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What is he trying to do now?
I have a guy friend and he wanted to have me as his gf but i just dont have that chemistry for him. So, we are settle for only a friendship not relationship but i know and everyone says he still has feelings for me, but he doesnt mention them because he knows I don't have them for him and he truly loves me as a sister but maybe a little more and everyone tells me it's just going to take some time to get all of the "more than a sister feelings gone. I accepted him to be my brother cuz my real brother never cares for me but i have said before for being just brother and sisters is not a forever thing sooner or later we would have our own separate paths to go.
Anyway, the other day he wrote me a poem saying Life is short:
It takes a min to find a special person
I hr. appreciate them
A day to love them
Entire life to forget them
Send this poem to the people you 'll never forget. It's a short message let them know you'll never forget them. If you dont send it to anyone in a hurry that means you've forgotten your freinds.
I have egnored the poem and the next day he asked me why you stopped emailing me are you upset? He said something wrong? pls tell me I would change and if so im sorry.
I replied him back and said why would i be upset?
I was just busy.
I started to open up and share stories and talked about my day.
The next day he sent me another poem saying:
Friends are like stars
You can't always see them , but you know that they're there and they shine brightness when all seems dark.
Thank you for being my friend.
He also sent a teddybear pic and saying if I would like a teddybear for x-mas.
So, is he saying he'll never forget me and we should really enjoy the friendship while it last?
I dont know why it seem to be a big thing to him. Have he given up on me and settle to be a brother? or maybe he is still trying?
I know I dont like the way he looks. He isnt' handsome but everytime when I recevied his calls, emails, or poems. I'm thrilled and i feel special. DO I actually have feelings for him?
or maybe I just like the attention?
I know if I dont hear from him for 3 days I would wonder what happened? I would start miss hearing from him cuz we been talking for 6 months everyday and it seem I'm addicted to checking my emails daily and knowing he would call me everyday.
I'm not sure if its the addiction but when he added a new girl just on fb before and msg her i would get curious who she was and would get mad at him. ( well now he doesn't do that anymore) but
maybe is nature that women likes the attention and i just feel he had given part of my attention to the other person and that's why
i didnt liked it but that doesnt mean i was jealous and like him right?
p.s
I'm not sure if i want to get into a relationship but is it possible that ill fall for him one day?
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well honey
he hasn't given up on you and it sounds to me like he is a real charmer. and you need to know that looks are not everything and that you will not always look the way you look now and he will not always look the ways he looks now. so i would not be brother and sister but i would be friends and you should really ask yourself what you want in a bf.
good luck
grandma d
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well to me it seems you have fallen for him, just dont want to admit it since hes not that good looking. idk but he is defenitly sending you those poems to show you he cares about you and eventhought he sends you things about friendships he would love to say much more. Its just since you showed him you dont have thoses feelings for him it would be like for nothing.
-hope i helped =]
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