk right by my locker without even looking at me, and the other day when he passed me i walked up behind him and tapped him on the shoulder to say hey and happy birthday and he was just like 'what!?' when i tapped him.. so i was like well fine then i was just gonna say happy birthday... and he still didnt say anything else so i walked on. whats up with this?
dont say talk to him because obviously he's not talking to me haha and we werent really good friends to begin with anyway so honestly i really dont care but im jw what that behaviors about.
and also i dont have feelings for him at all incase youre wondering.
well... to me it sounds like he really liked you and then finally realised that you didnt like him that way back and got all embarrassed, as to what you could do, i hav no f#@king idea! lol, just keep being nice and see if comes around, if he doesn't then you said you didn't care anyways.
[view]
heyy i wanna make a new screen name but i dont want it to be corny and i want my name in it (Alex)or mybe (alexandra) and im a girl n everythign i try with alex sounds like a guy so anyone have ideas ?
see if you can think of anything with andra in it, thats what my sister does...
[view]
I can't seem to "get off" with my partner... i'm 17 and I can jack off by myself and not take awhile but when i'm with my partner it's harder for me to get an erection AND have an orgasm... I really don't know why... it's not just him, EVERYONE i've been with i've never been able to get off.... what's wrong with me? I mean I've known this guy for 1.5 monthes we're so comfortable together and yet I just can't seem to get anything done! I obviously don't have ED otherwise i wouldn't be able to get it up on my own... i'm really serious with this topic... is there anyone that can help me out and give me advice?
I agree with what the other guy was saying but if you seriously like this guy, and i mean really, it might just be that you have a conection but dont really have a sexual relationship with him. IDK but i would just relax and enjoy being like that with im even without being able to get there. Just be happy :)
[view]
i kno girls arent nsupposed to ask guys out, but i like this guy and im almost positive he likes me back- im gonna see him friday night i think so what do i say to him?
well of course girls are allowed to ask guys out, guys can be just as nervous about asking as girls as you are asking them. If you see him friday night even though your sure he likes you, i would ask him subtly and drop hints just to stop yourself getting humiliated by him if he says no. I hope this helps :)
[view]
|
