|
small girl big guy
im a small woman(118lbs) and my boyfriend is a big guy with a big dick and im always afraid to have sex with him because it hurts, even after a few times of doing it. i want to stretch out so i dont have to make him stop everytime we have sex because i know it hurts his feelings but he doesnt like when i masturbate, he finds it insulting that i have to pleasure myself because im not getting it from him. so what are some things that i can do with him that will help me stretch out, i really love him and want sex to be special, not painful.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
I've had this problem and I hate to say it, but it usually takes a while to "stretch" out. It took me about 5 months. :[ What my boyfriend and I did was use KY and lubricated condoms and then I would be on top. (That way you can kind of control how fast it goes b/c you know if it hurts better than he does.) Lots of foreplay will definitely help. Try some teasing to build up some anticipation. Besides that, it's just a waiting game.
]
Have him finger you a lot. that always strechs it out. have him do it for 15-20 minutes for a few days and then try sex. use lubrication. lubricated condoms. anything helps
Hope I Helped :)
]
You guys should have sex a lot to prevent it hurting. Or maybe use a lubricant so it doesn't hurt so much.
]
More Questions: |