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I am twenty-one, soon to be twenty-two, and currently work in a loan servicing department. I truly enjoy my job, as well as college, in which I am reaching my last year to receive my degree. I am an outgoing person whom loves to have fun, be with my best friends and family, go shopping and most importantly, helping others.


Helping others has always been my passionate, from a young age I knew that I wanted to help other people and be a great influence in making someone's life turn for the better. My main goal in life is to help others, and in addition to helping all of you on Advicenators -- you all are important to me, and look forward to helping you all that I can.


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I want to get a knew hairstyle over the holidays but I don't know what to get. I have red semi thin hari, about medium length, and the hairstyle I was looking for was something that would give my hair volume, you know some kind of hair cut wiht volumizing layers.
does anyone hae any ideas? (link)
Hi, please take a look at #3.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519359

Here are some other pictures of great hair.

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B00062X5E0.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg
http://www.midomi.com/a/pic200/drP500/P578/P57895E9P4S.jpg
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If anyone knows wats going on, could you please tell me?

I usually go on facebook on my sidekick 3, and it used to work but recently whenever i try to get to the regular facebook page it goes to the mobile facebook page automatically. How do i fix this?

Thanx so much! (link)
Here's the help page for Facebook Mobile, there should be something there about it or you can email Facebook and they can help you with your problem. =)

http://www.facebook.com/help.php?page=8


Well, Christmas is coming up and I've decided its time to get some new make up. The problem is, I'm not sure what kind of brand is best so I don't know what to ask for.

Does anyone have advice for make up brands, or certain kinds that work bestt? =] I'm not asking for specific colors or anything, just item type and brand. (link)
First, here's a great site that has makeup products and reviews. It's very helpful.

www.makeupalley.com

*Foundation - CoverGirl TruBlend
*Blush - Wet n' Wild Silk Finish Blush Compact
*Mascara - Maybelline Intense XXL
*Lip Gloss - CoverGirl Wetslicks/Crystals


I think my guy friend might be anorexic.
He's told me that he used to not eat, but that ended. But now, he's not really eating again. I don't know if he just doesn't eat in front of me, or if he's not eating at all. But I think it could be a serious problem.

What should I do? (link)
I'm very sorry about your friend, on #8, I have info on how you can help your friend.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=520299


In the United States, if a girl has anorexia & she is under the age of 18, what is her rights?? Does she have to be admitted or can she choose?? any info on this?? ideas/opinions?? thanks! (link)
Here's some good info, please take a look at #8.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=520299


i wear mostly hollister and abercrombie and american eagle and i have jeans from there but i always see people with really nice ripped jeans that aren't at those stores. i've looked in department stores and stuff and i can't find any. does anyone know where i can find really nice ripped jeans??? (link)
Me and my friends always go to Forever 21, for distressed jeans. They've got good prices on them, too.


i'm f/13, and my boyfriend broke up with me a while ago, but i don't really care. the problem is he was my first kiss, and i think one of the reasons he might have broken up with me is that the girl he was cheating on me with kissed better. anyway, i've read tips, but my mind totally blanks when i'm kissing a guy. i don't want my boyfriend to think i'm like kissing a dead board. i want him to like it. so what's the best way to kiss? (link)
First off, if he was cheating on you - he did you a big favor by breaking up with you. You don't deserve that, it isn't right. And if that's the only reason he broke up with you, then he only wants you for kissing or physical reasons - and believe me, you don't want a guy like that. I'll give you a link for kissing, however, I wouldn't ever use these on that guy - he's a jerk.

http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/kiss.htm


I have a party this saturday night and i dont no how to grind!
Can someone try to teach me
give me pointers. etc,

PLEASE!!
XOXOXOX
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These should help you out. =)

http://www.wikihow.com/Grind
http://www.wikihow.com/Grind-(for-Girls)


My bgf and i are really close and we are thinking about having a serious relationship together but im not physically attracted to him. is there a way i could become physically attracted to him? i think he might be to me im not sure but im not to him. also is it ok to date a guy who dated 2 girls you used to be friends with? cause he dated 2 of my old friends but they dont care if we date and we arent really friends anymore anyway. he didnt seriously date them it was just a thing but he and i want sumthing real and through all the relationships we have had we have always been best friends and kind of liked each other. everyone thinks we are perfect for each other and wants us to date but i dont know. also my mom doesnt want me to date him because he dated two of my old friends like i said. his family on the other hand really wants us to date and likes me a lot. what do u guys think? please tell me any thoughts you have and i will rate everyone!!! thanks! (link)
A) You could become more physically attracted to him futher in the relationship, however, that isn't a guarantee.

B) Since your two friends don't mind, I can't see anything wrong with it. Except in some situations, the friends may become mad - that doesn't mean it will happen in your case though.

C) I think it's a great idea for the two of you to date, you remind me of my best guy friend and I. So I say, go for it. I would try convincing your mom to let you date him, because it's worth a chance. =)


are there any songs about a skater dude and a normail oridnary girl??

thx so much (link)
*Avril Lavigne - Skater Boy


I've had the same hairstyle for the longest time, and quite honestly, I'm bored with it. I want to do something different but I have no idea what to do! I have long blonde hair, layers, and side bangs. Is there anything fun I can do with my hair, that would turn out really good? Any ideas or pictures would help a ton.

