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Hey my names kayla and im 14 years 0ld...i will answer any questi0n y0u ask me because chances are im g0ing/went thr0ugh s0mething similar. i have realized that i am best at giving advice t0 pe0ple 0n what t0 say t0 0thers 0n a given situati0n. If theres ever s0mething urgent y0u need t0 ask me feel free t0 im me 0n xoredskittleox...if y0u have any pr0blems regarding my advice...like s0mething i might have said that 0ffended y0u 0r anything like that. Much0 l0ve
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-Im sorry if anyone has been trying t0 email me. My email address is currently n0t w0rking. S0meh0w the pr0gram g0t switched to msn. grr my c0mputer always d0es that. Anyways i am s0 s0rry if any0ne was trying t0 get in c0ntact with me and i didnt resp0nd.
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Sometimes I get urges to go up and hug a guy, is that normal?
well maybe your just really friendly. or maybe your gay. only you can decide whiche of the two you are
Hey guys,
My older sister wanted to know if a snake can grow it's head back if it gets cut off. She thinks that she heard that somewhere, but she's not sure. It seems to me like she's thinking of a worm or something lol. Her boyfriend was telling her that snakes can't grow their head back, but she was saying that they can. I wanted to find out for her. Someone answer please!!!! Don't make fun of the question either, because I'm not even sure if it's true. I sort of think it's true, yet I don't think it's true. If your nice, and you give a good answer I'll rate you!!!! Thank you so much! :-)
no it doesnt seem very possible...if a snakes head was cut off nothing could get to its brain and it would die. its pretty much impossible.
i keep making stupid mistakes in my relationships. i dont know how to stop! i always manage toscrew it up by being with some one else or sleeping with someone else. i cant help it. it just something inside me that make me want to do stuff. i am in a relationship now (4days) and ive already cheated on him. at the time it feels good. i dont know whether its the rik of been caught or what but now i just feel bad and dirty! how do i stop doing this?
maybe you arent ready for a real relationship. its possible that your the type of person that cant just have one of something...thats totally alright. if i where you i would stay single for a while until i find a guy that i really love that i could never cheat on. if your single you can sleep around and it wont break anyones heart.
i love singing, dancing and acting! i love been on stage but every time i do the school production or tell people i go to a stage school on a weeken then they say that its typical and say that im a drama queen. one of my friends say that i learn to act so that i can lie and make up stories to get attention! i dont know where it comes from because im really quiet at school. i only open up on stage because i feel that its not me! am i o.t.t? what do i do to change their minds?
well they seem pretty jealous. the probably wish they had your talent so they are making excuses for your achievement for their own self gain. dont worry about what they think. if they where good friends they would support you and your goals.
im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please!
well everyone makes mistakes. dont get me wrong. but you mean alot to your boyfriend so he is going to be a little dissapointed and angry about the situation. your going to tell him what happened. if you dont then that will be one more check on the board. hopefully he will appreciate it that you where honest and told him what happened instead of trying to cover it up. ya know what i mean? well anyways...tell him that you where drunk and you had no idea what you where doing.
I've always felt that there was no need to be in a relationship at my age(14) but i was just asked out and i think i have fallen in love. but my mother tells me there is no way you can fall in love so young. do you think its possible to fall in love at such a young age? if you dont think so what do you think i should do, i dont want to dump him or anything, but i dont want to waste my time and energy
if there is no point to our relationship.
my mom says that to me every time i get a boyfriend. i cant even say "i love you" on the phone with them or she flipps out saying i couldnt possibly be in love. If you feel like your in love with someone dont let anyone tell you other wise.
my cats name is jack...and he drools...alot...is that normal?
well its probably not that bad but if he drools like crazy where you would suspect something you should try seeing a vet.
I'm getting a hair straightening iron for 20 bucks. It's a ceramic ConAir with gold colored plates. Will it work as good as an expensive one, like a CHI?
conair really isnt very good. the good ones are ceramic by helen and troy and perfessional ones...i would save up for a better one as opposed to wasting your money on a straightener that doesnt even work.
well i think im really in love and at the movies this guy that i'm gong out with touched my boobS and i think it was by acident. but than he did it again but he sqizzed them and .. i liked it . than he touched my pussy... and when i say this i mean he went into my pants and fingerd me during a movie than we started making out. He soon took me out of the movie and we had sex. i'm 13!
i'm a A/B student i have lots of freinds and i'm a good girl. (When this happined 3 weeks ago, i hadn't even had my 1st kiss yett... so that made it ever weirdr)
wut should i do?
well if you where un comfortable with the situation you shouldnt have done anything. if you still like the guy keep in touch but if he just ditches you pretend like it never happened and get back to more important things like school work.
oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks!
