I'm Melanie. I'm 18 and I don't know what else to write.
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Location: Baton Rouge, LA
Age: 18
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why does guys hair grow faster and longer than girls hair does? (link)
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Most guys generally have shorter hair, so when their hair goes even an inch...it appears to have gotten much longer. Girls have longer hair so it's harder to notice a change like that.
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what's a good makeup for asian eyes.... without making them look even smaller.
thanks in advance! (link)
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I have this problem too.
Covergirl makes an eyeshadow that comes in a trio compact. It has a white color, a light brown, and a darker brown.
Apply the white color onto the entire eyelid. The light brown goes on the bone right under your eyebrow to highlight it. The dark brown in the crease. Use some good mascara and a little eyeliner on the bottom of your eye and it will make your eyes appear a little bigger.
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Okay, when I went tanning today, I went nude...obviously...so when I got home, I noticed a white line from my but to my shoulder on both sides. This has never happened before and I'm wondering why those to stripes didn't tan or whatnot.?????
Also, I'm guessing I have to raise my arms to get my sides tanned..right? (link)
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I had that problem to. Just lay on your side every once in a while.
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Hey my names annemarie, I'm 15 and in tenth grade...I need advice on someone ive been with for 6 mnths on wend. the 14th.Okay heres my problem, I've been dating this guy for 6 mnths but i've been knida sick and so has he,we havent really spent alot of time together but I'm not sure if he..I guess you could say has the feelings he did b4 for me. I dont know if maybe im thinking this way because we havent really spent alot of time together or if maybe thats happening. Me and him spent time together on wend. but i was really sick the that day so i couldnt really say that was a good day so i went home after my track pract. but i dnt think that day was good for him I-ther. I just need to know whether i should maybe take in my thoughts and try to talk with him or just wait to see what happens? Can you give me some advice? Thank-you! If you can please write back the advice as soon as possible to my page on myspace. the title is: Ha-ha! If you cant find me please just write back on this I'll find it .Thx (link)
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I think your best bet is to just talk to him about how you are feeling. If you don't put your feelings out there, they are only going to get worse and you don't want that. You never want to let feeling build up, plus I'm sure you are just reading too deeply into the situation.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. We've been having a hard time lately because I've been very angry with him about stupid things. =/ He just told me it bugged him today & he actually broke up with me.
He's "broke up with me" in the past. But, it seems like he's serious this time, like he kept saying no when I'd say please.
I want to be with him, so bad. I'm seeing him tomorrow & I was thinking about making him something. Can you give me some ideas? Please.. Or just what to say to him.
Thankyou (link)
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I have a very similiar problem to you. I've been with my boyfriend for seven months too and I tend to get upset about things that don't matter.
If he's willing to just walk away and not help you work this out, then you are probably better off.
Relationships are going to get hard sometimes. Obstacles are thrown in your way to see if what you are fighting for, is really worth it.
When you talk to him, just tell him how you feel. Tell him that you are really trying to change and that you just need his help and support and then go from there.
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i personally dont see what is so bad about drugs! maruana(sp) and weed and everything. i would never try it because my parents would freak out, but why is it illegal? all it really does is make you high, which is exactly what alchahol does! if drugs are illegal, alchahol should be aalso!w/ what is the difference? someone please explain to me and why drugs are so bad? (link)
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The person who said that marijuana is better for you than tobacco has no idea what they are talking about. Smoking one joint is the equivalent of smoking 5 cigarettes. I thought I should correct that.
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can you give me a picture of how a chinese or japanese caucasian would look like? also a chinese/japanese (or just asian) african/jamican. like a girl. its for this story im writing.. i have 2 characters like this but i cant visualize like what they may look like. the girls are both fraternal twins, and one has dirty blonde hair, blue-grey eyes, and freckles, while the other has dark brown hair, brown eyes, and no freckles (she looks a little more asian than the other girl). and they are about like 13 years old, but the pic of the person can be older if you cant find a younger version. and please no hentai or whatever. thanks! (link)
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I'm actually half asian and half white. So here's a few pictures of myself.
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hi. well, i work out around 7 every night. for forty minutes. i try to do it an hour after i eat supper.
what i'm wondering is, is this too late to be working out? should i work out earlier? or am i doing this fine?
i'm trying to loose 25lbs. if that helps. any advice on how to get into shape would be helpful. thanks :) (link)
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Eating healthy will definitely help. If you drink a lot of soda, just cutting that out will help you lose some weight. Eating 6 smaller meals throughout the day will also help boost your metabolism. Also try drinking green tea (for the same reason.)
If you have a hunger problem, try eating ice or brushing your teeth. I'm not sure, but for some reason it really does help.
