hey, my name is delaney. i'm 18 years old, a senior, and loving life. my interests include xc, skiing, tennis, sailing, and lax. i love to help other people, so go ahead, make my day and give me your problems... i'll do the best i can to help you out. peace.
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Age: 18
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15/f
im about to start high school soon. any tips on boys, school, friends, anything about school??
please and thank you. :] (link)
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don't try to hard and just be yourself. if you wanna make lots of new friends join sports teams. football games are fun but dont act all like you know all the upperclassmen when you don't. show teachers you care about your grades by staying after every once in a while. everyone will start to drink and stuff so be sure you are ready for the peer pressure... and if you do decide to drink or do drugs make sure not to talk about it all the time or pressure anyone else into it or you could lose a lot of friends. don't wear really revealing clothing as everyone will look down on you.... hope this helps (i'm a junior this year so i've been through it all)
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hey, i want a new AIM screen name. the name is rae or rachel and i do want my name in it. i was thinking of something like
woah x its rae
but idk if i really like it.
anything but xoo raeee or raeee xoo (anything like that)
and xO0 Rachel x3
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oh HEY (x)its RAE
add x's if you need to
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hi, ok well i'm a girl of 14 and i am generally a really nice person i am against crimes and criminals but throughout the last months or so i've stolen about £20 from my closest friends to buy stuff from the canteen i know this is bad and stuff and i regret it so i'm feeling down at the moment i've sent all the money and there is no way i can earn it back to repay what shall i do???? thank you (link)
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tell them get a job and earn it back.. and don't worry so much you're not a "bad girl" :) i'm sure they will understand, everyone makes mistakes.
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I am 15, turning 16 in about a month. Everywhere I go, people think I am SO much younger than I am! For example, I was getting my hair cut, and my hair cutter asked me how old I was, I told her, and then she said, "Oh really? I would have guessed like 13!"
It really bothers me...
Are there any tips that can make me look older? (link)
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makeup (eyeliner, mascara)
darker clothes sometimes works (i.e. black shirt)
simple plain colors
side bangs actually make some people look older
heelsss
push up bra haha
hope this helps... and don't feel bad haha you're not the only one... im 16.5 and everyone thinks i'm 12-13ish too :P
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it all started yesterday. yesterday was a really bad day for me.. i mean we had to clean our entire house, and i couldnt even go out with my friend to see fireworks at some place, since we're not going anywhere for 4th of july, cause my mom has work, and my dad's busy as always. and i recently made a myspace, and i asked my friend (not her friend anymore i guess) if i could be on her top, and she said no, and then i asked what i should reply to her after she said that, and you guys at advicenators gave me advice and i took it and well.. this is what happened.
(by the way, i have been friends with this girl since like 4th grade, and she was more my friend during 5th and 6th grade but it changed during 7th. it was like she wasnt even interested in me sometimes... it got annoying but i didnt think that she didnt like me till she didnt invite me to her end of the year sleepover. i asked her if i was going and shes like "sorry its for close friends only" when some people she invited she didnt even know as long as i've known her! so it hurt.. and im real confused.)
me: hey (her name)! hows your summer? add me to your top? =]
her: umm...no your not going in my top
me: whatever, thats cool. by the way, why have you been acting kinda weird around me?
her: because, your rude. you piss me off alot and, you act as if the world loves you sometimes!!
now i dunno what to reply! cause what she said stuck in my head for the whole day. am i really rude? im usually nice to everyone, i dont even think i've ever been mean to her.. well i was mean to some girl because after a long time she just kept pissing me off, and i scribbled on her face in my yearbook. i didnt think people would find out but some of my friends saw it who didnt care, and this girl im talking about saw it and she didnt like it.. but it wasnt even about her and besides she doesnt know how that girl had been acting so i'd scribble on her face. i dont regret doing that, and it wasnt like i was gonna show them that i drew it, though they found out anyways... their problem.
and i dunno how i piss her off, and if i act like the world loves me.. doesnt that mean confidence? i dunno but maybe its cause im optimistic and stuff, but i really dont know cause nobody's ever said that to me before. :( what should i do? if im really rude or anything how can i fix it? and is this a friend i should really keep and how should i reply to that message without being "rude" or should i be rude?
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you aren't rude you just sound like a happy person. forget that girl even though its hard she's probably just jealous. if other people say the same thing though, ask them specifically what you are doing wrong. a good friend would tell you if you really were annoying...
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is it hard to dance in heels? like at a club? im pretty short; 4'11" f/14. and alot of the guys when i dance with them, well mostly there friends will put there hand on top of my head to show how short i am. so im thinking about buying heels. so are they hard to dance in? thankss for reading :) (link)
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you should be fine, you get used to heels. if they hurt though, take them off, most guys think a short girl is cute :)
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im high, i've been high for 24 hours.
i need to lose it, im sick to my stomache, im dizzy and sometimes i get a headache.
whenever i touch something there's like a second delay from me feeling it. (link)
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try to sleep it off, or take a shower alternating hot/cold water to wake you up, or drink something caffienated... take aspirin, and eat like celery or plain raw veggies to ward off the nausea. hope this helps?
