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HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.


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well im always around this really adorable kid that im starting to like. i pratically see him everyday =) but i wear the same things alot because they're my favorite clothes! and since i see him almost everyday i cant wear the same thing in the same week. but im not rich and i have to buy my own clothes and i dont have like any money and my friends arent the same size as me. i know this guy shouldnt care what i wear but when i feel "prettier" i have more confidence. what do you think i should do or can do? im getting SO sick of my clothes. (link)
buy something new and affordable from sears,wallmart,jcpenny,gojane.........they have good stuff hope this helps:)) you can even check these stores websites


ok whoever has a promise ring.. type thing.. i dont know if thats what everyone calls them.. if you have one, how much did you get it for? and for anyone wheres a good place to get rings?

thx :) (link)
macys////go to www.macys.com and look at the jewelery


Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help! (link)
if you dont wash them you will never be able to wear them again!


my one friend wants to help me with my imperfections..i mean she hasn't said it but i know she wants to.so should i be offended? or should i think its nice? (link)
ofcourse you shouldnt be shes youre freind and wants you to be and look the best.


My best friend just called me from her cell phone and said she was running away!! what do i do???? (link)
stop her from doing it!! call her back and tell her not to do anything crazy and before she leaves to think about how many people will suffer from this and how shell regret this later on. ask her to chill out and open up to you about her problems and yall can find a solution to them.but u have to tell her to come over to your house to talk this over


okay well I baby sit my neighbors and I love there kids and they are 8 and 7 but ehy pay me like 30 dollars i think it is like way too much but i dont want to say because i like just started baby sitting and they are my only clients being 13 and all i know i started a little late but what ever please help me with the pay problem do you thikn 30 dollars is too much should i set a number of dollars an hour? help me (link)
no 30 dollars is ok just dont ask for more OR less.if you want to set it per hour then you should make it like 12 dollars a hour


i need help! what make up would look good on me? what styles? clothes? hair stlyes? like highlightes and cuts. help would be loved! (link)
how am i suppoesd to know?im not psychic youre suppoesd to say how you look like and weigh.


which colour eye shadows suit green eyes? (link)
light blue will make your eyes totally stand out and light purple will give it a dreamy look.yellow or golden will make your eyes godesse like


Well, ive had sex with 2 guys..

1st guy-had sex with 1 girl
2nd guy-had sex with at least..8 girls

and all of a sudden ill be sitting with both legs up..n i smell this odor comig from.."downstairs" and it was never there before..i shower everday-and im scared it might be a STD (link)
omg well i think guys that have done it with soooo many girls probably have a "downstairs" that smells like TRASH and when you did it with them they spread it off to you!you should see a doctor cuz since you been showering and the smell is still there then this could be serious so go to the doc b4 its too late....good luck


How do you know if someone is a true friend? (link)
when they make you laugh and you make them laugh,when they always stand by you when youre in trouble,when they lie to get you outta trouble,when they let you copy their homework,call you late at night to talk,tell you when you look fat in a skirt you bought,they are concerned about who youre dating and make sure hes not a player


this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!! (link)
tell him no because you dont want to play with him because you dont feel the same way he does and if you go out with him now hell just like you more and that you dont like him.you have to tell him the truth or eles youll be hurting him big time,the more you say no to him bout going out or saying later you give him hope that one day youll say yes and youre gonna bring him down like *BAM*the more you keep it from him the more you be hurtin him.what goes around comes around and you wouldnt like it if you asked a guy out and he did this to ya.good luck and dont be scared to say the truth...not like you lying


hi im 15/f and my boyfriend 16/m andi are gonna have sex but i wanna kno is there a way i can make my down there smell better for him so it wont be all ew for him plzz help i rate high! (link)
you know how you scrub yourself when you take a shower?SCRUB DOWN THERE with soap and a sponge!!


I'm thirteen and I am 5'4", and i weigh 100 lbs. I used to be really thin with a nice, flat stomache, and i only weighed 87 lbs. I think the reason I weigh more now is because this year was kind of rocky so I started eating more and mroe junk food to get my mind off of it. I'm much happier now, but I can't get my body to resist the cravings for junk food 24/7. Please give me advice on how to stop junk food cravings. (link)
ok look at it and say ....YOU ARE THE ENEMY i cant eat you ......if i do ill get health problems later on and gain weight!! but a lil bit is ok you have to have a lil bit or eles one day after youve stopped junk for a month or so youll find yourself attacking the fridge and eating everything you can get your hands on.....trust me its happened to me!!


