HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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i have blue eyes and brown hair well how can i make my eyes look bigger .. everyone is always saying how pretty my eyes are ... but i want the to stand out more what can i do ? and how can i wear my hair to compliment my eyes && i have really gross eyebrows i hate them they like curl and there wayy long.. HELP PLEASE (link)
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for blue eyes...on your lower eyelid you can put turquoise(blueish greenish) color so itd give ppl the chance too look at your eyes and say wow what color are her eyes exactly?and on your upper eye(under your eyebrows) you can have this white glittery colored eyeshadow to give ppl the impression that your eyes are godesse like....if you dont want that you can have nice black eyeliner and your eyeshadow(on your whole eye) can be either beige(peache color) to sorta make your eyes appear more or glittery white to make you just glamourous and for your hair you can have your hair parted from the middle and put your hair in a ponytail BUT your bangs just happen to fall out on your eyes.for your eyebrows go to a hair salon and get them fixed.good luck:)
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so i have a real big problem..i dated this boy for about a month and it was real intense but then he just dropped me out of no where and i was hurt and i never fully got over him so then about a month and a half passed and i started talkin to my old boyfriend and we started dating again and things were going great and then he all the sudden popped up again and started talkin to me again and i know i still have feelings for him and he told dat he had feelings for me still and now i don't know what to do i don't know if i should tell him how i feel about him or just try my best to get over him and try to work it out with my boyfriend? i really need some help if you give me good advice then i'll give good rates (link)
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some guys are like this,when they see that you desperatley like them more than they do they dump you and go to their friends and be like "oh you shoulda seen how hard she was crying about me"hes just playin with you cuz he has nothing eles better to do and wants the attention and to proove that what i said is true,when you went back to your old boyfreind he popped outta nowhere and talks to you...it all means that he thinks he lost what he used to play around with and has nothing to brag about now and he cant tell his freinds that you got a boyfreind or eles theyd laff in his face.thank god youve only gone out with him for a month,if it was any longer than that itd be even HARDER for you to get over him.dont bother talking to him and when he says hi just pass by him as if you didnt hear.and dont worry youll get over him because time heals everything.you didnt even get to know this guy good enough,it was only a month.hope you get over him :P
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okay, ive been thinking about what i am...straight, bi, lesbian. and i dont know.like i think i am bi but im not sure. i found out the other day that my ex is bi and that made me think alot about myself. like if i did anything wrong or something. but i dont know. i think i am bi. but i dont want to be, cuz if i am, then my friends and family would hate me. im only 13 an usually when kids are younge and say the arent straight, people usually dont take them seriously and say "oh your straight, your just saying that to get attention" well im not trying to get attention. im just confused. (link)
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no dont worry youre not lesbian OR bi youre totally normal, your ex turned bi doesnt mean you made him bi.God created guys for girls and girls for guys.youre just young and your hormones are changing and so is the way you think.cmon can you actually look at another girl and say shes hot?!if you can than turn your face away and go "ew"
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I really wanna look good in my clothes and wear designer stuff but it's expensive and I was wondering where I could get clothes that look like designer. but i don't wanna be called a loser for wearing knock-offs and stuff. please help me find some good shops. (link)
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these stores are great and even have websites for you to check out
www.drjays.com....if you like ghetto style
www.hottopic.com....if you like punk style
www.gojane.com......i guese you can call it girlish style
wwww.maycs.com......www.nordstrom.com.....
