ok so im sad lots of the time and moody and stuff because of one girl and she cares about me alot and she wants me to be happy she doesnt want to have a relation ship and she dosnt LIKE me i dont want her to like me i want to move on .. this has been going on for years and years by the way so its not som little average heartbreak,what should i do .. and for the record how can i keep my self from being sad about other girls cause.. fuck,this happens every fucking time !!!! sorry for swearing but .. woah i just cant take it anymore i get into the state of depression were i want to die and everything and i dont see the point on being alive.. but w.e thats stupid i like another girl .. been friends with along time .. weve liked each other on and off and yeah i need to hint that i like her .. and yeah and how can i get her to like me .. like frickhahaha well please help me on all thos questions .. it would be sweet if it was a long sentence answer cause iv asked this in differnt ways befor but i cant seem to be geting the kinda answer im looking for.. well somthing that might help * because .. yeah iv tryed lots and i seem to be geting the same stuff over and over agian .. thanks .. bye
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xJESSICA answered Saturday December 2 2006, 11:49 am: the first girl seems like she cares about you alot and you may always have a place in her heart. Maybe your depressed all the time because you fall in love to easy, try taking it slow. Always remember that no girl is worth killing yourself because later on in life you will find a WOMAN that will wanna spend the rest of her life with you. You should talk to her more and hang out with her then maybe she could start to get to know you more and then you could take it from there but i think i told you what i had to tell you. Im sorry if i didnt tell you anything that could help or what you wanted to hear. I tired. [ xJESSICA's advice column | Ask xJESSICA A Question ]
poloadvice answered Saturday December 2 2006, 9:47 am: Try flirting slightly but not too much or you might slightly scare her and try some dating sites e.t.c And don't worry you ave plenty of time you are still young you have got to spend more time with her your relationship will/should gradually start too grow [ poloadvice's advice column | Ask poloadvice A Question ]
Kirbz answered Saturday December 2 2006, 4:18 am: Are you making attempts (such as hinting or even in your own behavior/bodylanguage) to tell that a girl that you like her? I used to be the same way, where I would get depressed over some girl, but I now realize that you can only really feel depressed if you actually took the risk of either finding out how she feels about you or if you made a clear effort to make your feelings be known.
About your friend: Just be yourself. You don't have to make her like you. If she likes you already, you don't have to go out of your way to prove that you like her (though, going out of your way when you're in a relationship for the one you love is a different thing). Also, don't be worried about the whole "friends" thing. If you've been friends for long time, saying how you truely feel shouldn't make the situation awkward. If it does, something's up. Even if she were to say no, down the road, you will never know what will happen and change her mind, but she might change that way unless you have your feelings all ready out there. To hint at you like her, just be sly but obvious at the same time. If your body language (how you act around her and stuff) is very easily read, she probably already knows you like her, and is probably waiting for you to say it. I hope this helps you out. [ Kirbz's advice column | Ask Kirbz A Question ]
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