I'm 13 years old and I like fashion but I really don't have any style. I really wanna be a model when I get older because I'm 5'6 and only 105 punds and alot people tell me that I'm pretty. Does anyone have any advice on how to become more of a fashion expert? (link)
well not everything that comes on the fashion shows look good you got to admit!!you can read magazines or when you go out shopping ask the lady in charge there to give you an idea on what the latest fashion is and what you can wear that would look good on you.


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Hey everyone.

I recently met a really great guy named Collin about a week ago. Ever since we met, we've hung out together 2 times. He seems amazing & we talk on the phone every night. Problem is he's 23 years old & I'm 16. I know, I know - big problem. It sucks. I never thought my parents would ever make such a big deal out of something, especially age - since they started dating when my dad was 21 & my mom was 16.

Everyone in my family thinks it's a HORRIBLE idea. They all tell me it makes them feel sick that he's even wanting to be around people my age. He's in college & he's an all-around great guy that just seems to be interested in me. We're great when we're together & we don't push things on each other. It's just like a relationship where we have mutual feelings.

I have no idea where to go from this point on. Both of my parents said they don't want me to see him anymore. [I never in a million years thought they would EVER tell me I couldn't see someone.] I know if I sit down & talk to them, and try and change their minds, they may. I just have no idea what to say.

My eldest sister, whose 29 years old is super close to my parents, so she's of course giving her opinions on the situation, and they're all bad, like "She shouldn't see him!" & "I don't want to meet him - he's not coming to my wedding!" & all of those negative things.

Please help.
Although I will want to hear all of the reasons why I shouldn't continue a relationship, please give me some ideas to where I could continue it. I don't think I could end it right now, it just seems way too much for me.

Thanks in advance. (link)
i see nothing wrong with the age difference honestly the more older than you he is the more mature he will be and the more he will know how to treat you right.you FIRST off need to speak to your older sister ask her sis, imajine you were in deep love with someone and hes like your prince charming and you love him to death and ppl around you tell you you cant see him how would you feel?wouldnt it hurt?be nice when talking to her and dont get your temper up nomater what she says and have a sad face on.then talk to your parents and tell them that you FINALLY found the guy that youre looking for and now they tell you you cant see him!tell them you like him a lot and they shouldnt prevent you guys from dating and imajine if someone came and told THEM they couldnt see eachother and that hes the only guy youve ever liked so much and stuff like that.good luck


hey, if you masturbate so much will u actually lose the temptation to have sex when u are older? haha i am just wondering ... thanks in advance :) (link)
you wont really lose it completly but youll get used to masturbating and by the time youre married itll be harder to please you


ok i'm 14/f and im 5'5 and i weigh like 110 pounds. am i like fat for my age? be honest. and dont say that its whatever i feel comfortable with or muscle weighs more than fat. i do gymnastics but only like once a week but i practice on my trampoline a lot so i do have muscular arms and some muscle in my legs.

thanks (link)
not at all your weight is PeRfEcTo for your age!its great that you exercise and do all these gymnastics but beware once you stop the trampoline or gymnastics since youve been doing it for a while the muscels will turn to fat and ive seen SO MUCH PPL that it happened to...it happened to ME. i used to go on the trampoline a lot and when i stopped my legs got fatter.anyways keep it up


my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time wanted to finger me today..but im on my period! hes already done it many times before so when he started to go for it and i took his hand away he was like whats wrong? i didnt want his hand to touch that he'd be DISGUSTED! so i just said"not now"but he kept trying to later on! i wear pads most of the time but even when i do wear tampons..i still cant tell him im on my period cause thatll make everything so awkward! how do you tell a guy without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?? cause frankly, its the only thing thats stopping me from doing it and i have no idea what to say. (link)
just tell him to respect your opinion and that you dont want it today!hell obviously get it.and if he keeps annoying the hell outta you tell him nicely in a nice sweet tone not today pleases i have my period :p whats he gonna do run outta the room screaming!? haha no dont worry


okay, seriously.. i must be an insomniac. it's 5:27 am and i cant sleep, i cleaned my whole room, bathroom and kicthen to give me something to do, and im hyper as ever still, for the past 2 months i have not been able to sleep, and when i do sleep i sleep to much, what is rong with me? am i going insane???
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lol its ok a lot of ppl are like that especially in the summer vacation.IM LIKE THAT.its ok its just sleeping disorders by the time school starts your sleeping will be back to normal.you sleep at the morning and wake up at night sometimes its ok though...dont drink too much coffe it has a 97% of caffeine per 6 to 7 ounces which makes you REALLY hyper good luck :)


whenever i shave down there it doesnt completely go away you can still see the stubble of the hair and it bothers me..how do i fix this and is there a certain way to shave it perfectly? (link)
wax is really the only thing that shaves it perfectly other things like razors make it grow back thicker




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