Thanks (: (link)
Sure, please click #3. Oh, and the Rihanna haircut is really cute!

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519359


does the song "iwanna be with you" come with a video by mandy moore? like was it released as a video too? (link)
Yes, here you go. Please, click on "I wanna be with you."

http://music.yahoo.com/ar-294687-videos--Mandy-Moore


What does "You can't want your cake and eat it too" mean?
Or if thast the wrong way to say it, how do you say it? (link)
The correct saying is, "You can't have you cake, and eat it too." It means you can't have two things you want, here's a good example of this, so you'll understand it better.

A guy wants to have a girlfriend, but date another girl on the side. This would be the time where the girlfriend would say, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too."


My Sweet 16 is coming up in early December.
The DJ told me to pick out one song for each of the following things:
1. My enterance
2. Cake Cutting
3. Last Song of the Night.

I'm thinking I'll have Piece of Me by Britney Spears playing when I enter. But I'll still take suggestions for it! Does anyone had any ideas fot the other ones? (link)
*Ooh Ooh Baby - Britney Spears
*Do It Well - Jennifer Lopez
*Cold As Fire - Britney Spears
*Umbrella - Rihanna


SoOoOOO Im female, 15 years old.

And my boyfriend kissed me for the very first time. lol. and i was totally asking for it but once we started i felt like i was doing EVERYTHING wrong. EVERYTHING wrong. and part of it is, the only guy ive ever kissed...well i was drunk at he was 20y/o and the whole time me and my boyfriend were kissing, all i could think of was that guy taking advantage of me. it felt like i didnt know what to do with my lips and toungue really. like he was goin for toungue but it felt akward. and i know hes been with plenty of girls before, and i havent been with many guys...

so i need some UBER SUPER AWESOME kissing advice. and please dont send me links unless theyre REALLY good. like i need ALL the details please so i can like..make it better. i feel like an idiot. and oh...dont send me stuff like "ohh you should just calm down and everything will be alright because the world is a happy go lucky place blah blah blah..."

lmao thanks. (link)
Here you go. =)

http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/kiss.htm


I have an amazing boyfriend who loves me and cares about me and wants to be with me. The problem is that i still think about my ex sometimes because he was my first real boyfriend. Should I hold off on going into another relationship because of my ex or should I go for it and take a chance on this new relationship? (link)
In my opinion, Rahzie gave you the best advice, but I'm going to give this question my best shot. If you still want to be with your ex and want things to work out between the two of you, I do not recommend dating this guy. As Rahzie said, if you're just thinking about the relationship and know that it just couldn't have worked out, then I think that's totally ok and go ahead and date the guy.


ok this dude likes me ALOT my friends tell me that he does but he's a gangster and im sorta preppy and stuff but i think i like him i do like him
but he is like really experince and im not like i have'nt had my 1st kiss and i mean he's made out and stuff
but i dont want him to be my 1st kiss but i like him again and im not allwoed to have a bf and i have'nt had on [well i did but they were'nt really real like we did'nt do anything]so yea and i dont like to dissapoint my parent bc my mom trustest me alot and i just cant look at my mom the same way again if i get a bf im really weird i guess
so can some one help me

CONFUSED (link)
You are just like me, in the way that you don't want to disappoint your mother and it kills you to keep something like that from her. So I completely understand that, and I have to tell you, if you date this guy - you're never going to be able to take it. The guilt is more than likely, going to tear you apart. So honestly, I don't recommend dating him. However, if you want to try talking to your mother about getting a boyfriend and being able to date - I do agree that's a good idea.


ok well i have a problem there is this boy he only talks to me when he think i look good but every time i see him he is just so fine what should i do let him be him or just keep trying to impress him (link)
I think you should just let it be and move on. This guy isn't worth your time, if he only wants to talk to you when you're all dolled up - that's a terrible sign, a big red flag. That means that he doesn't want to be with you, for who you are, rather for what you look like and sexual reasons. So please, do yourself a favor and get rid of this guy.


Well I'm like a normal girl..not a tomboy or anything..but like I love wearing girl boxers!
I'm not sure why but I prefer them to normal ''slip ons'' or whatever.
I was wondering whether someone could give me a (good) link with girl boxers..but not like plain..maybe patterned or whatever?
Thanks :) (link)
Here you go. =)

http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1&categoryId=31110&parentCategoryId=10003&pageNumber=2&sortBy=3


I don't know the name of the movie but:

Theres this young african american kid whos a cop because of his father. He goes to this school and is investigating a drug thing or something.

In the beginning he is buying a stolen bike and shoots the tyre and the truck tips over.

At the end, the guy gives his boss his BLUE car back with hydraulics.

Uhmm these guys steal cars during parties in the movie.

ANd that's about all i can remember.

Does anyone know the title of the movie?

Thanks for any help!

Kronix (link)
The previous columnist is correct, "Underclassmen."




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