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Boy Mix Up
I have an amazing boyfriend who loves me and cares about me and wants to be with me. The problem is that i still think about my ex sometimes because he was my first real boyfriend. Should I hold off on going into another relationship because of my ex or should I go for it and take a chance on this new relationship?
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In my opinion, Rahzie gave you the best advice, but I'm going to give this question my best shot. If you still want to be with your ex and want things to work out between the two of you, I do not recommend dating this guy. As Rahzie said, if you're just thinking about the relationship and know that it just couldn't have worked out, then I think that's totally ok and go ahead and date the guy.
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There will ALWAYS -let me repeat this- ALWAYS be feelings for the first guy/girl that you have your first relationship with. The problem is, you can't base your whole life on "well..if I'm not over him completely, should I wait or give this new person a chance?" Because then you could be missing out on someone even better. I say move on. Just don't judge your new relationship by thinking of the old one. I swear I should say some of this in the mirror lol Good luck -Adorkable
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it depends. you should go for which one treats you better. if you ex treated you better then your current boyfriend then go with your ex. but dont cheat. you need to tell your current boyfriend that you are better off friends. but if your current boyfriend treats you better, stay with him and explain to your ex.
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Most people never forget their first real boyfriend/girlfriend. It's natural.
If you still like your ex in "that" way, then I don't think you should have a boyfriend. It's unfair on him and you - because you'd be lying to him and yourself.
If things are going good with your boyfriend and you don't have "those" feelings for your ex, then by all means, carry on as you are.
Remember, you guys broke up for a reason. Don't let it keep holding you back.
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It's okay to think about your ex, you may always think about him.
But what sort of thoughts are you having?
If you are wishing you were still togeather then no, you shouldn't dating anyone else.
If you kinda miss him, but are happy and know it wasn't working and don't really want him back, then yes, you are ready to date.
That is my litmus test anyways. Best of luck.
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well it depends on if you still like him and if you two have a possibility of being together again. If not just stick to your boyfriend youll eventually get over your ex.
-hope i helped =]
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