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College
My boyfriend and I are about to go to college together. We have been dating for almost a year and I just want to know how I can keep it together during college. BEcause I know there will be alot of temptation.
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Hi, to keep a relationship together you have to have trust in eachother not to go for other people. Have a talk to him about this one and make a promise that you trust one another over this issue. Daniel.
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It depends on what school you go to, if it's a party school or not, stuff like that. And how committed you are to each other. If you're going to the same school it will be a lot easier to hold each other accountable in the relationship.
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I think you should talk to him expressing how you are afraid you two may drift during colledge, he is most likely thinking the same thing. try your best to kepp in contact, such as the phone, email, etc. visit up when ever you can. although you two will find this hard because college is very demanding and takes up alot of your time. my cousin is in a local college and he boyfriend is a couple states out. she calls he every night at a certain time, that they set aside for them selves, the try and talk for a solid hour at the least before saying goodnight. i hope you two work out well :)
Tianna Audra
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Ok. I am gonna be as real as can be on this one. I WAS YOU ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO! I went to college with my bf and he has his own apt. and the whole bit. Let me just say this, it will either destory what you have or make you A LOT closer as a couple. One of the two and the outcome depends upon the two of you. In my case, it destroyed us because when given the new "Freedom" that we had, my bf changed into a WHOLE NEW PERSON. A person that, in fact, I wasn't able to love. So, there really isnt any easy way of dealing with this. College is the beginning of a new mildstone in your life and it does change people and make people into the person they will become for the rest of their life. So, basically, all you can do is make sure that you don't set yourself up for disapointment. Know what lies ahead and be prepared. Its a big step and I wish you all the luck in the world. Better luck than me anyhow. Lol. Let me know if you need anything else. Im always here and know exactly what your going through.
<3 Heidi
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