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Hi guys! :] I'm Lauren. I'm 15 years old. I've been through a lot in my life, so I can always relate to your problems. I love giving advice to people. :] So please ask away.Peace and love |♥♥

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Im in 7th grade, and my friend in 8th smokes. she isnt a bad person at all. well, at the end of the school day, we hugged and everything, when i came home,my mom smelled smoke on me and i think she thought i was smoking,even though id never do anything like that. she does know abt Jenny and everything, but how do i convince them that im not smoking or anything?

♥ Hii babe.
You have to tell her the truth. &&if she doesnt believe you then idk what. she should believe you if she trusts you.
♥ Lauren

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how can i stop careing about what people think of me

Awe hey sweetie.
♥
you must have confidence in yourself.
It takes time.
Life is short. act crazy. be a dork.
if you have major self esteem issues a conselor would realy help.
But no one can bring you confidence only you can. It has to come from the inside.
♥ always;;Lauren

If you have any questions you can ALWAYS ask

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how long should someone wait to have have sex(are b.f. and g.f.)

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Well its whenever they are mature and over 100% ready.

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i'm having a hard time forgetting about my ex-boyfriend. we were 2gether 4 five months, and within that 5 months, i started to 'love' him. we broke up 3 months ago, but i still really do like him A LOT, but he likes somebody else. i've been trying SO HARD for the past 3 months to stop thinking about him, but everytime i try, there's always something that stops me from it: memories of us 2gether always 'flashbacks' in my mind.

how can i 4get about him??

♥ I know how you feel. But it wasnt as intence as that. iF you were actually seriously " in love " in with him. Its nearly impossible to stop loving someone if your feeling are that strong.
It could have been puppy love.
You just really need to focus on things you enjoy doing. Girls nights are the best. They really help you just focus doing what you love doing with your friends. Get rid of things that remind you of him. But make sure you dont just make yourself think your over him. Not a good idea. It comes back to you hard and heavy.
It will take awhile to get over him. Just focus on YOU and what YOU like doing.
If your at party or some get together... Flirt with guys..be yourself. He should NOT stop you from having a good time

Good luck! ♥

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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.

♥ Hiii.
Rape is forcing someone to have sex against there will.
So in this case, Yes.

♥ Lauren

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Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\

Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore

Hii babe.
Gosh. This girl seems a little tough. I mean I dont know her and I dont know the relationship you two have. But from the conversation between you too she doesnt exactly seem intersested. But we dont know that as a fact. You must ask her. Take a risk. If she doesnt there are plenty of other girls out there. Just dont make her feel like you want her realllly bad. It might scare her.

Good luck !! ♥

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Cristmas is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get my gf so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas?

Hey.
♥ Jewerly is a girls best friend. Remember that.
♥ A burnt CD of both of your songs that you listen to
♥ A cute little stuffed animal. & its holding like a little note from you. =] aw.
♥ Earrings. ( jewerly )
♥ Be creative and make her something. Girls love it when guys go out of there way to make them little cute stuff.
♥ Concert tickets.

Im a girl. && I know for a fact that a girl would LOVE any of these. Good luck! Oh && make it unique and meaningful.
♥ Lauren

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I met this guy alex a couple days ago. He flirted with me almost the whole night then 3 days ago i went to a party and we made out. He said he would call em afterwards but he never did. I dont know his number or sn . I dont know how to get him to liek me becasue im pretty interested. DO u think he just wanted ass?

Hii girly.

Well lots of boys these days do use you just to get some " Booty ". Then the girl thinks its going somewhere, but really they just loose respect for you.
For some reason I think that might be the case. But i mean its making out. Thats not that bad. Its not like a one nite stand.
Thats why im not really sure. If he still hasnt called you back, i think he just wanted some fun and no seriousness. I would let it go =/. I mean if he calls you back..great. If not find a real guy who respects you and wants to go serious with you..if you want thatt.

My advice to you..Sure you can have fun. But make sure you dont do anything more then making out with a guy you barely kno. They probobly will use you..then think of you as " easy" And they will think of you as an object other than a real person. This has happened to so many of my friends.. Dont let it happen to you.


Good luck babe! ♥ Laur

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Okay well i'm just wondering if anyone else has this problem or if they have overcome it...i used to be a real good student in school and i could remember alot of things...but lately, i cant remember ANYTHING...like just today, i was talking to a friend in the bathroom about another friend and not even 5 minutes later the friend that i was talking about asked what we said...and i couldnt remember...i had to think...normally i could just tell her...do i just have too much on my mind or what? its starting to worry me because i cant remember to do anything anymore. anybody know whats going on or how to fix it?

♥ I have that problem too!!
Gosh I hate it too. I dont know your age..But im guessing your a teenager. Us teenagers have SOO much on our minds right now. School,teachers,Social issues,Parent issues, sports.. I could go on. Its hard to put room in your brain. Its totally normal for us to be this way. Its not normal to be the opposite of this.
Teachers and other people have to understand that we're teenagers &&we're doing with so much.
It will get better as we grow up. But the best thing to do is to really organize. I dont mean just school work , but also just sort everything out in your brain. Try not to be so cluttered. Like make sure everything around you is organzied too. It will really help you just feel calm and help you clear your brain.
Also when your in a situation..Like if someone is telling you something..anything..Make sure what your doing stays in your mind. Because sometimes if your in a situation you tend to not make a mental note..and your just totally oblivious to the situation. Just make sure you know whats happening and be aware. You know what I mean?