Forty minutes a day is good. As you work out more, slowly increase your workout time. Working out about an hour after eating is the ideal time to work out. So good job so far.
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I have been in a relationship this guy for about 9 months. For now he dosent like to use condoms and i dont either. To be honest we only used condoms a couple of times. I just dont like using condoms,however I am on the depo shot, even though we dont use condoms he nutted in me is it still possible that i can get pregnant. I do think he has low sperm count because his sperm is not completely white, its a little clear/white looking but not white, and he doesnt have any kids. However this other dude that i was messing with before he has a baby and his cum is white, so how come his cum is white and my boyfriends cum is clear looking does that mean he cant have children, because i dont have any childen right now. I am a college student, but i want kids in the future probably with him, but i dont know if he can have kids. he has had alot of girlfriends and doesnt have any kids. (link)
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Okay. I'm also on the shot and my boyfriend and I also do not use condoms. However, I recommend that you get tested for STD's. The shot is VERY effective so I wouldn't worry TOO much. Everyone's cum is different. It might not necessarily mean that he cannot have kids. Just make sure you get your shot on the day you are supposed to and please get an STD test.
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Im planning to get a great beach body before well.. summer. also for school, so i can wear skirts around spring/summertime. How can i get more in shape? i've gained like 10-20 pounds in 1 year i think, which sucks. Im not that fat, and i do basketball (the season is almost over) and i'm about to do soccer, but it may not be enough. (Im also on the dance troupe for my school play, and may join a rock climbling club). anyways how can i lose weight without all those things you gotta buy? i want to lose those 10-20 pounds and possibly a little more, but I dont want it to be dramatic. I usually eat healthy things (with some junk food from time to time), but sometimes i overeat the healthy.. making me gain more weight. Ugh I dont wanna be obese, or overweight.. and I'm 5'4 and 155. I have muscle too, which is I guess why it doesnt appear that I weigh that much, because its not "in fat". and my friends can lift me. but i just wanna get more toned and lose some of the butt fat! lol i have a big butt which i got from being african, but i dont want it too big, or thighs too big either! and my stomach comes out a little.. I NEED A WORKOUT ROUTINE!! and how can i stop overeating? THANKS! (link)
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If you tend to drink a lot of soda, just cutting that out of our diet will actually make you lose weight. I did that a few years ago and lost about 5 lbs in a month. Instead of 3 full meals, 6 small meals throughout the day will boost your metabolism. Chewing on ice also helps with hunger. You can also try sugar-free gum.
As for the working out, try doing about 50 sit-ups a day and slowly increase as you are able. Don't just do the same old regular sit-ups. Lifting your legs while doing crunches, to the side, etc. will help tone different sections of your stomach.
As for your butt, I know from experience how hard it is to get rid of it. Ha. Running, biking, pilates...basically any type of cardio will be the best way to tone your bottom.
Just remember to be healthy and not try to crash diet or anything like that. Your ideal weight loss would be about 1 lb a week. You have some time to lose 10 lbs and that way you can still sneak a little junk food. Don't forget to drink lots of water.
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I do competition cheerleading, and I really want to get a good heel stretch! Heres a picture of one:
http://cheerleading.about.com/library/graphics/stunts/csa_heelstretch.jpg
http://www.lwhs.lapeer.org/Athletics/Cheerleading/final%20pictures/JV/heel%20stretch.jpg
I at least want my leg to go like the girl in the second picture. Like when I try to unbend my leg it hurts so I have to stop. Are there any stretchs or things I can do to get my leg to go up? Also, eventually how could I get my leg as straight as that girl in the first picture's? (link)
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I'm not sure if you put the pictures in the right order, because it looks like the first picture has a better extension than in the second. Anyways, I just recommend sitting in a split. Lean forward and get your body as close to your leg and you can get. Then lean back as far as you can. Remember to keep your knees down and point your toes. If you had access to a ballet barre, that would also be a good idea to help with stretching. All you can really do is keep practicing and remember to stretch EVERY night.
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Okay, I'm 17/m and have a beautiful girlfriend that I've even promised to merry(sp?). Anyways, I have a friend that I was talking to, 15/f, and we got into a discussion. This discussion was about sex, we were talking and she asked me what I was thinking about. This was kind of weird because she usually can assume what it is. She kept wanting to know and then she asked me to email her my fantasies that I have about her. I hate to say this but I do have fantasies about her as well as my gf and sometimes all three of us. I know most of you think thats sick but were all young and young people do stupid things. Anyways, I'm scared and don't know what to do. Should I give into temptation and reveal my fantasies or keep them to myself? Is this feeling unnatural? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!! I'm sooooooo confused!
