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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]

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Hello. Im in love. Soooo....Ive told two of my close guy friends that I like him (they are pretty good friends with "him" too) and I've been hanging out A LOT with "him" this summer. Both of my guy friends say I should tell him I like him and one of them says that we "radiate" and guessed we liked eachother before I got the chance to tell him that the me-liking-him part was true. I get strong feelings that he likes me back a lot but at the same time i get insecure that he doesnt with some of his actions.

So....Summary:
I dont know if I should tell this guy or not that I like him. Dont guys make the first move? I really want something to happen but Ive had my heart broken before and I dont really want that to happen again. If he liked me wouldnt he be doing something?
Ive been hanging out with him for about 3 months but the whole crush thing started about a month ago.
THANKS FOR YOUR HELP!!!! YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST!!!

okay the term 'guys making the first move' is like kissing and stuff. YOU have to tell him you like him FIRST. guys are way to shy, well most of them. so just casually bring it up because obviously he likes you back and if not, then there are plenty of other guys out there. good luck!

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this is for my bff, im trying to help him through this...14/m. well my gf & i have been together for almost 6 months. we rarely see each other because we are so busy & when we do, she ignores me or hangs out with everyone but me even if its my party. she doesnt hug me a whole lot either & we've never kissed. i was away from her & during that time i saw & hung out with my gal pal that i hadnt seen in about a year. she likes me a lot & she does more things than my gf does (she hugs me, thats it!) & gives me attention & really cares about me so i got to like her as more than a friend now. i was planning on breaking up with my gf but after i saw her again yesterday, i fell in love with her all over again. i had loved this girl for several years & this was my chance but then she doesnt treat me right & there are other girls out there who really do care about me. what should i do? my gf i have loved for a long time & the girl that likes me gave me a heart that can be easily broken.

*info on the ladies: the gf is a bit of a tease & needs the attitude adjustment thats long over-due but she can be ok at times.
the other girl is a lot like a gf the guy had that ended up being a huge mistake...shes a bit older, more experienced & she knows he's vunerable. she also likes almost every guy i can think of.
*parents view: mom used to be FOR the breaking up but since the other girl showed up (which she doesnt want him to get involved with) she wants them to stay together.
dad doesnt want him to do anything until school starts so no one knows why he broke up with his gf.
*the bffs view: the other girl isnt my favorite (i agree with the parents) & i dont want to be responsible for the break up...i got them together & i didnt know it would end up like this. the gf was my friend but now not only does he treat him like crap but shes mean to me too.

*PLEASE, ANYTHING WILL HELP! WE REALLY NEED YOU!*

im kinda confused but ill try anyway. to me it sounds like you like both of them but your not sure which one to choose. it also sounds like the 'gal pal' as you say, acts like a way better girlfriend. and your own girlfriend right now doesn't really even hug you. so i would say break up with your girlfriend and try to hook up with that girl. try something new and if it doesn't work out you could always break up with her because there are A LOT more girls out there. but..it is up to you. so try to make the best decision and good luck!

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okay i'm going out with this one guy and he's got a lot of friends but i guess i never knew how many people didn't really like him but then i went out with him a time before too and he's like the best boyfriend you could ever ask for i mean he likes me for who i am and stuff and a lot of the other guys that like me just want me because i'm "hot" but whatever..and like there's 4 guys that just piss me off because they like me (not to be conceited or anything) but they just get mad at me because i'm going out with him and they want to beat him up because he's going out with me..and i don't even like the guys that like me besides my boyfriend..so if they beat him up i'd like them less anyways..i don't know why they want to beat them up and i always have to stick up for my boyfriend (i mean i want to lol) but what do i say to them to not beat him up?! please help me!! =( i'll rate high if its a good answer!!

be like 'you know what? i dont like you and never will. and by beating up my boyfriend im gonna hate you even more!!' kinda harsh but something like that. good luck!

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Hey guys I was wondering does anyone know that website, it is just for teens and its free samples to like certain stores, and it gives away free things that just came out and the companys want opioins on..I'll rate 5's for a good site or 2

www.teensfreeway.com
most likely you won't get the free stuff though but you can try anyway! good luck and tell me how it goes!

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Does the ouija board really work?bb

some people say they do and others say its all fake. its up to you! im never tried one but i want to cause you never know it might be real! all my friends that have tried it said it was real. have fun with it!

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I have a mol on my face and its really ugly.. how do i get rid of it or cover it up or at least make it less noticable??!!! ahhhh

use cover up, like 5 layers or however many it takes. or you could go to the docter and have it cut out or freezed off. good luck!

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I was on the 7th and 8th grade basketball team for middle school and I got alot of playing time but I dont think Im that good. I dont thin i should tri-out for high School my school is really into basketball and i just want to have fun. I like basketball but i dont thin its my sport i think volleyball is. I dont kno if i should do both or just vollball? what should i do

i say might as well try out for both. i mean the whole point of school sports is to get kids active, not to win awards or anything but that is fun. you probably just don't realize how good you are. so if you dont make the teams oh well if you do then thats good. good luck and tell me how it goes!

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Ok, Like i usally wear a size 3 in jeanes, but latley my thighs have gotten so big, that i have had to start wearing a 7!Is there anyhitn ghtta can make my thighs any smaller?And also, I wouldn'y mind losing my pooch either.I rate high!

lie on your side with your legs together. slowly lift the leg on top and hold it there a couple seconds. do this 8 times then switch legs. then switch back and so on. good luck and tell me how it goes!

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i am trying to go on a diet and it works for a day then the next day i totally pig out! then i regret it and the process starts over! does anyone have any dieting tips?

its because your craving that food that you pig out on the next day. you are telling yourself never to eat again therefore you want it. so instead of going on a huge diet just try to slowly start eating healthy. like maybe the first day no dessert. the second day no dessert and soda. and so on. and dont be one of those people that never has cake or whatever else. just maybe have a dessert once every week and make it fat free ice cream. try this out and tell me how it goes! good luck!

