My period ended 3 days before schedual. I have stomach pains. Light headed every time I walk around. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two weeks ago. Saying all this, could i possibly be pregnant? How would I tell my mom? I'm only 16.
You very well could be pregnant... You may need to wait another week or so till you can do a test because some wont tell if you're pregnant till 3 or 4 weeks after the incident... But thats the only way you will find out. Unless you wait for your next period.
If your mum knows that you're sexually active it may be easier to tell her. But if she doesnt, then telling her first that you're sexually active may be a better option. Then just say "i know it was a stupid thing to do and i wish i hadnt done it but we had unprotected sex and i am pregnant".
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F/15
ok well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now but i'm scared to kiss him. I have nooooo idea what to do and I'm really scared of stuffing up. He understands I'm not readdy yet but I don't want to tell him the reall reason y. I really want to kiss him but I don't know what to do?!??
I was so scared to kiss a boy when i was a teenager. I had boyfriends who didnt last long because i was afraid to kiss them. I had the same issues, i just didnt know what to do, thought i'd make a mistake, thought i would do it all wrong... But the first time i ever did it, it was with someone totally random and it just happened. It really does come naturally. You just have to work up the courage to do it once then after that its pretty awesome!!
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Im 17 f. So theres this guy, lets call him joe. joe and i was having sex since november. we both are in a relationship with some one else. Even though i know that joe is a dog and is only using me for sex i cant leave him alone. I hate that i keep having sex with him, i really want to stop. I know im not insecure so what could be the reason why i allow this boy to treat me like im nothing?
I had a similar experience a few years ago... Because i suffered with depression i was highly medicated and i did alot of things i regret (the affair being one of them). I put it down to the fact that i was getting attention that my then partner wasnt giving me. The other guy made me feel wanted and it was a huge adrenalin rush for me. In the end i had to stop because i had gotten into too many bad situations because of the affair...
But anyway, what im trying to say is that you're young, and you're having fun. Let it happen. Cheating isnt fair on your partner, but at the time, when i was doing it, it was worth the rush!!!!
I ended up leaving my relationship to be with the guy who i was cheating with... Best decision i ever made, but also the hardest!!!
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I dunno if this is the right group to put this in but lately my teeth have been hurting when I bite into things, like taco's an cheerio's, an I don't think its a cavity, because it feels like their all pushing together
P.S. dunno if this helps but all four of my wisdom teeth are in =( ...
Your wisdom teeth are probably pushing all your teeth together. You need to get them taken out.
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I love my parents to death but there are times where i really dont get them. like my cellphone has been broken for months and i can't get a new one. instead i got a hideous hand-me-down. im just tired of them both being so money savvy! like for once can't they just splurge and go wild? its always so structured and they never just break out and go "lets get some ice cream!". they're not spontaneous at all, and i am a very spontaneous person and it drives me crazy when we fall into a simple, boring schedule.
i have a really hard time with questions too, and they ask WAY too many questions all the time. it drives me crazy, and ive tried to ask them to be more layed back and ask LESS questions but it never works. it feels like they dont trust me at all and like i dont deserve to have fun. im having a really hard time with them, and because i love them so much, i dont want our relationship to crumble. please help me figure out how to make this better
im 14 female
Why dont you be realistic for a minute and consider that your parents may not have the money for 'splurging'?? I think you're being selfish. Think yourself lucky you have a cellphone at all.
It is stressful finding the money to pay the rent or mortgage and to pay bills, put food in the cupbords and buy shoes and clothes and all that for kids...
Be patient and deal with the phone you have and maybe when you stop being so needy they might get you what you want.
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When you masturbate is it bad for your health?
No, quite the opposite...
When you climax, it releases endorphins which make you happy... Also reduces stress, headaches, depression...
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This summer has been kind of bad for me. I did some not so great things so far, especially for my age (16). I've had sex with probably close to 15 or 20 guys already this summer and one of them was pretty old (like 35). I was falling into some really bad stuff and even accepted money for a few blow jobs.
