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Hi, My real name is Christian. I'm 15 going on sixteen in march. I have problems like anyone else here which is why I try to help you guys. Because I know that like me all you guys need is some advice hence the site lol:]. You can contact me on my AIM or MSN just specify yourself don't say "OH I'm that guy you helped out.", Like if your name is John say "I'm John.", :D. I don't expect to make friends out of this but if you want to be friends I'll give you my Myspace. Anyways...Goodbye.
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Joe is the type of boy thats wants nothing more then sex. He did so much wrong things to me for instince hit me call me alot of names to make me feel like im nothing, he got me prego then told me to kill it because he refuse to have a baby by a hoe. He does so much to me but i still cant leave him alone. And his sex isnt even that good so what can it really be (link)
Wow.. seems like he isn't that swell of a guy.

Well.. was he your first guy? like having sex with?


My best friend has been kicked out of her apartment twice now coz she has been caught with her roommates stuff. I just found out a while ago and I was trying to contact her but her cell is off and she is not responding to my e-mails. I'm really worried about her, she is suffering some family problem and I suspect she has an OCD. Her boyfriend is no help either. He just won't talk to us and her parents seems not to care. (link)
Well the best thing you can do is stay calm, I know that sounds stupid considering the situation, but I'm pretty sure you are thinking about her being hurt, which might not be the case. But her boyfriend not talking to you guys does seem a bit suspicious. Just keep trying her cell, and if all else fails call 9-1-1.


So im pretty sure I have the 2g 8gb iPod touch. Just yesterday the internal speakers stopped working. They're not busted or anything the alarm still works but you can't hear anything from any other app. The side buttons do not work and when you're listening to music and go to now playing there is no volume bar. But, when I plug in the headphones the bar comes back, you can hear it, and the side buttons work. Anybody else have this problem? I've looked up almost everything on Google about it and none of the stuff has worked..
I've tried:
-restoring my iPod.
-resetting it.
-turning ON the volume control & airplane mode.
-putting in the headphones, pausing music and taking them out and then playing the music.
-putting it in my docking station (other threads said it was the problem because it got unplugged before the iPod was taken out) playing the music and taking it out.
I have no warranty, so there's no sending it to Apple.
Somebody please help? ): (link)
Have you dropped your Ipod recently? If so you may have broken the speakers or some part of the motherboard thing.

You could go to an apple store and have them diagnose it. :D
That's all I know.


What makes crystal light change color when you pour it in water?!
I need to know, FAST!
My friend asked me yesterday, and if I find it before she does,she has to fill my water jug alllll week :D
I know it's a stupid question, but she asked me when she was really exausted yesterday at band camp.
I know what you're thinking.
This one time at band camp... (link)
I think it's food coloring.. xD


You know how everyones like "oh I want plump, pouty lips, it's soooo hot!" yeah. well I don't have that problem.
My lips are HUGE! Constantly swollen.
Ok maybe not huge, but big.
How do I bring down my dino-lips?
Hmm...do dinosaurs have lips?
You don't need to answer that last one.
But still...
RAWR (link)
When you mean swollen? Were you born like that or did you get bit by something?

If you were born like that then.. I have no idea, my mom is a Dermatologist but she is asleep at the moment.. so bad timing for me to answer this haha... but yeah. If it is how you were born then I don't believe there is much. O:

Maybe Cosmetic Surgery?


Im 17 f. So theres this guy, lets call him joe. joe and i was having sex since november. we both are in a relationship with some one else. Even though i know that joe is a dog and is only using me for sex i cant leave him alone. I hate that i keep having sex with him, i really want to stop. I know im not insecure so what could be the reason why i allow this boy to treat me like im nothing? (link)
Maybe you just have a physical attraction to him? I mean you didn't really give any more info on how you feel about him specifically so I can't really give an honest answer. But if you feel like you can't get his body out of your own head then maybe you have a attraction to his body or maybe he is a good fuck(lol sorry for the profanity)... but yeah. I mean you can message me for more advice but please give good info.