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I really want to change so badly. Please give as much advice as you can. Im now starting to lose some weight but how can i become more motivated to lose it and to get up and want to go running ? I aslo whould like to become more outgoing and to stop caring so much about what people think of me. To stand up for my self . I need to know how to do this though people always tell me stop caring so much about what other people say but i cant i dont know how? Please help i need it. I need more friends also to become more social i have friends but not enough or not very many close ones. Thanks for your help please explain how i can do all this. (link)
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ok in order to change first thing is you have to WANT to change.heres how it is.to be able not not care about what others think is pretty easy(im like that) people call me arrogant and self concited all the time and i dont care.you have an opinion about everyone right?your freinds,your teacher,your neighbors,everyone!and youre not afraid to say what you think!so,THEY have an opinion about YOU too and they can say it whenever they want so for example you think your neighbors girlfreind is a hoe and youre all mean to her....she wont go up to you saying..."dont you dare think im a hoe!"because you can think what you want!if you keep caring about what everyone thinks youll never be happy and never have your own opinion and personality because it will constantly keep changing as you hear the opinion of others.and as for standing your ground,anyone that pisses you off piss them off back and if they do anything that annoys you and you told them to stop and they dont and its gone way too far(bullying) BEAT THEM UP itll make them respect you and be scared to look you in the eye(trust me i did this before and it worked GREAT) you shouldnt be scared,they arent scared when THEY pick on you so why should you be scared to defend yourself?hope this helped:)
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okay my friends mom called me a slut and everything one day because my thong was showing . i dont get it . my friend sleeps around with guys all the time and pretty much wears nothiong to school && we are in 9th grade . hello!!! i dont know what her problem is and she lets her daughter dress like that . she buys her like push up bras , water bras and all that but im the slut who shows off my boobs? wow well yeah (link)
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forget about what she thinks,if you keep caring about what she thinks youll never be happy.she can think whatever she wants to think about you,you have an opinion about everyone,right?they have the right to have an opinion too.but hold on,did your FREIND tell you her mom thought youre a slut?cuz if its your freind that said this its obvious your freind is either lying because she wants you to feel bad because shes jealous OR shes just making it up to piss you off.
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like i did a ton of tests and stuff and it said i was and i was like PUH-LEESE so i decided to ask my friend what she was wearing like to guess and after i thought of the shirt and it was like pulling me in to the trance and she told me and it was the right shirt and the trance got like stronger and now i feel weird can someone help me (and if you think i am a freak i will rate you 1) cause this is relaly freanking me out
please help (link)
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no dont worry youre not psychic its all just a coincidence...i once guesed the exact time my mom would come back home and she came back the exact time and i once was like this teacher aint coming today and she didnt doesnt make me psychic,its a coincidence.psychic ppl know the future,do YOU?!nope!so youre not psychic so dont worry.hope this helps :D
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so theres this guy whos liked me since 7th grade or w/e. and he wants to go out. but just today he said " well im only 16, i wanna experience a little more before i go out with you because i have a feelings we'd go out a long time, we have that chemistry" i said ok fine like a dumbass.. then i said id wait for him and give him time..
SHOULD I WAIT!?!?!??! or just be like either me or not. (link)
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this guys lying to you or actually,he cant even lie RIGHT.cmon what the hell does experience more mean??ill tell you!it means get you to like him more and more till youre desperatley in luv with him then hell say oh im SORRY im not ready yet and bring you down.dont wait for noone and find someone eles
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Ok this might sound stupid but i wanna know if this is normal. sometimes if i hear a song that i really really love it makes me want to cry, i think just becuase its so beautiful and i feel so deep, its kind of disturbing. for me its enjoy the silence by depeche mode, and lacuna coil covered it, i like that one just as much.
So is this normal? It might be becuase music is such an important part in my life? Thanks. (link)
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yeah this is normal,i know a lot of ppl like you.its just because you live "in" the song and have deep feelings for it.nothings wrong with that.
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okay, so this is just a simple question. but do a majority of girls shave "down there?" like i'm afraid when it comes to when i become intimate with a man that he'll be turned off if its shaved or not? so, what do most girls do? shave, or not? (link)
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ofcourse we DO,waxing actually works best other things such as razors make it thicker and harder to shave
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hey hey hey!! i found u! its me devilzangelz. i hear u give good advice!! Good job! Let's talk later ok? (link)
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lol hi!whats your sign in name here?
