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My BGF
My bgf and i are really close and we are thinking about having a serious relationship together but im not physically attracted to him. is there a way i could become physically attracted to him? i think he might be to me im not sure but im not to him. also is it ok to date a guy who dated 2 girls you used to be friends with? cause he dated 2 of my old friends but they dont care if we date and we arent really friends anymore anyway. he didnt seriously date them it was just a thing but he and i want sumthing real and through all the relationships we have had we have always been best friends and kind of liked each other. everyone thinks we are perfect for each other and wants us to date but i dont know. also my mom doesnt want me to date him because he dated two of my old friends like i said. his family on the other hand really wants us to date and likes me a lot. what do u guys think? please tell me any thoughts you have and i will rate everyone!!! thanks!
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A) You could become more physically attracted to him futher in the relationship, however, that isn't a guarantee.
B) Since your two friends don't mind, I can't see anything wrong with it. Except in some situations, the friends may become mad - that doesn't mean it will happen in your case though.
C) I think it's a great idea for the two of you to date, you remind me of my best guy friend and I. So I say, go for it. I would try convincing your mom to let you date him, because it's worth a chance. =)
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First think, are you attracted to him? You seem to be. You do not have to be physically attracted to him; looks aren't everything. If you do want to be more than friends with him, go for it. It's your decision.
As for him dating two girls you used to be friends with, think: does it matter to you? What only matters is what you think and feel. You said they Used To be friends with you? If they're not friends with you now, does it really matter then? And you said yourself that those two friends do not mind.
You said both of you have been friends for a long long time. You seem to have gone through a lot together. Your relationship can withstand anything that's thrown at it. The two of you are open with each other enough to confess your feelings for each other. No matter what happens, I'm sure your friendship will never fail, and it will only soar higher.
In all, do what you think is best. What you think and feel is right. I know you will.
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It depends on how old you are. Im thinking your maybe 9th grade? So dont go and have sex with him to see if you can become attracted to him. I dont think you can be in a serious relationship without any phyiscal attration.
Dont worry about the two friends. If they werent months/year long relationships then its fine. I know those 2 weeks of I love you relationships dont mean a thing, so dont even worry. Go for it! =D
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i think you should go for it
but make sure you two decide that no matter what happens you two will always stay good friends
talk to your mom and say that its ok with the other girls and they weren't serious or anything
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No and yes.
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