- Castro


Okay... This guy asked me out yesterday... But he is a Coulerd and i am white. I really like him alot but he broke my heart a few months ago. He aked me out and then told me 3 days later he has a gf. There have been other Boys but none of them took his place and as soon as they said they loved me i backed out. I am 14 and he is 16 and i know my parents wont be okay with it if they found out(the skincolour). No one knows about it yet but soon they will start finding out. I dont know what to do now. Last time the whole school was gossiping about me and i sort of got a bad name. My best friend is black and worried i get hurt again. We always have to be on the lookout but he doesnt care who knows or finds out and i do but im to scared to tell him that... i like him but i am not so sure i love him. He said that he lovez me. Sumhow i trust him but i saw some of the letters him and one of my friends wrote to each other and he said he likes me... alot and i have a talanted body. i Dont understand or really know him and he thinks im really shy but he doesnt even look at me when he talks to me. i like him but i dont love him but i dont think i wanna lose him without even trying to make it all work. I dunno what to do... i am a 14 year old girl from South Africa. HELP!!! (link)
Well, you need to talk to your parent or they will never trust you in relationships. Also if he treated you like that...he ain't really worth it.
You need to think for yourself. There are tons of guys in this world. :D


well yea is true.but i made up my mind and am just going to stay here! i think its better and just go overthere for two months in july for vacation and then come back and finish my senior year! and then go back (link)
Sorry for late reply, again.
But that's great! :D
Hope you have fun there!


i took lessons starting three years ago. Guitar & clarinet lessons for over a year and taught myself piano. i could play nearly anything on guitar or clarinet, and alot on piano and I wrote a lott of good songs. The thing is I’m so jealous of my past?? i try & try yet i suck, i cant understand any guitar or piano notes but i can do tab slowly, and suck at writing songs they don’t flow. i was in track&field and cheerleading and was very social and with friends everyday. I had a mentally hell time including rape, schizo and rehab.. now i don’t talk really and only go out with my boyfriend and if friends pick me up and make me come with them yet I constantly need to be doing something either shopping or muay thai or painting just something. My life revolved around friends and arts of all kinds I want that back how can I get it. I practice nonstop but its not the same. (link)
Your mentally blocking yourself because of the rape and stuff..you probably want to forget it and your trying so hard your losing yourself, Also you go through major personality changes as something like rape happens. So maybe get a shrink to help or a school guidance counselor


its alright..it was about me moving with my dad in the dominican republic . to do my senior year over there but i want to come back for my firts year of college. am just scared that i will have to repeat a year (my senior year) when i come back. (link)
Ohhhh well you never know
my friend had to repeat it and she said it was kinda fun...but yeah it sucks. Maybe you can talk you dad into letting you finish your senior year? I mean it is for school, so yeah.


ahhh that suks..so i guess am just going to stay here..idk am really confused.because i do wanna live with my dad overthere. (link)
woah..i am confused..what we're we talking about? Im so sorry but i was with my family overseas :(


well am a junior in high school and if i go to the dominicn republic and do my senior year overthere and come back for my freshman year in college i think i will have to re-do my senior year here in the u.s.a and that is something i dont want to do.
what do you think? (link)
i think you'll have to re-do it because my friend who is a senior was supposed to graduate last year but she went to the Philippines (her home country)
to live there. And she took her last year there. So I think you do have to re-take it.


Aloha! gsu (link)
uhh hi?


hey! what does partially taken means? (link)
Sorry for late reply...family things.
And it means they are in the process of getting with someone but they are still thinking if its right.


ok i had sex with like only 4 guys would you be able to tell. i mean would i be super loose or no if so is there anything icould do to make myself tighter again (link)
I think after time your "body part" tightens by itself..like how when woman have babies it grows and gets back to normal size. I just asked my sister since i am not a woman. She said it comes back to normal.


