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i want really white teeth? are there any tricks or ways i could get whiter teeth besides using whitening strips? (link)
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White teeth,
I suggest rembrandt mouth wash whitener. this premium mouth rinse. This gives you the stain therapy that you are asking for. Trident gum also whitens teeth. Best of luck :)
Tianna Audra
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I really need as much answers as possible.
To start off, I'm 16 Female and I have HIV. It got transmitted to me from my mom at birth, so it wasnt my fault what so ever!! So I've been dating this guy for a while now and I told him i have this HUGE secret, which i will tell him when im ready and in the beginning of our relationship, I tested the waters to see How he would handle the HIV situation. So I asked him, "what would you do if I had HIV?" and He replied "I'd still love you, and i would still have sex with you." So, I was SO relieved to hear that, I was happy that he would accept me and we'd still have a relationship without worry! And that was about 2 months ago!! Then last night I asked him Again what he'd do, and he replied "well, if we were getting married then yeah I would have sex with you, but if we werent getting married, then no i wouldnt have sex with you " SO i was SO upset! and said how low that was, because his answer was completetly different before, and i also told him that
"if he wouldnt accept me if i had HIV then he wouldnt accept my "secret" " because IT IS my Secret! but he doesnt know what my secret is. so then he said "well if it was some girl i didnt know and didnt love then no i wouldnt have sex with her but if it was you then I would." so I DONT KNOW WHAT I DO! should I tell him now and get it over with??!! Tell me answers!! HELP! and please dont say that i shouldnt have sex!! BECAUSE I DONT NEED THAT ANSWER!! I've made up my mind that i do want to have sex with him.
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Honesty should always be the best policy. This talk should have happened a while ago. Before even considering sex, shouldn't you ask one another if there are any stds on the plate? i understand why you were apprehensive at first. if you tell the guy you may loose him. Although, if he doesn't mind, he will have wondered why you waited so long to tell him this important information. He may even be hurt you didn't come forward in the beginning. HIV doesn't make you any different from who you are, and if he doesn't support you for who you are, than he doesn't deserve you. In the future i sugjest you be more honest with one another. He sounds like a nice guy that will understand your reasons for keeping this quiet for as long as you did, and I don't think he will love you any less. best of luck :)
Tianna Audra
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im 15/f
okay so i have a boyfriend, lets call him "Mark". We just started going out like couple weeks ago. The thing is that we were BEST friends before we started going out and now that we go out, I cant see him as my boyfriend... just a friend.
So, theres this guy, lets call him "Joe". Well, Joe likes me. He wanted to go out with me before Mark asked me out but I said I wanted to get to know him more. Well, now I've gotten to know Joe more and I really like him too.
I know if I break it off with Mark and go out with Joe, things will definitly not be the same as they were. But I really just cant see myself in a relationship with Mark.
So what should I do? Stick with Mark or go for Joe?
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if you really like "joe" then go out with him. talk to "mark" and tell him you can only see him as a friend and that you hope that this doesnt hurt the relationship you two had before you started going out in the first place, follow you heart, best of luck:)
Tianna Audra
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Hey, i'm going on holidays soon and i want to get a bikini line wax. I was wondering if anyone knows if they wax kind of between your legs if you get it done in a salon? (link)
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yes, they do, although it is a bit painfull, and can cause redness, lol, but that happens any were you get it done, good luck :)
Tianna Audra
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can someone help me find black rims for my 05 eclipse. i am looking for some 19' in black though. please thanks in advance!!! (link)
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I suggest checking out local car dealerships and maybe looking at eBay, good luck :)
Tianna Audra
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Ermm.... I'm a 15 year old girl, and when I was 10 my grandma gave me this teddy bear for my birthday. It's very cute, with brownish fur, and little button eyes. And it has a green vest. I named it "Mr. Paddington". Lately, something weird has been happening. Whenever I've been around it I've felt... odd. As though I had a crush on it. Now I'm embaressed to change with it in the room, and at night when I imagine my first kiss, it's Mr. Paddington I imagine having it with. I've told my friends that I'm dating him, but they think I'm joking.... I'm afraid to tell anyone for real, because what if they took him away? I was just wondering if this is normal..... and if I'm allowed to someday marry my teddy bear? (link)
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In the year 2000 a women married her house on national telivision, so no, you are far from insane. it is normal to feel paranoid every once in a while. once a girl came to me looking for advice because every time she masturbated she would turn her stuffed animals around so they couldnt she her doing it, she is now 23 and looks back at it and laughs. so, no worries. best wishes for you and mr.paddington, lol :)
Tianna Audra
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So on friday, I am getting a haircut.
