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So yeah.... this is for those who are 18+
I can't seem to "get off" with my partner... i'm 17 and I can jack off by myself and not take awhile but when i'm with my partner it's harder for me to get an erection AND have an orgasm... I really don't know why... it's not just him, EVERYONE i've been with i've never been able to get off.... what's wrong with me? I mean I've known this guy for 1.5 monthes we're so comfortable together and yet I just can't seem to get anything done! I obviously don't have ED otherwise i wouldn't be able to get it up on my own... i'm really serious with this topic... is there anyone that can help me out and give me advice?
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Masturbation isn't going to affect anything. I think you're having what's called performance anxiety. Here's a webpage that explains it very well. :)
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Good luck!
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If you masterbat too much, that can affect it. Maybe you're not feeling the connection with this guy with the way you guys have sex..does that make sense? Try switching a little or set the mood differently and don't be so stressed out about it. I mean if he really likes you, then he won't mind too much..right?
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I agree with what the other guy was saying but if you seriously like this guy, and i mean really, it might just be that you have a conection but dont really have a sexual relationship with him. IDK but i would just relax and enjoy being like that with im even without being able to get there. Just be happy :)
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Maybe your not gay =]
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