Ok...I am a 22 yr old parent of two young children. I live next to my parents. Trying to move to Tennessee. I am a full time college student also... My dad is 50 and acting like 20. My parents are getting a divorce soon, dad brings his other girl to my house all the time, I have said I dont want to get in the middle of things. I dont really talk to my mom anymore b/c she thinks I am on my dads side. He wont tell her he is seeing someone else. My dad has alot of medical problems. Well mom wont pay insurance and he has to wait for disbilitly check to come in to help out. Now he has no insurance, I feel like my mom doesnt want anything to do with me, my dad is doing his own thing. I feel traped. Like I cant move away, that I need to stay and try to help him. Why am I feeling this way??? I want to leave and start over with no drama. I love my parents both so much. I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
Well i know how it feels to be trapped. My parents fight a lot and they never divorce. It's not like your situation but i know how you feel. Talk to your mom and try to reason with her. Tell your dad you don't like his lifestyle and make him come clean to your mother. Then if that doesn't work...just move away. My dads a diabetic and he is 68 :| he never takes care of himself so i have to. I'm only 15. But your 22 and you have two young children to take care of. They are your main priority. So make sure they are safe, well educated and most of all happy. Your parents should be old enough to discuss their own problems and deal with there medical problems.
Hope i helped.


My best friend is a sweetheart. I mean, he's the nicest person ever in the world. He waits for me in classes, he carries my stuff, he treats me anything I want, he refuses to sleep unless if I sleep [like when its really late], he drives to pick me up sometimes after my afterschool activities to treat me ice cream, and many more. I always tell him "no matter how many thank yous I say, it'll never be enough for your kindness is beyond" however, he's very cold towards others. He's just the type who's mean on the surface but really sweet inside.
Few weeks ago, one of our closest friends talked to me because she was concerned bout my friendship, she said, "I doubt that he sees this friendship as just friendship" and afterwards, many people start coming up to me to tell me the same thing. I don't know what to do, whom to listen to, or what to say. A part of me thinks it's true that he's a bit too much for a best friend, and a part of me believes that he might have feelings for me, yet another part of me refuses to acknowledge that because I do not want to ruin our good friendship... but my friends get mad at me if I do not believe in them,, and well, it's getting really awkward now between me and my best friend because he feels some tension built between us due to my weird behavior around him lately... (link)
It does sound like he has feelings for you. And you shouldn't ruin a friendship just because they like you. I know it sounds weird but just talk to him about it. He does care about you a lot and you shouldn't ruin it. So just talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't like you. You never know until you ask him.


I have some concerns and I just want someone to maybe help me ease them. This is the first time I am weight training to lose weight, and I am just concerned that since I am not doing as much cardio and since muscle weights more than fat that it's going to be hard for me to tell if I am getting results. I heard from the trainers that if I do a good solid weight training for 30 min of almost non stop weight training that I will lose about 500 calories per session and that those calories will continue to burn over the next day or two, where as with cardio that wont happen, as soon as I stop it's done. Now I am definately sweating way more than when I just do cardio and I can really feel my body working, but how am I going to be able to tell if I am going in the direction of my goals if the scale is not going down persey...do i check inches? I am still doing cardio, don't get me wrong, I am doing it about 3-4 times a week, I am just focusing more on burning the calories through the weight training. Ok thank you for the advice. (link)
I went into football to lose weight. And trust me you don't get the results you want until the end. I weigh the same as I did back then before but I different. That's because you lose fat but gain muscle. Sure checking will be fine but it might get you angry if you think your not losing anything. Just do it for about a month or two then check.


I am 25 and have been in a relationship for two and half years. I recently told my girlfriend that I would be leaving for a week on a trip with my parents. She has a big test to give while I'm gone. This has led to her getting very upset with me and I believe she is now deciding on whether she wants to continue a relationship with me or not. I feel sad/awful/confused. I don't know what to do... (link)
Ok..Well you guys have been together for a while. And she is just stressin over the test and you leaving doesn't help but I honestly don't believe she would leave you over that. That would be a ridiculous reason to break up with you. So don't worry. Just call her and make her know you love her everyday, And maybe do something sweet like buy her some stuff from the trip. Just letting you know you love her is enough :]


Okay, so I actually quite like my legs, untill you get just over 3 quarters of the way up. I cannot stand my thighs! Are there any exercises that I can do so I can lose abit of weight on my thighs? (link)
Well there are like that exercise when you lift your legs repeatedly, But you would look kind of silly maybe you should just run? That would make you lose those thighs you don't like.




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