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I had a dream i made out with my best friends boyfriend. I feel so bad that i would have a dream like that. I dont even have feelings for him!! Now i feel like i have betrayed my best friend what should i do to make me feel better? (link)
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no you didnt betray her it was just a dream and its nothing,it didnt really happen so dont worry
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im 14. i REALLY REALLY need money and i never get asked to babysit and personally i dont even like babysitting. is there any real jobs i could get? and i dont mean walking dogs or anything like that i mean a job with hours. oh and if anyone knows any place that hires 14 year olds thatd be great! (link)
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try working at a flower store or a pizza store
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where can i buy jewelryonline for reallly cheap? i realy like the mary kate//ashley olson look, so where could i buy jewelry online like theirs??thnxxx (link)
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www.claires.com
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a few nights ago i was with a friend and two older boys (3 years) weve hung out before, and this guy pressured me into haveing sex with him but i wouldnt. i dont like im or anything its just a hookup. the thing is im a virgin and hes not and then i was drunk a few nights ago and ended up doing something im starting to really regret. sex. i lost my virginity to someone i dont even like he made it seem like it wasnt a big deal and everyones had it so i just gave in. at first i was okay with it but now im starting to think.. what am i going to telll my next boyfriend? or my friends? i dont know if i should just forget about this whole thing and say im a virgin. im just getting upset and i dont know who to turn to and im not going to a councelor or anything. i guessi just need some moral support.. thank you
and no we did not use a condom, we were in a hot tub and he swore to me that he would pull out before, but we didnt even get that far into it i think. plus hs going off to college and hates kids. so im pretty sure im safe. please help thank you (link)
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its ok dont be upset, in my opinion its try everything once and since you did now you know that you are not ready for sex.forget about that guy i mean it was a mistake you were drunk!but mistakes are a road to success and without mistakes a person wouldnt be experienced at all.now you know whats right and wrong and dont worry bout what other ppl have to say,you dont have to explain it to everyone only to your close ppl.and if anyone(future boyfriend)asks you asks you at first if youre a virgin tell him im sorry i tend to keep stuff about my virginity personal and i dont like talking about it.hope i helped :D
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Ok here's the deal. Whenever I masterbate or get fingered by my boyfriend I start to have all the classic symptoms of pre-orgasm (i.e. my discharge increases, I get hot and I feel that wonderful tension). Just when I feel like i'm about to explode, the feeling ends up fading away or just plain disappearing. What's happening? Why can't I orgasm? (link)
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its because youve been masturbating and getting fingered for too long and did it before a lot so now your starting to lose the feeling for it.the thing that used to please you before now isnt enough,youre going to keep on wanting more till its gonna be impossible to please you.
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how do u know if you have anemia?
what are some of the problems that can occur to you?
how can you get rid of it? (link)
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you feel a lil dizzy at times,youre face gets white spots and you feel weak all the time.to get rid of it you have to take a lot of vitamins especially protien.
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my boyfreind showed everyone his private area and im really hurt.
should i break up with him?
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yes you should because if he showed everyone it means he has no self respect and you never know what eles he did.dont bother feeling hurt hes disrespectful.
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Hi! Im 15 and i have an interview for a job working with jewelry. And i have never had a job or have been interviewed before, im so nervious! So a couple questions:
1) What kind of questions are they going to ask me? I'm feeling negative because i have never had a job or Experience, which is important right?
2) I dont have fancy clothes. Just jeans and shirts, you know..what should i do?
3) I was at OzzFest all day today so i'm beet red on my face. What should i do about that?
and last..
4) I have a lip and nose piercing. Should i take them out, and then after the interview ask about the facial piercing policy?
Thanks so much this will determine if i get a job or not, which i really need to help afford school and other things. Thanks again. (link)
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theyre gonna ask you stuff like where did you used to work and why did you leave it and tell me a lil bit more bout urself and stuff like that.just keep cool,dont give them the feeling that your nervous or theyll think your not ready.i think you should take out the nose and ear peircing to give a better impression about yourself and just wear a short skirt and a matching top.good luck:D
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my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex. (link)
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i think you should think it over twice before you do anything,think of the concenquenses and when you do this you have to make sure its not something youre going to regret later on,cuz some ppl regret it later on and feel really bad in my opinion i think your age is a lil too young.hope i helped take care:)
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