babiigirl's advice column

well..were leaving for vacation at the beginning of feb and thats when my period is due...is there anything at all that i can to to make it delay like till at least later this month so i wont get it till later in feb? thanks

Nope. i wish though. You can Always use a tampon.

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My friend and I were argueing over a weird topic.

If someone has anal sex, are they still considered a virgin?
It's a type of sex, but its still not really sex cuz its anal.

I really dont know.
Are they still considered a virgin?

Yes you are still a virgin. The hymen has not been torn. Too lose your virginty you have to have vaginal sex.

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Does anyone know what a g-string is?

I know that it's a thong, but what kind of thong? My friends make it sound so dirty...

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=SH-174261&cgname=OSKEYPTYZZZ&rfnbr=2692

thats what they are.

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can you get stds from giving oral sex? and if you do have oral sex, even if your sex partner doesnt have stds, can you still get them??

Yes you can get std's. giving and recieving oral sex. If your partner does not have std's then no you can't get std's.

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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks

YOur good friends like you make-out and mess around but your not dating.

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Recently I was messing around with my boyfriend. We didn't have sex. But we both got his cum on our fingers.. Then he fingered me not long after.
My period isn't here yet; it's late. Could I be pregnant?

i dont think so. i could be wrong. i think after sperm touches air it dies.

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okay i am 14/f in case it matters

okay well you see, my cousins from arizona came up for christmas and new years to visit us. one is 16 and the other is 22. well they came up and they were staying at my grandmas hosue. well i wanted to hang out with them so i figured id spend the night (by the way both of my cousins are guys). anyways so i got there and my grandparents werent there. my cousins said that they went to dinner 2 hours away at some really fancy returaunt. well, they took me upstairs and they told me to sit ont the bed. they started kissing me and slowy putting their hands down my pants and up my shirt. since i had never had a real boyfriend befor they told me that they were only showing me what to expect when i had one. so thye kept doing all this stuff to me and made me do some weird stuff to them and practically forced me to have sex with them.

i know its wrong and that i should tell someone one but what wiill people say when i tell them i had sex with my cousins? please help me idont know what to do =(

♥ ~*me*~ ♥

HUn. you were raped you need to tell your mom right away. do not wait. because if your mom is going to do anything about it and press charges they need evidence.

so don't wait..

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I like my best friend more than a friend...is this bad?
P.S.-were both girls...

Nope not at all. Its what you like.

HAha how do i suckk..?

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What happens if you take too many sleeping pills?

You can sleep for the rest of your life.

It Can kill you.

Dont do it.

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What is this site that you can customi9ze how many friends you have for your myspace as your top 8?

http://www.r4wr.com/friends/

Takes a long time and you have to do it in one sitting.

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16/f

i really want a baby really bad. like i dont want one for "love" like most of those other girls out there but i think i can really do it and raise a child. ive been having dreams for monthes and ive wanted a baby since i was little but down its been driving over the edge. every night i dream about being pregnant and i want it to be real so badly! im not worried about the money or anything like that but mostly how my parents will react. i think i can haddle it and my parents say i am always great with children and i really feel like god wants me to do this or something.

what should i do?

ps i have no man and the father just wont be anyone so im def gonna wait till i atleast find someone but i have to have a baby in hs

first of all if all the girls that were just like you got pregnant and had babies this world would come to an end.

You think your ready but i bet you a billion your not. You have no idea what your talking about. seriously someone needs to get you some serious help and now.!

You say your not worried about the money. You Prob think that your parents are going to pay for everything for you. What are you trying to put your parents in dept.(sp?) Your parents prob cannot afford to raide another kid. If the did they would have another kid themselves. You have to be able to afford diapers, bottles, clothes, bed, formula, meds, toys, diaper bags, and many many more things. You have to be able to keep a job going and be able to stay in school all at the same time.

Yea your great around kids. ( almost everyone is believe it or not) Thats not your kid and you have to treat that kid good you do not have to supply that kid with everything he/she needs.

Your parents will not be happy that you want to have a kid. If you get Pregnant your parnets will prob think that your grown-up enough to go live on your own. your not and thats what you will have to tell them.

This is what gets on my nerves. You do not have a husband, boyfriend. You do not go and have sex with the first guy you freaking get with after this have sex with him and have him get you pregnant. changes are he will leave you and wil lhave to let the baby grow up without the Male-figure to help him become a man some day.

Being pregnant in high school does not make you any better then anyone else it gives you a bad name to some people. its harder for you and you miss alot of school. Don't say you wont.

I'm done now and you got what i thought. thanks

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Hi
I really want my belly peirced, my mum said she'll see is there any way I can perswade my dad???? (Im 13 by the way)

Your 13 don't you think thats a little young. well if your mom is saying no too you and there is no way to get her to say yes you can. then the chances of your dad letting you are not good cause your parents know why girls want their belly pierced.

When youg et your belly pierced you like too show boys. and all your friends.

i mean you can try to beg or convince your dad to let you. but its going to be hard.

i know its a long time but wait till your 18.