I have naturally brown, pretty long, wavy hair. Though sometimes I straighten it and it looks really flat but I can do more with it. I have layers... they are hard to see unless my hair is straight.
I was wondering what a good haircut would be for me.... nothing too short or wild....but something nice. Any ideas?!
Also... *i know, this question keeps going on! When will it end!!*
I take terrible care of my hair, and i dont want to do that. sure, it is nice, but I have more important things to worry about. All my friends talk about the best hair things. So what is good hair prouducts for oily hair-- or however i described it, good for that kind??
sorry its long!! Help tho!
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Tell your hairstylist: Keep the layers long. Because the hair is wavy, too many choppy pieces will be prone to frizz. since your hair is naturally wavy the razor should be used sparingly as it could cause frizz. i suggest having it cut around the shoulders, not to short, not to long.
Suave Daily Clarifying Shampoo , For Normal To Oily Hair should do well, and it costs around $1.99
Nexxus Exoil Oily Hair Normalizing Shampoo by Nexxus is around $4.89
good luck with the fab. hair :)
Tianna Audra
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I am live with my dad in the ATL and my mom lives in Chi-town, I really want to go home with my mom, but my moms income didnt come yet her our apartment, so I think I have to stay here in atlanta, I dont want to stay here, I want my mommy. Living with my dad is horrible, i want my mommy. I have so much stress here with him, what should I do. I cant send my mom money for the apartment Im broke. HELP (link)
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best i can say is try and work through things with your dad, once you get back to your mom any wait should be worth it. if you really really want to be there, talk to her about it, maybe she can make an arangment with your father allowing you to visit. best of luck, hope you get to see you mom soon:)
Tianna Audra
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Could someone please give me some long distance relationship tips.. he'll be driving in 6 months.. if that helps any.. We love eachother and ahve been together twice and will see eachother in less than aweek.. but yea, idk the next time we will before he gets his licence and i may start dating him soon! please hlep! (link)
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well, you can talk to him on the phone when ever possible, and instant message each other, you could also get a web cam and micro phon so he can see you and talk to you over the computer. best of luck with the relationship :)
Tianna Audra
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Ok, so my friend told me that her cousin told her that she was (who used to be my best friend) was anorexic and that she smokes and drinks. I'm afraid of her hurting herself or dying. What should I do? (link)
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first of all you need to talk to her, get the facts straight, if this all is true, you should tell an adult, and explain to her that it is the right thing to do, in time she will understand. wishing for the best :)
Tianna Audra
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me and my friends always are hanging out. but were kind of getting sick of doing the same things over and over again. during the day we usually just swim at someones house and then at night we have like a bonfire and make smores and swim more. occasionally we go down to the beach and walk the pier and get ice cream. do you have any other ideas of fun things to do. its for both girls and guys around the age 15. any ideas. thanks! (link)
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I suggest you go out, have some fun, go to the movies, go get something to eat. maybe shopping, or somthing like staying in and pigging out on junk food and watch tv, and talk all day. either way you guys are spending time with each other. have fun :)
Tianna Audra
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heyy ok i want to re-do my bedroom. but i need help with some ideas. ok i am basically a surfer/skater kid-of girl. my favorite colors are pink, green, ORANGE, and purple. i love the design of camoflauge or army. i would love maybe a design like that but i have looked at pbteen.com and wakeupfrankie.com but like i dont want something that is so bright like not as in like bright colors because i love orange. but i want one thats a little more dull or lighter in the color girn with maybe a ribbon trim?? i dont know. or maybe an idea for a different kind. have any suggestions?? my room is really plain and i hate it. i have a day-bed which looks like a couch so im limited as of now. i may get a new bed but im not sure. thanks :)