I am now seeing that this is probably not the best thing to do. I am so glad I am not pregnant but there seems to be this one really big problem.
I started to have some weird discharge from my vagina and burning when I peed. I thought it was just a yeast infection and kind of ignored it. I tried some of that store brand stuff and it didn't go away.
Things kind of got stranger. I had sex with another guy and it was pretty painful but I couldn't figure out why. I started having some lower pains all day long. The pains haven't stopped.
I looked up signs and symptoms of STDs because I was afraid I might have caught something. I do have a lot of the symptoms of chlamydia and I think it's very possible that I have it. Some of the guys I did were...not so clean...
What do I do now? I can't tell my mom about this because she's going to be mad she has to take me to the doctor. Will it go away on it's own? Can I buy medicine at the store for it? If I have sex like tomorrow would I pass it to the guy or could I do something to clear this up and make it safe again?
You're an idiot. If you're going to be a slut, use condoms. Then you wont get STDs. Serves you right for being a whore! Go to a clinic and get some antibiotics before it gets worse and u lose the ability to have children when you're older.
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In response to your feedback... I have this to say:
Condoms DO protect you against STDs. How about YOU get informed. Stop sleeping around. Have respect for yourself and your body!!
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well me and my boyfriend are both virgins. and well hes 18 and im 17 going to be 18 in september. well he says i have to wait til i turn 18 to have sex or a baby. cuz he dusnt wnt to hear crap from my mom. and if im an dult then i can do it. well also that way we can both make sure we are ready. we both love eachother very much. and we have been together for over a year already. well i really dont have a question but im scared that once we do have a baby that something will happen and i wont be able to have one. is there any way that i can make sure everything inside my body will work right once i get to 18 cause i want a baby..his baby more then anything. and i dotn want something to happen and like we cant have a baby. you know?! like for example i eat hot cheetos like all the time. is there any way that can ruin my things on the inside that will keep me from getting pregnant.? someone please answer this i know i have time but if theres any adviceid really like to start watching out for it now. that way there is no problems when i get there. so please and thankyou soo much!! xoxo
If you want to get pregnant basically on your first time you're crazy... Having a baby is like pushing a basketball out a hole made for a tennis ball... AND if you're a virgin and get pregnant straight away, 9 months is not very long to get your downstairs area used to things going in (or coming out)... WAIT!!! I know you feel like this is what you want or this is what you need, but take it from me, and i would know... It will not hurt you to wait another year or two or three... or ten...
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Okay, I am 15, virgin. I would like to finger myself but I'm not sure how to even do it. How do I break my hymen? Am I to young? I don't know what to do, I want to try it so I know what actual sex will be like, of course when I'm married. However, I'm scared. How do I calm down and just do it? Will it be painful? Just tell me anything, please. I appreciate it.
Just touch yourself down there till something feels good... Dont focus soley on 'putting a finger in there'... There's lots of fun stuff to do down there so take your time and explore your body!!
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Okay i am freaking out! My laptop is practicallly new, its about 1 year old(little less), and this is the first time i have ever had a problem with it~
Okay so about 10 minutes a go I was playing the sims 3 like i do every day and my computer just crashed i guess. It turned off No warning nothing! It was plugged in and everything.
So then I tried to turn it back on and it crashed again within 5 seconds. I did this 2 more times, same thing. So i left it for about 10 minutes and tried again, now it is on. What do i do . I can't afford a new laptop is this a common problem.
My laptop did that when i played the sims 2... Something about those kind of games being laptop unfriendly... Or it could be your graphics card. I was told that could have been the cause of mine crashing.
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Female / 15 / nsw, AUSTRALIA!!!
Ok, when I'm 16 can I legally move out?
And is that with or without my parent's consent?
Like, I want to move out, but my parents wont let me and I have a family with a house whom is more than willing to take me in... I just want to know when I can legally do this?
Thanks.
xxx
I moved out when i was 16. My mum didnt really care though. She didnt do anything to stop me. You need to really think about it. Once you're out you may never be able to go back. And being independant at such a young age is VERY HARD!!