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Would anyone recommend a tampon brand that fits these requirements:

~easy to get in and take out
~has an applicator
~good for girls who are just starting out on the whole tampon matter.

*brand websites highly welcome*

will rate

Tampax Pearl. I started out with those and they work excellent. Or really any Tampax brand tampons.

I have tried other brands and i would not suggest you using kotex. i didnt like them and they didnt work for me.

tampaxpearl.com

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i have a huge problem i only have two pairs of jeans :( and the thing that sux for me is that im thin like size 12 in kids department 0-00 in junior department and size 24 in womens department and with that i would have to get my jeans shortened. i need jeans. i've gone everywhere (oh yea they cant have holes in them) and i love holes in jeans but my school doesnt allow them and theree big on breaking the dress ccode. i went to abercrombie but i didnt like any of hte jeans they have now, hollister doesn't fit me, i even went to like limited too!! but there jeans were too short for me i dont have a butt i have like a flat butt and i want somehting that will make my but look bigger but i dont have to spend a fortune on i like the faded look and i dont want to buy like 200 dollar jeans i went to bebe the jeans were too long or else my butt was too FLAT to fit into them, i dont' know where to go because i've gone everyewhere to try to but some jeans my mom wont let me buy jeans off of ebay and its so frustrating ive gone t o nordstroms only i don't like there jeans i dont like lucky brand i like abercrombie but the jeans they have now are kinda ugly but there jeans online are different but like i said before my mom wont let me buy anything online, and i don't know where to go i dont like american eagle, aero, arden b, forever 21, etc i like abercrombie jeans and abercrombie and fitch doesn't quite fit me yet i went to macys robinsons everywher i don't know where too look at this point do you guys have some ideas for jeans for a 14 year old girl who has a flat butt and i like the faded look lol im sorrky im so picky if you could help ill give you 5s sorry this is sorta confusting

♥

Yea haha. theres othere store to shop at you know that right.? idk what stores are around but i get my clothes from.

-fashion bug
-sears
-jc penny
-even walmart. they do have cute ones there. and some you cant even tell they were bought there.

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ok i want to start wear thongs but how much money are they and where is the best place to get them at. i dont think my mom would be cool with me wearing them so how could i get them without her knowing. i rate 5

yea. i buy em alot i get mine at walmart because they seem to last longer then the ones i buy at the mall. wal-mart they cost around 2.99-5.99 (thats like 2 to a pack). stores in the malls are expensive victoria secrets i believe is like 5.99-9.99 or around there (for one thong).
you can buy them buy yourself if your mom goes tot he store with you say you have to look for something leave her but the thongs put them in the car or something.

hope i helped.

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I'm moving from Michigan to Nevada, and using one of those "You pack,we drive" services to move my (one bedroom's worth of) large furniture. Bed, dresser, bookshelf, stuff like that. Is there anything I should look out for with this moving service. Someone mentioned that I should take pictures of the furniture before I ship it off? Any ideas?

YUp i would take pictures of all the expensive things in your room. tv, dvds, cds, bed, stereo.. those are just some if your driving there and can take a few things i would take all jewerly with you if possible i would take your dvds. too. i only say take pictures because the people thatmove your stuff are nott careful was so ever. i just moved to maine from florida and they broke my bed that i doubt can be fixed. they took some stuff and so on.

Hope i helped.
kim

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i was just wondering how old do u have to be to be able tolike get your own apartment? because i dont wanna live at home anymore and like could i go on welfare or something??

14/f

18. but hwy would you want too. do you even have a job. to get an apartment you have to be able to pay the first payment and last payment up front. good luck tho i would stay home.

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I was at my friends birthday party which was in an indoor swimming pool. I was wearing a Tiffany ring that my mom had gave me for my birthday last week. I forgot to take it off and when I got home I realized it was missing. What do I do if my mom asks me about it?

Ask your friend if she found it if not. go back to the pool place and ask them if they had founf anything or if someone found it. if they say no i would go swimming see haha.

otherwise tell your mom the truth.

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I was shopping yesterday and I bought a shirt and my total was 17 dollars and something cents. Well I grabbed into my wallet and thought I pulled out a 20 and gave it to the casher.

I don't know if she wasn't paying attention or what but after she put the bill into the register, she asked me what I gave her. I said it was a 20 because I thought it was.

When I was at home I was looking through my wallet and I REALIZED THAT I GAVE HER A 100 DOLLAR BILL!

Now I don't know if it's too late to go back tomorrow and see if I can get my money back. Would they give it to me??

Everyday they balance and check the money. if they dont come out to a certain amount and if they are $83 over there is a problem. And the fact that she asked you what you handed her its a good thing she should always know what she was handed. I always do atleast. cause im a cashier.

You should deff. go back and ask to speak with the manager or the person that was in charge yesterday. then tell them what happened. if he/she says that the count was over by $83 dollars then he/she might give it to you. if its not over you will prob have to ask the cashier who rang you up andwatch the tapes.

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