its good that you admit that you are jealous of her. theres nothing you can really do. just let her enjoy herself and you are just going to have to deal with it. you dont want to make her feel bad about falling in love with someone.
okay so I've been dating this guy for like well 2 weeks and i care for him with all my heart! and i think it might even b love! and i kno that he feels the same way i mean he tells me everyday how much he cares for me and stuff so im hoping he means it! well today my best friend just told me a bunch of stuff that i think is totally wrong about my bf like that he does drugs! and that he still is in love with his X! and ive talked to him about all this b4 and he told me that he would never do drugs and he loves me more that n e one! but then again most guys would say that right? so please help me! i dont know who to beleive
well you have only been going out with him for a week. you know youer friend alot better than him so dont sacrafice your friendship over a boy. She could be telling the truth about the whole drugs thing. most likely she is jealous that you have a relationship with someone. When a guy says he loves you he doesnt always mean it. its just a bunch of words. its his actions that prove it. you must be really confused. Just wait until the situation clears up a little bit. then it will be easier. but if there is a point where you need to choose a boy over your best friend. a boy isnt always going to be there for you like a friend will. keep that in mind
alright im kind of stuck..this guy that likes me and i like him allllloottt is going to come over soon and were going to like mess around..the thing is, i havent done anything except make out with a guy, and he is expecting me to suck his cock, i dont know how and i dont want to seem like a fool so if you could give me tips or something on how to like make it realllly good for him? thanksss so much!
well i have never done anythin like that..so i cant really give you much help on the topic. my friend has a book on it and it says to cover your teeth and stuff so you dont hurty him. Practice with a popsicle so you dont gag when you acctually do it. if you dont feel confortable dont do it.
me and one of my best friends like the same guy but she dosent know that i like him and he asked me out and not her what sould i do say yes or no please help me i dont know what to do?
no because if she gets emotional about it its gonna totally destroy your friendship. I had a crush on a boy last year and my friend ended up goin out with him and i was devastated. we got pissed at eachother all year. we still arent good friends. chicks before dicks.
Hey does anybody know any good april goold jokes? me and my friend were thinking of getting fake blood and pretending to fight in school! does anybody know where you can buy fake blood around this time of year?? PLez help!
-take plastic wrap and put it on the toilette seats.
-wear crutches to school and see how many people ask you what happened.
-do totally random stupid things.
-pretend to be pissed at someone.
I'm a girl and I'm 14. I'm attracted to the female body, but in an artistic way. I want to tell my friends, and show them some of my artwork, but I'm afraid they'll think I'm a perverted homosexual or something like that. Anyone have any advice on what to do or say?
just tell them your totally straight but you are just involved with that kind of artwork.
im a guy. ok, so. i get asked out alot. and the fact that im guy makes me feel weird that im not the one asking them out cas wenever i try i always get rejected. wat is rong here
hey
well that is a big thing now...if its right for a girl to ask a guy out or a guy to ask a girl out. once you get older that whole barrier will be gone and it will mostly be the guys responsibility to ask the girl out. Im sure you dont always get rejected. It doesnt matter who asks who out as long as you end up happy its all good right? if its not the answer ya wanted send me another one and ill ask some of my guy friends about it if it would help you out more)
Ugh. My best friend kelly thinks she's a really good singer. The problem is... she sux! She's also going to be in the talent show and perform a song. When she does, she's gonna be sooo emmbarrased aftwerwards! Everyone's gonna make fum of her. I don't know what to do, or how to break it to her!! Should I just let her be TOTALLY embarrased? Help!! Please!!
today in my chorus class we had tryouts for solos. plenty of people sang infront of the class and no offense to any of them but they sucked. Nobody made fun of them. They still clapped and maybe made a comment or two afterwords but nothing over the top. Dont worry about it. If she was that bad they wouldnt have her perform in the show and embarrass herself.
I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55
just because you make a new friend doesnt mean you have to ditch the other one. you can have more than one friend!
i really like this guy, K, and i think he likes me, but i m 2 shy to ask. my friend, E, has found out, or so she thinks that he likes me, but i dont know for sure. i m so worried that if he asks me out and i have to say no, cause im not allowed to go out that he willl stop liking me!!! if that happens, i wont survive!!!! wat should i do??? sorry its soo long!!!
if you like him go out with him. sometimes your gonna have to break a few rules...do what YOU want to do
i always seem to noitice that i don't tell anyone too much. i keep secrets to myself and i don't usu8ally like telling my nparents what goes on in my life. i always feel like i can't trust someone , no matter how close in am to them. and when i do tell someone something, i always seem to hesitat. Is this bad? What should i do?
your just guarded. thats acctually a good thing. i mean most people are blabber mouths and i cant tell anyone anything. alot of people are going to trust you because of that.