Talk to your parents. There may be a compromise you guys can come up with.
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My period is late 9 days, should I be worrying?
When should I start worrying that I am pregnant?
If you;re usually pretty regular now would be the time to take a test...
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14/f
what happens if i get pregnant? like will i be able to move out of my parents house? and live with my boyfriend? or will i have to stay home? and how would i tell my parents? what if i runaway and call my parents and tell them. will i have to go back home? because i know my parents dont want me to do this. and would pretty much beat me if i did. but i dont care about them. they just make my life worse and worse everyday. and starting a family sounds like the best thing to me right now. im not actually pregnant. but im kinda thinking about it. because of things ive talked about with my boyfriend. i know your gonna say dont do it. and im not ever sure i want to do this. so PLEASE dont tell me i shouldn't do it. or how its going to ruin my life. because it wont ruin my life. my boyfriend already has things planned out if i do want to do this. and no. he's not pushing me to do this. its only if i want to. and i just want these questions answered before i do make a decision.
thanks for the help.
- cuttechick24
Seriously, you are so young...
I got pregnant by choice at 17 and it was the best but the hardest thing i've ever done. The pregnancy was physically draining on my young body and extremely difficult on my emotions...
At 14 you are not mature enough to decide how to raise a child. Its really selfish to even consider creating a human at your age. You think a baby will fix everything??? IT WONT!
Finish school, get a job then have a baby.
You can not ask a question like this then sy "dont say i shouldnt do it"...
DONT DO IT!!! Easy answer!
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I'm a first time mom and I feel so lost. I have no idea if and when my baby is hungry. :( and I feel like such a terrible mother.
My baby is 7 weeks old, and he will breastfeed for around 10 minutes. and then come off and latch back on. but once he latches back on he just cries and cries. so i feel like maybe hes still hungry but hes just not getting enough from me. If i give him his pacifier though he happily sucks it. but then i feel guilty thinking well maybe hes sucking it because hes hungry.
I just would like a straightforward answer as to how to know when my baby is hungry and how to know when hes full and just crying for the sake of crying.
because now whats happening is he'll cry and i'll check his diaper..and its fine. and then try to feed him and he will latch on.. i dont have to coax him. but once hes latched on he starts to scream.
PLEASE please please someone help me!
I used to freak out too... Whatever you do, dont stop breastfeeding because of this... Just feed him till he stops and sit him up and rub his back till he burps. No more then 15 minutes then offer him the breast again. If he takes it let him suck for as long as he wnts. If he doesnt then he is full.
Just relax. If you're freaking out so is he. He gets his emotional que from whatever he feels from you.
If he cries do all the checks. If you just fed him, burp him... then check his nappy (diaper) then check to see if anything is poking him in the wrong place...
There is no right or wrong answer when it comes to babies...
I dont know if i have helped or just confused you more... But good luck!
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Hey everyone,
So I'm writing a paper on suicide and depression and I just am curious and want opinions to this question: "Would you kill a loved one if they asked you to?" Put yourself in a situation where someone you really love like your boyfriend/girlfriend, mom/dad, brother/sister etc. was so depressed and they werent getting better and they wanted to die and they came to you and asked you to pull the trigger or kill them. think of it as there is no way they will get better because nothing has helped and if you say no they will still go through with the suicide. if they seriously ask you to pull the trigger for them would you do it for your loved one because they are in more pain now then they would be after?
hope that makes sense! thanks to anyone who helps me out with this :)
Depression is treatable. I would know...
I would not ever ever take another human life. Unless someone took the life of one of my kids.
People who are depressed always always think that its never going to get better and the only way out is death, but thats exactly what depression does and believe me, it is treatable!!
Medication, exercise, meditation, herbal remedies, experiencing things you're passionate about... It all works.