Thank you.
P.S. Me and my gf are perfectly happy with each other. We never fight, we love each other to death. We've been going out for 1 year. (link)
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Having fantasies is completely normal. However, if you have a fantasy about another girl...you shouldn't tell her about it. It may end up ruining your relationship with your current girlfriend. I know if I found out that my boyfriend did something similar to me, it would be over.
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I am going to be 20 in march and Im a female. I've had a man for 3 years this july. He's in the military so its like im livin two lives. Neways, I went out with my friend and I met this boy. He is so sweet and we hit it off pretty good. I've ended up stayin at his house hangin out, talkin to him, gettin to know him better for the last week or two. I love my boyfriend, but i got feelings for this other one. I dont know if i should tell my boyfriend that we need some space. Should i see what its like with this other guy? Take the chance? Is it true that if i realize i messed up by lettin him go, we will find our way back to eachother again? (link)
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If you've been with a guy for 3 years then I'm sure you both have very strong feelings for each other. If you two have a good, stable relationship...I wouldn't risk it. Remember, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
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im a small woman(118lbs) and my boyfriend is a big guy with a big dick and im always afraid to have sex with him because it hurts, even after a few times of doing it. i want to stretch out so i dont have to make him stop everytime we have sex because i know it hurts his feelings but he doesnt like when i masturbate, he finds it insulting that i have to pleasure myself because im not getting it from him. so what are some things that i can do with him that will help me stretch out, i really love him and want sex to be special, not painful. (link)
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I've had this problem and I hate to say it, but it usually takes a while to "stretch" out. It took me about 5 months. :[ What my boyfriend and I did was use KY and lubricated condoms and then I would be on top. (That way you can kind of control how fast it goes b/c you know if it hurts better than he does.) Lots of foreplay will definitely help. Try some teasing to build up some anticipation. Besides that, it's just a waiting game.
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So i recently asked a Q about what I should do with this guy I like hwo is 18 and I am almost 15 on whether or not we should date. And I have been getting anwsers of "its a bad idea" Well what about, Not officially dating, but hang out, hug, kiss, hold hands, and talk and stuff? Is that still wrong? I care about him a lot and I just want to share something with him... Eeeck I do not know what to do. Help! (link)
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The main reason most people might think it's a bad idea is because it would be considered stat. rap if y'all were to have sex. However, I don't think age is a big deal. If you aren't planning on having sex, then I say go for it. I know what it's like to be attracted to older guys. Just be careful.
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ok to get to the point i am a cutter and i don't cut because i am depressed i cut because it gives me a nice rush i think i might be bipolar because i looked it up on wikipedia and it said that people who are bipolar do that and ilike the feeling of getting body piercings so can someone please tell me if i am. (link)
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You can't believe everything that's up on Wikipedia. I'm bipolar myself...clinically diagnosed and I'm not a cutter and never have been. Bipolar has nothing to do with pain. It deals w/ extreme mood swings.
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i need help !!
ok i have green eyes and blck eyeliner doesnt look very good (it makes me look kinda goth cuz of my eyes) what color should i use that would look the best for my eyes ?? plz help !! (link)
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Try a charcoal grey.
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ok ill get strait to the point! My boyfriend is big!! He is bigger than the other guys i've seen! he has fingered me and everything but he couldn't get 2 fingers in, just 1. we tried to pull a wuicky (have sex quickly) for the first time for both of us and I am too small. so if we use a lubricated condom will he slide in? or do we have to push and force it? (link)
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I've actually had this problem with my boyfriend. We used both KY jelly and lubricated condoms. Do not force it. Trust me. It will hurt for days. I usually get my boyfriend to start but very slowly and carefully. Once he gets in, then I get on top so I can control it. Don't worry. It will get better.
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I have a friend and it is more of a relationship. We have had sex and all kinds of stuff like that. But when we are in bed he says that i am great and all kinds of stuff like that and that i am the best kisser out of everyone he has kissed. And we make bets and a couple of times i had to give him head. And he says that i am amazing and stuff like that. And then he asked me out and i am just wondering if he actually likes me or if he just wants to get some.. please help. (link)
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That's a hard question to answer. He's already gotten some without being in a relationship with you. So he might really want to be in a relationship with you.
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I know this is a stupid question, but HOW exactly are abortions performed..
Does it hurt the woman or do they give the woman amnethsia?? (link)
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One of the people below me gave you false information. Plan B is NOT an abortion pill. It is to be taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex, but if you are already pregnant..it will NOT harm the existing fetus. Sorry. I thought I should correct that.
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