okay, so my friend and her ex b/f broke up almost a month ago now. and he is still clearly sad about it. however, increasingly i have started to like him. my friend even said that if anyone, she would want him to go out with me, which made me kind of relieved. im soo confused about how he feels though. i know for a fact that he misses his ex, but he knows they will never be back together because she is already talking to someone else. but he came to ME of all people for help.. he sent me a message (i'll say email for arguments sake) saying how hes glad he can talk to me and how im one of the few people he actually can, and i was really glad to hear that. so i replied to him, but he still hasn't said anything back and that was two days ago. i see him in school all the time and i want to talk to him about it but anytime i see him his ex is either right there, or someone else and i dont know how to just talk to HIM. im not entirely sure what to do about it, im just really confused as to what to do about it all.
poloadvice answered Saturday December 2 2006, 9:54 am: let him get over the brake up first before you try to get serious with him then just talk to him more forget there is more then you with him act slightly flirty not 2 much though [ poloadvice's advice column | Ask poloadvice A Question ]
BLONDEasitGETS answered Saturday December 2 2006, 9:42 am: i think he is sad about the break up and needs a shoulder to cry on . and maybe your talking it too seriously maybe he just needs a best friend nto another girlfriend. i an mot sure who broke up with who but. i alos think your ex wont want you to go out with him. i mean thats so off limits girl code? she will be mad at you and creat drama i rpofmise. i miean i you allwent to the movies and you 2 wree making out i promise she wont want u to get him. is he was once hers. i think you should give it some time. i hope i helped if not you can always sne d me another one. update me im always curious about what happens [ BLONDEasitGETS's advice column | Ask BLONDEasitGETS A Question ]
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