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Sex gone wrong
Im 17 f. So theres this guy, lets call him joe. joe and i was having sex since november. we both are in a relationship with some one else. Even though i know that joe is a dog and is only using me for sex i cant leave him alone. I hate that i keep having sex with him, i really want to stop. I know im not insecure so what could be the reason why i allow this boy to treat me like im nothing?
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Because maybe your not getting good enough sex for your own relationship. You should talk to you boyfriend and maybe if he realises how you feel you could talk about it. then you wouldn't have to put up with this gut treating you like crap. Tell this guy your not going to see him again, talk to your boyfriend, if he refuses to talk about it or things just don't work even if he tries, maybe you'll both need to see someone , break up, or even try and spice up your sex life with different things.
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I had a similar experience a few years ago... Because i suffered with depression i was highly medicated and i did alot of things i regret (the affair being one of them). I put it down to the fact that i was getting attention that my then partner wasnt giving me. The other guy made me feel wanted and it was a huge adrenalin rush for me. In the end i had to stop because i had gotten into too many bad situations because of the affair...
But anyway, what im trying to say is that you're young, and you're having fun. Let it happen. Cheating isnt fair on your partner, but at the time, when i was doing it, it was worth the rush!!!!
I ended up leaving my relationship to be with the guy who i was cheating with... Best decision i ever made, but also the hardest!!!
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First, Joe isn't treating you like you're nothing. It's not exactly an insult when a man wants to have sex with you. Second, he may be thinking exactly the same way you are. Maybe he thinks you're just using him for sex. Who knows? Truth of the matter is, you are treating him exactly the same way he treats you.
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Maybe you just have a physical attraction to him? I mean you didn't really give any more info on how you feel about him specifically so I can't really give an honest answer. But if you feel like you can't get his body out of your own head then maybe you have a attraction to his body or maybe he is a good fuck(lol sorry for the profanity)... but yeah. I mean you can message me for more advice but please give good info.
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