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noooo pleasure ?
17/f
I don't find being fingered pleasurable at all.
Like it doesn't really hurt, its not as everyone makes it out to be. Whether i'm fingering myself, or my boyfriend. It just doesn't feel pleasurable. So, is there a reason why it isn't?
And also, what could I do to myself that would be pleasurable for masturbation? Please do not just say "sex toys" because i'm not going to go out and get one. I don't even think i'm old enough.
So, help please ?
Thank you!!! :]
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try watching something that turns u on then rub the skin part of ur vagina and rub the lips fast, then you will get an orgasm, make sure you lock your knees, hope I helped
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you're right, you're too young to buy sex toys. you have to be 21, by my knowledge.
but i know how you feel. fingering does little to nothing for me. you could try this though: when fingering yourself, do you know where your g-spot is? if you're laying down, its around the top of your vaginal opening, and it kind of feels like the roof of your mouth. do some figure 8s with your finger on that spot, and see if nothing happens. if not, then you're like me, and you can masturbate using stimulation. do you know where your clitoris is? if not, its the little strip of skin between the lips of your vagina. rub that with your finger, or use something that vibrates on it; the ends of electric toothbrushes (the part that holds the battery,) etc. i have an older friend who bought me a vibrator that works for penetration and stimulation. you could see if that works. but stimulation feels a lot better than penetration, for most women. and you may want to talk to your boyfriend about practicing oral sex, going down on you, visa versa. this is like stimulation.
hope i helped, without getting too deep into gross detail. :)
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