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Okay, I am 15, virgin. I would like to finger myself but I'm not sure how to even do it. How do I break my hymen? Am I to young? I don't know what to do, I want to try it so I know what actual sex will be like, of course when I'm married. However, I'm scared. How do I calm down and just do it? Will it be painful? Just tell me anything, please. I appreciate it.
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Just touch yourself down there till something feels good... Dont focus soley on 'putting a finger in there'... There's lots of fun stuff to do down there so take your time and explore your body!!
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I had that problem too, just gut up and do it, its the only way you will find out, try watching something that turns you on then you will have an easier time doing it :)
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There are a lot of ways to break a hymen and chances are you might have broken it already. Little things like tampons or sports activities can break it and you might not have known. :)
You're not too young to masturbate. I would say you're at a decent age to start. It's okay to be curious. 15 is an age where lots of kids start to explore their bodies, and explore other things so don't feel guilty. You're not abnormal or anything.
If you want to masturbate, you should probably calm down & relax because if you're tense and uncomfortable, you won't enjoy it. If you want tips on masturbating or a how-to, you can try this:
If you're comfortable and relaxed, it shouldn't be painful. Just remember to be calm. One last thing... Though I don't know you, I'm proud that you want to wait until you're married to engage in sex. Most kids rush into it without realizing that it has serious consequences and it's something that they just cannot handle & end up regretting. Kudos to you for wanting to wait until you're married, ready & responsible to start having sex. :)
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Fingering you're self isn't a hard thing to do. It's great you want to wait til marrige for sex, its a very mature thing to do tthat a lot of people don't apprecoate the imortance of anymore. But its normal to feel nervous about sex.
To finger yourself you really just put your finger in (same hole you put a tampon in case you didn't know). Sometimes its hard to break or you may not even feel your hymen. You may break it without knowing, you may bleed a little but it shouldn't hurt. Basically just put your finger in and move it around until it feels comfortable in there haha. If you want you can use more than one finger after you get comfortable with the first because a guys penis is thicker than just one finger.
I hope this helped! Message me if you have any more questions and good luck!
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