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if i put the disc into my computer and download houses, objects, sims, etc. onto my computer and install them into the game, then if i take the disc to another computer, when i play it on that computer will it have everything i installed from the other one? sorry if this is worded weirdly. thanks in advance! (link)
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yes.
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HI. I dont know why, but latly I have been a little moody. I mean REALLY MOODY! I screamed really loud at my brother and told him I hated him bec ause he wanted to borrow my GBA (Game Boy Advance). I dont normaly act this way and I am really suprised at myself. my real questions are is there anything i can do, does it go away, and is there anyhthing I can do to relive that stress? PLEASE HELP ME! IM HAVING A PARTY AND I DONT FWANT A BAD REPUTATION! THANKYOU! (link)
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it will go away... just try to play off the moods of other people acting happy around you, try to remember that you don't wanna be the one bringing everyone down and if something doesn't go your way, let it go, just be chillll :)
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hey so i have these 3 best friends were not like a bitchy clique but we mainly all ahng out together when we go out we go out together but we hang out with other people and stuff all the time. but anyways 3 of us including me are always allowed to do a lot i meen we dont have the privelages of some other kids with hang out with but we have decent ones that are reasonable.. the other one though she isnt allowed to do anything and wheen i say anything i meen literally like anything a normal teenager would be allowed to do. her parents are way over protective.. i know that you would be like well why do you care its not you whos under all taht control.. but us 3 all feel like it is because of the fact that say we wanna go somewhere and all of our moms say yes were like okay and were like kay you comnig and then she goes oh im not allowe.d. you guys can go or you can come over and sleepover.. and yeah sometimes were like yeah sure cause we feel bad but it gets to a point where its every single night and we all feel like our social lives are getting crushed it like depresses me i wanna go out.. but you know when you go out you have your friends that you talk to and stuff and you have good times with but then theres your best best friends that you kinda of need at least one of there just in case you dont have a good time or you feel awkward.. well thats like us 4 and we all dont know waht to do.. its really been bothering me i was supposed to go out tonight and one of them is on vaca and then obviously that one girl wasnt allowed while us 2 were ive been looking forward to this party since the end of school and i thought iw as gonna go but since i dont have any of them going im like whatver nah and my mom probably will say id prefer if i knew at least one person going..
i know this is long im soo sorry i just need desperate help.. and sorry too if anyone thinks im being greedy its not my fault really. (link)
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tell her to talk to her mom... or have you mom talk to her mom... or have all of your friends together talk to her mom. whenever you guys go out be sure to be responsible, and let her parents know that you are. tell her to tell them they have no reason not to trust her and that she's gonna grow up one day so she needs to be eased into the real world. her parents are only hurting her in the long run, and they should know that.
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15/m
last night my girlfriend was telling me she wants me to finger her next time we see each other. anyway i just want some tips on how to do it. i've never done so (nor has she ever been) and just want to do a good job.
thanks (link)
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google- how to finger a girl. there's way more tips out there than anyone on here could ever tell you.
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I was thinking today about how amazing it would be to be a ballerina..i've always admired how graceful and hardworking they are..i'm a very clumsy person but I know it's possible to become graceful and I'm passionate about music and dancing freely and feeling the music but I've never been enrolled in dance classes or anything like that before and my question is..what exactly is it like being a ballerina? is ballet worth all the time and effort? basically I just wanna know about it from anyone who has done it or knows somebody who has done it. thank you! (link)
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if you are really passionate about it it is worth it. the pay isn't good at all and you have to work on technique for hours (if you are professional). although the result is beautiful it takes years of CONSTANT hard work to get your body in the condition to be a ballerina. you could enroll in beginner classes and just have some fun with it, but being a ballerina is a tough life to live... i've done dance for 8 years so thats how i know hahaaa
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hey, well i want to get blue contacts. i dont want to have to go to the eye doctor and get all those eye tests done and stuff. i just want to wear them for style. does anyone know where i could get them? if so, how much would they be?
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you have to go to the eye doctor to get them fitted right. there's no other way, sorry.
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ok im about 5'6 and weigh about 120 pounds. I really want to lose about 10 pounds or so. Dont tell me i dont need to because its what i want to do. What are some things i can do it achieve my goal? Im trying to get that "perfect swimsuit body" for summer. My thighs are bigger than i want and they touch at the top when i walk. My stomach sticks out more than i want it too also. And my arms have some flab. What can i do to get rid of all the fat i want to loose in those spots? What exercizes and things can i do and how often and how many/how long do i do them? What things should i be eating and drinking. And are there any vitamin pills or anything that i need? I want to do this in a month or sooner.
Thanks! (link)
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thighs: do leg lifts, long distance running (slow pace), pilates, and lots of stretching to keep them limber.
stomach: crunches, situps, sidebends
arms: weight lifting with SMALL weights, pushups, machines @ gym
do all of these fot a total of 60 min a day (any combo you wish) for 5 days a week. you should see resutls in about 2-3 weeks.
also, eat lots of fiber rich foods & vitamins, because fiber reduces cravings.. drink LOTS of water. don't skip meals ever but limit snacking after around 7.
hope this helps!