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So I'm 16 years old; my boyfriend of 2 years is 18. We're pretty serious (although we are young). I've never been on birth control and my periods are pretty consistent and normal. On April 12th, I started my period. It ended on April 16th. I had sex April 18th (early morning). So it was whatever then on April 26th it looked as if I was starting my period again, only it was light and stopped after a day. I googled it and it said I could have been spotting. I wouldn't be concerned with this normally but I've never spotted, ever. Also it says that I was ovulating (and was extremely fertile) the following week after I had sex. It's also a fact that sperm can live inside of you for 3 to 5 days. I started ovulating on April 21st or 22nd I believe. April 18th is only 3 or 4 days from that. So I'm a little worried. I haven't missed a period yet because my period isn't due until May 10th. I'm just wondering if this sounds like I could be pregnant or am I just worrying over nothing. Please help. Thanks in advance. xx.
I dont want to critisize, but how can you be having a serious relationship and being sexually active and not be on birth control?
You're only 16! If by some lucky chance you arent pregnant you need to get on birth control ASAP.
No one can say if they think you are pregnant or not. Only a test can tell you for sure. But to me it looks like you could be. I'd say theres more of a chance you are then you arent.
My advice comes from getting pregnant (by choice) at 17, so i kinda know a bit about being young and having kids... Its not easy.
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I am married woman having an affair with a married man. The guy happens to be a client at a company where I work. We always flirted with each other when he came to the office. I knew he was married from inception and vice versa. One day he came to the office and gave me his phone number and asked me to call him, when I did, he told me straight up what it was that he wanted. I thought he was rather bold, but admired the fact that he was so honest. The affair has been going on for one year now. Here is how my story goes. I have been married for approximately nine years, I was nothing but the perfect wife to my husband. I never even dreamed of cheating on him. I cooked, clean, and did everything to make him happy, but he was the type of husband who does not know how to give a woman what she wants. My husband was never affectionate, we only had sex when he wanted it, he doesn't like kissing and he doesn't like to be touched. I on the other hand am the total opposite. He never complimented me on anything, he only knew of negative criticism. We argued on a daily basis because everything I did or said was never good enough. So we would argue. What made me start the affair was when I decided enough was enough. I was tired of being the good wife, living to make everyone else but myself happy, and I think curiosity played a small factor as well. I decided to take the married guys proposition and I must agree that that was the best love making I ever experienced in my life. Our body chemistry was great. We complimented each other. He would constantly compliment me and he was just plain nice. He would take me out to lunch, something my husband has never done in 9 years of being married to him. He would always be there to listen to me when I was down or needed a shoulder to cry on and he just always made me feel special. He told me from the beginning that he had no intentions of leaving his wife and children and that they came first, I had no problem with this. I feel that if he was to leave his wife that our relationship would not be the same as it is now, I think I like it the way it is. Because I knew he was married I would always build up this wall in my mind only allowing myself to go so far with him because I didn't want to allow myself to fall in love with him, but I did. I sometimes felt guilty that I was cheating on my husband and decided to end the affair, I talked it over with my lover and although he didn't want me to quit the affair he decided to give me my space. But I would become miserable when I couldn't hear from him for a few days. I have fallen for him, but I have no intention of leaving my husband. I love them both, but I love my lover more. My lover and I eventually became distant for about a month and now had lunch together yesterday and he is telling me that he needs me, and that he belongs to me. His wife is now pregnant and I sometimes I wonder if he needs me only because he is not getting any from his wife. He told me that he has never cheated on his wife before, but there was just something about me from the day he met me that he knew he just had to persue. I like being with this guy, but I don't want to be used for my body. I asked him if he loves me and he said yes. He never talks about his wife when we are together. We always have great sex, but I know our relationship cannot go anywhere and I don't want to be a cheater forever, but my husband will not step up to the plate. I've already suggested counselling, he won't go. I go to bed in sexy lingerie, he falls asleep. I touch him, he pushes me away, what am I to do... Any suggestions...
I know what you're going through... I really do! I had a very very similar experience a couple of years ago, except without each of us being married.
My lover and i ended up leaving our respective partners and now are happily living together and having a child. However it seems like your lover isnt going to leave his wife any time soon.
You need to leave your husband. Thats my first thought. There is no love there, he doesnt treat you right.