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You could use a nice orange for you walls, tuscan blood orange, they have tones of candles that color, you can just take it into Lowe's and have them make you a color that you want. and you could get camaflauge bed spread, just a thought, good luck! :)
Tianna Audra
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Ok here's the deal. Whenever I masterbate or get fingered by my boyfriend I start to have all the classic symptoms of pre-orgasm (i.e. my discharge increases, I get hot and I feel that wonderful tension). Just when I feel like i'm about to explode, the feeling ends up fading away or just plain disappearing. What's happening? Why can't I orgasm? (link)
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It may just mean you are having trouble relaxing, every time your about to orgasim you start to expect it and start concintrating on acheaving the orgasm full on, am i right? if so, just try to relax and not think about it. hope you feel better with the big O :)
Tianna Audra
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My boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. We've had phone sex before, but i know thats much different. He once said "I want to make you cum" and after that I got really self concious. I know Im able to cum, I can feel an orgasm, but am I suppose to actually like "cum" as in like liquid stuff? Lol. My boyfriend asked me once and he was wondering if I came alot and I told him yes, but truthfully I dont ever come like THAT. I feel it but its never like....coming out of me... Is it suppose to be? Is there something wrong with me? Im nervous becuase I think thats something that gets him really excited...I can get wet but its never like how he assumes....Im really scared about him being insecure if i dont cum like that and he thinks that its a normal thing for me. What do I tell him? (link)
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Are you sure he just doesnt mean cum as in orgasm? talk to him explaining thats what you meant. but seriously, he sounds like he is only in this relationship to have sex with you. i dont mean to sound disrespectfull. i am sure this is well thought out and that you two really love each other and both want this. so i am sure he will understand. not many girls actually "cum". hope you feel better :)
Tianna Audra
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so i had two friends kayla and taylor. my and kaylas parents were best friends.soon we found out they were doing drugs and kayla new the hole time.so now we are not friends anymore.my other friend taylor plays travel ball softball and kayla joined.taylor says she cant stand her and kayla is annoying but,i think they hang out .taylor said she wasnt gonna hangout with her because i was so hurt .but kayla invited her over and she didnt say weayher she was going or not i need help i dont want her to get hurt like i did and i dont want her around drugs only because she is my best friend and i love her. (link)
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First of all, I can under stand how you must be hurt right now. talk to your friend taylor and tell her your fears about her emotional safety, and make sure she knows about the whol drug issue. Secondly, Taylor is your friend and would never do anything to hurt your feeling intenionally, thats why she didnt tell you. She can be friends withwhom ever she wants, no matter what you think of them, there may be nothing you can do. i know you didnt want me telling you that, but, its the truth. and if she is doing things behind your back and not telling you, maybe you should avoid her for a while, give her some space. hope i helped, best of luck with taylor :)
Tianna Audra
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What foods that are high in calories would make ur arms and legs gain weight. like the food will go straight to ur legs and arms? (link)
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you should go see a nutrishionist about that, she can ask you quistions about your daily eating habits and give you a well planned out diet that will work with your body. best of luck :)
Tianna Audra
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This is probably going to be very long, so thanks in advance for reading all the way through it. I'm 22, my Mom and Dad are both 42. My mother has always been the sensible, more mature, (sometimes overbearing) one, while my Dad has basically never grown up. They divorced when I was 5, and have both since remarried twice. My dad just got re-married tonight actually. To a 35 year old woman named Carla.
More background: my Dad has been partying since he was 15, its why his first two marriages didn't work out. He's an alcoholic (not the abusive to anyone else kind, but the kind who drinks maybe 40-45 beers a day and really depends on it to manage his mood, stress, etc.- its sad) and still has the same old buddies he grew up with who are drunks as well. He's not completely pathetic, he's held a good job for 25 years, never puts anyone in danger, and never drank around me until I was 19.