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does anyone know where i can get a dress i have to go to a wedding (i need websites of any stores that have dresses) i rate 5 for any anwser

http://www.onlygowns.com/
this site has some cute dresses that are still fancy. hope i helped! good luck!

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Ok,i really want my eye makeup to look shimmery,and notacebal but not to over the top. You know,i nice pretty shimmery look. I mean i dont want over dramatic but i do want nice shimmery colors.I dont know what kind of eyeliner or lip gloss,or even eye make-up and blush to use for me. I have big brown eyes,long eyelashes [[i want to add volume to my eye lashed though to make them look darker but not longer]] and oval/round face,olive skin,and short layers with my hair cut to a little lower than shoulder length [[i also have natral caramal highlights]] I dont no if my hair has anything to do with it but i just would really like to know how to style my hair also. Thanks in advance!!!

ps--im sorry this is so long

MASCERA- dark brown 'Great Lash Mascera'
EYE SHADOW- use a creme shawdow. for the color, try to use one that is the same tone as your skin, like tan, light brownish, biege, colors like that. don't use colors like bright green or red. a light blue also would be good. then if you want your eyes to stand out put a shimery gel on your eyelids over the shadow or a glitter gel.
EYELINER- dont use much eye linder because it doesnt look good when you have like goth eyes (unless you are goth) lol. but i dont think you are.
BLUSH- i personally don't use blush, but i would suggest a LIGHT color. do not use red. maybe a light pink or something but im not sure because i dont use it.
LIP GLOSS- Loreal Paris, Colour Juice. They come in a million colors and you have to put them up to your face and see which on looks best toward your skin color.

HOPE I HELPED!! GOOD LUCK!!

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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??

I'm 13,Female

i dont think you should break up with him. its in a guys blood to flirt with a girl he thinks is cute. he cant help it and doesnt know he is doing it. most likely you flirt with some guys that you think are cute every once in a while even though he is your boyfriend. so you already tried talking to him, so here is another idea. when he is flirting with them try to break it up or take him the other direction when there is a cute girl around. good luck!

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i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
thanks

they put the juice in their damp hair then let it dry in the sun and it lightens your hair color a little. some people say it works, and vica verca.

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Does anyone know what Johanna from the Real World is using on her hair in one of the episodes. It curls her hair but it has 3 circular rolls?

it was a 3-Gold Barrel Waver. you could find one over internet or at a place like target. good luck!

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I have wavey shoulder length hair and for awhile now I've been using hair gel to keep my waves tight and frizz free. It's worked well for awhile but my hair is untouchable and crunchy. Does anyone have any other suggestions on types of products to use for my hair? I would like to maintain my tight waves and frizz free hair as best as possible. Thanks to all who answer.

I rate. :)

i use got2be anti-friz shine serum. its actually cheap and works really well. hope i helped!

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14/f well once u stop getting discarge in ur underwear does that mean your going to get your period soon???

i rate high

yep :]
soon.
hope i helped!

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14/f. I've read on the internet the signs of having depression. I fit many of them. Though I do not ALWAYS feel depressed and hopeless, it comes often. Certain things in my life have caused me pain, and then there's other times where I just feel horribly down, yet I can't point it to any certain cause at all. I don't feel close enough to either of my parents or anybody..come to think of it that I could tell about me having this problem. Yet, I do think that me getting help is a good idea, because I've become very close to doing something drastic more than once. Is there reason to suspect that I really do have a depression problem, or is it just teenage hormones? Is there a way for me to get help?

it depends on HOW MUCH depression you feel. if you came to close call with something dangerous. even though you are not close to your parents, it is still important to tell them about it. they love you and they would want to help you. maybe by telling them about your depression, that could bring you guys closer. so once they know, ask them about seeing someone who helps you with depression or a psychiatrist (sp?) good luck!

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Hey everyone, ok Im going to Six Flags New England ( the theme park not the water park) and wanted to know where i cna get those discount copuons, they usally slel thme at a fast food place!?

Thanks

i saw them at wendys. i havn't really seen them anywhere else. but good luck finding them!

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I'd like to be an advice columnist at my high school, even though this will be my first year i have been advice columnist before and i got good review before, but who do i need to talk to to start a Secretive advice column? and how do i convince them to let me be an advice columnist? and also, what should i bring (kinda like props) to show (whoever i am showing) that i get good review from answering question previously...

please help. i rate 5 even if you only help a little but no making fun or anything like that, then i report.

if you have a school newspaper then go to the person in charge of all of it. then ask that person if you could have your own column, specifically an advice column. when they ask why just say why. like that you want to help people and give them solutions to their problems. also maybe instead of turning to drugs and such, they would go to you. and if people are to shy to ask you about something, then they could look through the advice column and maybe their problem was answered. for what you could bring to show, maybe what people wrote back, or some of your best answers. not ones that you think are the best. but ones that have really good feedback. if they are on your computer print them out. if they were on paper then just bring the paper. i hope i helped! good luck!

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13/f

hey, umm, yeah...i haven't really been sleeping the past 2 weeks...and now, i'm starting to get headaches-like frequently...

this has never happened before, and like i just wanted to know if this is semi-normal or if something's wrong w/ me.

also, i'm postitive that its not like PMS or anything having to do with my period...it just started randomly happening...and plus, i've had it for like almost 4 years now...s0o0o, yeah...help?!

Okay the headaches are cause your not sleeping. For now take tylonal or advil or some type of medicine like that to help your headache then make a docters appointment so the docter could check it out. Good luck! Hope you feel better!

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