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Orgasm (This is long)
Ok here's the deal. Whenever I masterbate or get fingered by my boyfriend I start to have all the classic symptoms of pre-orgasm (i.e. my discharge increases, I get hot and I feel that wonderful tension). Just when I feel like i'm about to explode, the feeling ends up fading away or just plain disappearing. What's happening? Why can't I orgasm?
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what you have to do is relax and not have to worry about anything. also you have been doing it for awhile, so you might just be getting used to it happening. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥
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You need to relax. All that matters is that you are enjoying yourself and having a good time. Orgasming won't be that great if you are constantly expecting to have one. Relax, breathe, and enjoy yourself ;)
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its because youve been masturbating and getting fingered for too long and did it before a lot so now your starting to lose the feeling for it.the thing that used to please you before now isnt enough,youre going to keep on wanting more till its gonna be impossible to please you.
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Stop worrying about it for starters, how are you going to orgasm if you're all stressed out. Try letting your mind float away that will help you to relax, but stopping thinking about it is a must.
Some sort of pressure building up inside you will probably do the trick, either his tongue rubbing the right place in a nice rythmic build up.
This might seem strange but alot of women actually fight the feeling. Their minds stop them from orgasaming, it takes time to relax and let yourself enjoy sex. The only other thing that comes to mind is that if there is some emotional frustration between you, it can sometimes stop you from climaxing also. Hope some of that helps you get an idea.
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It may just mean you are having trouble relaxing, every time your about to orgasim you start to expect it and start concintrating on acheaving the orgasm full on, am i right? if so, just try to relax and not think about it. hope you feel better with the big O :)
Tianna Audra
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