After him letting me down again and again and not talking to him for sometimes months at a time, I chose to just accept him for what he is, I love him, and want him to be a part of my life. He's my dad.
Carla is really sweet and fun. She acts young for her age, which can be annoying but, we all have a good time together.They just moved into a house out in the sticks which I thought would be a great place to have my Annual Halloween party (its the biggest party I throw), I don't have anywhere else to have it this year. My Dad, Carla and my Dad's old buddy Leroy want to be there and party with us. I feel weird and guilty about the idea. Because I actually think that my friends and my Dad and Carla, all of us would have a blast. Even Leroy's a great time. But, I mean, we've been out to dinner and had drinks before, but I've never partied with them. Do some kids do this? Or is it just weird and thats it? Is it just redneck? Or is every situation different with fathers and daughters?
They're totally cool with as many people as I want to invite, we can get as wild as we want. They have a pool table and room to dance and I know Carla will love helping me get everything ready.
I know he's not winning parenting awards here. I also know that I'm an adult, maybe I should just take advantage of it, I'm starting school in January and will have to buckle down, so. But then, maybe I'm encouraging him to drink and continue to party like he's young. I really do want him to quit drinking like he does. Am I being a hypocrite, or is it his problem? Like, I look at him as more of a friend than a father. He never really fathers me anymore. You know what I mean? What do you guys think? Help. I'm guilting myself to death. Thanks. (link)
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Don't bring yourself down so much, the fact is, you are now 22, starting colledge, and your father is treating you like an adult. I suggest you find a middle way with things, point out to him that he is you father and there are times that he should step up. also point out that he can alsp be your buddy. the halloween thing seems like a good opratunity to bond with your new step mother and with your father as well. of corse you want him to quit drinking, but at this time in his life is sounds like he has become overly dependant on it, i suggest that you wait it out, as he get older he will grow more mature a realize that he needs to ease up on the beer. my father drinks alot, i wish he wouldn't but there is really nothing i can do about it. sooner or later you will have to talk to him about his drinking problem. one day he will walk you down the isle proudly as you get married to mr. right. and i know you dont want him to be the one that ends up getting drunk at the reception, or in some other situation involving him watching after his grandchildren. well, i hope i helped in some way. but who knows, im only 15:)
Tianna Audra
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My boyfriend and I are about to go to college together. We have been dating for almost a year and I just want to know how I can keep it together during college. BEcause I know there will be alot of temptation. (link)
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I think you should talk to him expressing how you are afraid you two may drift during colledge, he is most likely thinking the same thing. try your best to kepp in contact, such as the phone, email, etc. visit up when ever you can. although you two will find this hard because college is very demanding and takes up alot of your time. my cousin is in a local college and he boyfriend is a couple states out. she calls he every night at a certain time, that they set aside for them selves, the try and talk for a solid hour at the least before saying goodnight. i hope you two work out well :)
Tianna Audra
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Hey what is spooning? (link)
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Spooning is a slang term for a certain way of cuddling. Both people lay on their sides with one person lying in front of the other - stomach to back. People lying in this position resemble two spoons stacked together. no spoons involved :)
Tianna Audra
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When I was about 13, I decided that I never want to get married and I still feel this way and believe that I will always feel this way. I guess it does kind of reflect on my family because both my parents have been married multiple times but it isn't just because of that. It seems as if married means nothing anymore to most people (not all people, I know). So I don't know, people are always telling me that not all marriages end and that mine doesn't have to be all bad like my parents and I know that but I just dont see myself getting married. Does anyone else feel this is way or am I alone? Please don't tell me reason why marriage is so great and how if it's the right person it'll work because I've heard it all before. 17/f
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Ever since my best friend was 7 years old he vowed he would never marry cause girls were icky. he is now 17, loves girls, and is in a relationship with some one he considers really special, although all this has changed, one thing remains, he refuses to consider the thought of merredge. you are not alone, sure its a great experianse for some people to settle and get married, but that just isnt were your at at this time in life, and you may never want to get married, is not a bad thing, i suggest you do wat you want in life as long as you are happy. best of luck :)
Tianna Audra
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