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difficult sittuation (kinda long sorry)
hey so i have these 3 best friends were not like a bitchy clique but we mainly all ahng out together when we go out we go out together but we hang out with other people and stuff all the time. but anyways 3 of us including me are always allowed to do a lot i meen we dont have the privelages of some other kids with hang out with but we have decent ones that are reasonable.. the other one though she isnt allowed to do anything and wheen i say anything i meen literally like anything a normal teenager would be allowed to do. her parents are way over protective.. i know that you would be like well why do you care its not you whos under all taht control.. but us 3 all feel like it is because of the fact that say we wanna go somewhere and all of our moms say yes were like okay and were like kay you comnig and then she goes oh im not allowe.d. you guys can go or you can come over and sleepover.. and yeah sometimes were like yeah sure cause we feel bad but it gets to a point where its every single night and we all feel like our social lives are getting crushed it like depresses me i wanna go out.. but you know when you go out you have your friends that you talk to and stuff and you have good times with but then theres your best best friends that you kinda of need at least one of there just in case you dont have a good time or you feel awkward.. well thats like us 4 and we all dont know waht to do.. its really been bothering me i was supposed to go out tonight and one of them is on vaca and then obviously that one girl wasnt allowed while us 2 were ive been looking forward to this party since the end of school and i thought iw as gonna go but since i dont have any of them going im like whatver nah and my mom probably will say id prefer if i knew at least one person going..
i know this is long im soo sorry i just need desperate help.. and sorry too if anyone thinks im being greedy its not my fault really.
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were not gonna talk to her mom... thats out of the question her mom would probably be like um i know how to raise my daugther i know her mom a lot and she wouldnt really care what we have to say she would just be like um ok?shes a really nice person i love her and stuff but i just wish that girl coudl hang out with us more.. soo yeah were not talking to her mom any other suggestions
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tell her to talk to her mom... or have you mom talk to her mom... or have all of your friends together talk to her mom. whenever you guys go out be sure to be responsible, and let her parents know that you are. tell her to tell them they have no reason not to trust her and that she's gonna grow up one day so she needs to be eased into the real world. her parents are only hurting her in the long run, and they should know that.
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