My instincts about your lover is that he wants you for one thing and he will say anything (like he loves you) for sex. He is having a baby with his wife and moving forward and it is clear to me that he wants you for just one thing.
If i were you i'd leave my husband. It will be hard and crazy and emotional but it will work out for the best for you. Whether or not you continue the affair is up to you and your conscience. Can you put yourself in his wife's shoes? What if she found out? She's at home, looking after a tiny little baby and finds out her husbands having an affair... It'd destroy anyone. Thats why i ended my affair and began a new relationship with the man i truely loved.
Good luck...
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i just got that device for birth control that goes in your arm adn it last 3 yrs.. well since then my ovaries hurt and feel like their throbbing. i got put on this cuz it was the safest i have a heart defect.. so i have to be careful but also ever since i got it put in ive had my period which is like a month or so... is this bad
It happens... I had the same thing in my arm and had my period (only really lightly) for 12 weeks straight. The doctor will tell you that you need to give it time so your body can get used to it. However, from the beginning my periods were 3 weeks on 3 weeks off for almost a year. Then i had them for 12 weeks straight and got it removed.
Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt... There's other things you can try if you cant handle it.
If your period is heavy, you should get it removed immediately. If its only light then you need to think about if you want to wait and see if it goes away or get it removed and try something else...
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Okay, So I am 13 and me and my friends want to do a wiji board. We were thinking of doing it in my room or across the street. But I wanted to know what others think? Like is it safe.. Could we be harmed and if you have done it, do you regret it? And how many people do you need. We were just going to do it with 4 people all girls. And we are all 13. And I don't have the board yet. & Is it true that you cant get rid of them easily?
OK, i had an experience with something similar few years ago, it was a board called 'The psychic Circle'.
It was all innocent we each thought the other was controlling it when in fact it was working because it was telling us things that the others didnt know.
However, i was told that i was going to be having twin boys within 12 months of using it, and i had a baby girl 2 years later.
Putting it bluntly, we were tricked by evil spirits into believing our dead loved ones were talking to us and one of those spirits possessed one of my friends and caused her to harm herself in her sleep and have a misscarriage. Seeing her struggle to fight off the demon who claimed to love her and hate the child in her belly was really hard. She didnt remember a thing the next morning, but it lives in my memory forever as one of the scariest things i've ever witnessed...
So in conclusion... Think about it before you do it. It seems like something fun to do but it can turn out horrible!! Or then again it can just be something you and your friends fake through and have a laugh about...
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First things first, I would like no comments on my age, and no comments regarding whether or not I am ready to conceive because only I know whether I am, and I haven't come here to ask about my age.
Sorry if that sounds rude.
Basically, I have been trying to conceive with my partner for quite some time now.
A few facts regarding me and my health status:
Age - 19
Health - Perfect, never really suffer with sickness or colds etc
Menstrual Cycle - Perfect, always on time, medium flow for 5-7 days.
I cannot understand why I am unable to currently conceive, I do understand from various research that focusing on conceiving whilst having intercourse can affect the chances by quite a high amount, however although sometimes I do find I concentrate on that a little too much, most of the time I completely forget because I'm having to good an orgasm!
My partner is 22, and he also has very good health and is generally a very healthy person.
We have intercourse fairly often, sometimes we get so frustrated with not being able to conceive that we give up for a week or so, but we do normally try to ''baby dance'' on a regular basis, we don't do it every night, as I understand this can decrease fertility, and we don't normally skip loads of days, or ''save up sperm'' because that also decreases fertility.
What do you think the chances are that my partner or I cannot conceive? (Considering we are very healthy, and not exactly old).
The main question is, does anybody have any advice that may help us conceive? Thank you for taking the time to read.
Have sex every day on the 14th 15th and 16th day after your period started...
If it doesnt work after a couple months, or if you just wanna be sure about when you're ovulating, buy a test kit or 4 and test for when you're ovulating.
Try not to stress about getting pregnant. Its hard, but just think of it as something that will happen when its time to...
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