Good luck. I hope this made sense to you!!

♥ Laurr.xoxo.

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I haven't got my period yet. Im kinda scared about getting it. What if im in school? what if im in the middle of class and i have to get up and someone sees? what are some signs when i get it differnt from just an itch. Gimmie info

Hii babe. ♥
Aw Dont worry. I mean having your period is NO fun. But its actually not scary. You dont have to worry about getting it all over your pants because when you first start it, its not gonna be super red and thick. It will be extremely light and it will take a long time until it gets heavy. SO you should know by then that you got it.
About school..If you want to feel prepared bring some pads in your backpack, but hide them in something just incase someone knocks over your backpack or something.
Also for some weird reason..You know you got your period for the first time. It might feel gross down there, or you feel some pressure on your lower stomach. Thore are some signs are getting it. Like I said DONT be all caught up in this, I was like obsessive compolsive.. I would walk around with a hoodie tied around my waste, even before I started because I was scared it would get all over my pants. eek. But now im over it. Those are the worst case scenarios that usually never even happen.
But always just in case bring a hoodie or something in case it gets on your pants once youve started for awhile. Like i said When you actually start..your period wont be heavy enough for it to get on your clothes or whatever. If it does you'll know in time that youve started.


I hope I helped. Sorry this is was long. G0OD LUCK!!!!!

♥ Lauren

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what are those bikini things cheerleaders wear under their skirts? ever since bring it on came out i've called them spankies but what is the real name?

Usually they're called bloomers but people call them spankies still too.

♥ always,

-Lauren xoxo

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Anyone know any good Rate-me-sites?

WWW.Buddypic.com
www.HOToRNOT.COM

♥ Lauren

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I wanna show the nation my appreciation: Girl your my angel, your my darling angel. Girl your my friend when I'm in need, baby

does anyone know the name of this song...and who sings it? easy 5

Its called " ANGEL " && iTS BY: SHAGGY.

LOVE YAH. ♥

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well i love changing my hair up and i have 2 ideas... i wanted to know which coloring style you all think is cuter~ the first one is having like a lighter color with lowlights. i have naturally reddish hair, so i'm thinking probably having the top layer a light strawberry blondish color, and having the bottom layer and auburn color. ~ the second idea is to do it kind of like aubrey's from making the band 3 on mtv (for those of you who know what i'm talking about) except with the other colors in the first idea so that it would be mostly auburn with a light strawberry blondish streak or whatever you want to call it in front. i can't decide which idea would be better... please give me any advice you got! thanks!

♥ HEY !!
I kinda like the first idea the best but they would both be cute.
But liike i think that having strawberry blonde in your hair would be really cute.

Love ya. ♥ Laurrr

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hey, how do you get those cool hearts? like what do you type in?

♥ You type in &hearts ;
But make sure theres no spaces. I only did that so you could see the code and It wouldnt show up as a heart like this. ♥


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I have a really bad reputation for being mean. I can be, but I'm not constantly.

How can I get people to see me differently over a period of time?

♥ Heyy...


There is always redemption in life. Which means you can redeem yourself.
Everyone should be able to forgive. JUst be who you are now. After awhile people will relize that youve become a ton nicer. I promiss. It just may take time.

♥ Much love.

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Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal?

No sweeetie.
Be who you are. Dont worry what people think. It is not weird. If they think its weird then they're insecure people who trash talk people to feel good about themselves.
Be pround&&confident about who you are.
♥ Lauren

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Hello.ok,I am in the 7th grade and my boyfriends never does anything with me like go up town or go to the movies.I am haveing thoughts of dumping him because he hasnt even huged me and we have gone on a date yet but i love him 2 death. WHAT DO I DO?

~*BLONDE*LOVE~

♥ Blondiee.
Hiiii doll.
kayeee so. Hes obvoisly a typical 7th grade boy. Hes shy and not mature yet. Totally natural. It doesnt mean he doesnt like you.
I guess your the one now having to make the first move. =/
Suggest to do something casually.
Be like " hey wanna do something this weekend..I dont have any plans"
About hugging you..Hes just shy like I said. If you relle have serious thoughts about him not liking you then maybe ask him. Thats like the only way you will know unless he improves.
G0OD LUCK!! LOVE YUH MUCH !!!

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ok 2 questions.. i have guys who stares at me and look away when i look at them... what does that mean.. and i have guys who stare at me and keep on staring when i look at them. what does that one mean.. kthanx ♥

♥ Hehe they think your cuute.
How sweet. Stare at them back. lol


Stay cuute meh love. ♥

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i like this kid and i just got my pic taken and im giving it to my friends hes my freind too should i give him one?

♥ suure.
why nott?


mmkayee. ♥

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