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What does it mean if a guy SAYS he likes you and flirts with you and stuff but constantly teases you and basically makes no effort to continue the relationship further?
14/f. =] (link)
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he wants you to confirm that you like him back and for you to make the next move. go out on a date w/ him :)
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I was outside earlier today and got two mosquito bites on my forehead! They are HUGE! Does anyone know anything that could help them dissappear? Home remedies..anything? THANKS! (link)
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these should help!
http://www.mothernature.com/Library/bookshelf/Books/47/12.cfm
http://www.ehow.com/how_3041_treat-mosquito-bite.html
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ok so i am 15 going on 16. and i am a freshman i am 1 year older then everyone else.but noone knows that. since i am very childsish and i blend in alot. som everyone is alwys like aww stephanie is so cute. shes such a little girl. but they dont know i am older. this is a huge big deal. and i realllllllyyyy dont want to tell them i am. they already asked me and i told them i was 14 and they are going to think that i lied to them and make a huge big deal. i really dont know what to do! i am going crazy! and the kid i like in my school hes a freshman going on 15. and i am going on 16. i dont want to tell him i'm older becase he asked me once and i said i was 14 and he likes me and so do i! also, i neevr show anyone my id card becase it says my date of birth. do you think they will find out i am 1 year older? how? and i will neevr show my id card! so they wont find out this way. any other way? has the tacher ever asked you how old you are in front of everyone, becase she needed it for a school thing? i am really depressed about this. please dont tell me to tell them the truth please help me!!1 thanks! (link)
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uh you probably won't be forced to show your age at school. but people are definitley gonna find out, you can't hide your id forever!.. i mean don't you want your license and stuff? if you keep lying then you'll have to waste a wholeee yr. not being able to drive. and plus when you are sixteen then you can have a sweet 16 and all that. i know a really nice, well-liekd girl that is a freshman and turned 16 like a month ago.. she's n a relationship with a freshman who is 14 or 15 and it doesn't matter.
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Hey. I'm 13/f and my bestfriend is 41/f. The other day, I went uptown with her and her other friend, and we went in the woods and they smoked pot. Don't get me wrong, I mean if they want to try it, go ahead, it's their lives. The third friend, we'll call her friend 2, is a pretty bad pot head, although we're still good friends. I'm just afraid that whenever friend 1 is with friend 2, friend 1 will smoke pot and get addicted to it. I have no problem confronting her with my concern, becuase she confronts me about cutting all the time. The issue is, I don't know what to say without coming off like I'm trying to run her life. PLEASE HELP ME?!
I rate..
Sorry it's so long.. (link)
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i wouldn't really worry about it because pot is only addictive if you do it like every day all day for like legit 10 yrs. if you still wanna talk to her about it, just be like "i don't care if you do it every once in a while but i don't want you to become so absorbed in it that you won't have time for other things.." and let her know that if she starts to do otherdrugs you will have a problem w/ that. just be like i know you try to advise me with my cutting, and i just want to be there for you.. make sure it doesnt get any worse (although its not a rpbolem if you just smoke sometimes.)
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So when I was 13 in the summer at a wedding reception, I ended up chugging about 2 glasses of red wine (and some champagne) and well after a little while I remember feeling severely depressed (I have depression, but it was unlike anything else) and I was running into the bathroom every 2 seconds because i was about to cry.
That night after it I couldn't stop crying from midnight-3 am, and i was shaking and breathing really fast and i really was so suicidal i was honestly about to do it right then and there. It was so weird.
Was this just the effects of the red wine that i was feeling? Because it seems like that wasn't enough alcohol to actually feel the effects of it.
Also- I used to drink about 3 sips of red wine a day for about a week- and I would always get hangovers every morning so I'd have to go and drink some then... But why was i getting hangovers from just 3 sips? (link)
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alcohol can have different effects on people, and they ar e more severe for younger/smaller people.. so since you are only thirteen, and already have depression, and alcohol can cause feelings of depression, that't probably why you felt so bad that night. so i think it just was the effects of the red wine you were drinking and nothing more. ...and if you were only drinking like 3 sips a day, you were probably dehydrated or didn't eat much during that time... and since you used red wine to relieve your hangover that would continue it another day. darker alcohols cause worse hangovers than lighter ones... so yeah. i wouldn't drink til you're a little older because it seems to have a worse affect on you than most.
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well, it's sort of in the friendship/love life section. i wasn't too sure which one to stick it in.
it's my crush's birthday soon and i was wondering what i should get him. anybody got any ideas? i want to get him something nice, but you know, i only got so much money. probably like 20 dollars or so, i can proably even go 30. i mean i thought of the usual cologne idea but he already has enough cologne and i've asked him countless times what he wants me to get him, and he just answers,"whatever you get me will be fine." that didn't help at all.
-.-
so if anybody has any ideas for me, id' really appreciate it! (link)
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a hat of his favorite team
tickets to a concert/game you both like
video games
bake cookies!
boxerss
t shirt of favorite team
funny t shirt from spencer's
hope those help!
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