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Hey. Its Ashleigh. Hm, I finally decided to change this thing. I have an amazing fiance, and I love him with all my heart.
We have a 7 year age gap, but that doesn't bother us. He is 22 if you are wondering.
We have been together for 3 years! Which amazes us both. We got engaged on February 2, 2007. & we found out we were pregnant in around May. I'm due in January 2008.
This is my second column on here, my first one being "mayonnaise".
I have a wonderful twin sister, Alexandra. She has a column, but hardly ever uses it.
I love piercings, and I currently have a little over 20. I also have two tattoos. Before you ask my brothers own a tattoo shop which is how I got my tattoos.
I'm Bipolar, and ADHD. I also am OCD. I have Tourettes. I've also had problems with Anorexia and Bulimia. I've been in rehab twice for my eating disorders. And I also had a PEG feeding tube in my stomach for a while.
I live in Lizard Lick, North Carolina.
If you are wondering where that is, its about 15 minutes away from Raleigh.
My fiance and I are attempting to buy a house in Raleigh. Getting out of this town is a huge priority.
I do have my permit, so I can drive. :]
My fiance recently bought me a car that isn't a piece like my 280z was.
I now have a 2007 Honda Civic! :]
I'm home schooled, and I'm in the 11th grade.
And that's about all you need to know about me.
I don't give amazing advice, and I admit it sucks sometimes. I try to give advice based on my opinion, because I don't give a fuck what you think about my answer. Feedback is a must. :]
advice
ok mi friend texted me this, and i dont understand it:
Hey for my party is friday night good.
Hey.
You should text her back and say, pay attention in english. Ha, I do that sometimes. Its pretty funny.
Anyways, Shes asking if Friday night is a good night for her party.
Okay, I've tried tampons a few times and I know that when it's in you're not supposed to feel it so up untill now, I haven't got it right once because everytime I used one it was super uncomfortable.
So, I bought some lite ones instead of the regular ones I was using and I tried it and I can barely feel it but I'm still aware it's there and can feel it a little but it's not uncomfortable.
So my question is are you not supposed to feel it at all? Cause I would've thought that when you sat down you'd be vaguely aware it's there, it just wouldn't be uncomfortable.
Hey.
You are supposed to feel it, but it shouldn't be uncomfortable. As long as its not bothing you, then its fine.
I really want to get into watching anime and stuff but i dont like when they arent animated well. Spirited away was good, because it was actually done really really well. so does anyone know any really good ones? shows or movies?
Hey.
I love anime. What about manga? Its pretty good too, you may want to check into manga..its like anime.
Anyways. Shows/Movies;
Akira.
Blood the Last Vampire.
Castle in the Sky.
Castle of Cagliostro.
City Hunter Movies
Cowboy Bebop The Movie.
The Dagger of Kamui.
Dirty Pair OVA.
Ghost in The Shell.
Ghost in The Shell 2: Innocence.
Grave of The Fireflies.
Gunsmith Cats.
Here is Greenwood.
Howl's Moving Castle.
Kiki's Delivery Service.
Macross Plus.
Millennium Actress.
Mobile Suit Gundam 0080.
Mobile Suit Gundam Char's Counterattack.
Mobile Suit Gundam F91.
My Neighbor Totoro.
Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind.
Oh! My Goddess OVA & Movie.
Otaku no Video.
Patlabor - Movies.
Perfect Blue.
Pom Poko.
Porco Rosso.
Princess Mononoke.
Roujin Z.
Rurouni Kenshin Trust and Betrayal.
Spirited Away.
Tokyo Godfathers.
Vampire Princess Miyu.
Whisper of the Heart.
Blue Seed.
Blue Submarine No.6.
BubbleGum Crisis.
El Hazard: Magnificent World.
FLCL.
Hakkenden.
Mobile Suit Gundam the Movies.
Mobile Suit Gundam 0083.
Record of Lodoss War.
Serial Experiments Lain.
Tenchi Muyo OVA.
Ai Yori Aoshi .
BubbleGum Crisis 2040.
Cardcaptor Sakura.
Chobits.
City Hunter TV.
Cowboy Bebop - TV.
Crest of the Stars.
Escaflowne.
Not sure if this is in the right category but whatever. I'm getting my bellybutton pierced in a couple of weeks and I need to know the risks involved. Please only answer if you've actually gotten it pierced. Also what's the pain like compared to getting your ear pierced. Thanks.
Hey.
I have over 20 piercings, one of which my belly button.
It is not guaranteed to get infected. It only does when you do not take care of it. If you keep it clean, then you won't have any problems. I recommend you getting some H2Ocean, the place you get it pierced at should have some. DO NOT use preparation h, it is the worst possible thing to do.
As with any piercing, pain is involved. I'm a baby, but I'd say it hurts a little worse than my ears. It all depends on how good or bad you take pain.
Good Luck.
my boyfriend recently got posion ivy. well, how long untill it goes away? [it was on his leg and he touched his face and now hes just a mess haha] anyways, even when its gone, can i get affected by it even when he appears to be "posion ivy free"? i was told it never leaves your body, like a cold sore once you get it you dont get rid of it, sometimes it just appears. is that true? && thanks for reading :]
Hey.
I think it normally goes away in 1-2 weeks, depends on how bad you get it.
Yes, it does leave you body. Once it goes away, its gone until you go play in a field of poisen ivy. No worries.
But once he gets rid of it, wait a few days, then he should be okay to touch.
I started dating my bf who is 23...I'm only 17. How do i tell my parents? I'm from a traditional family...he's a tattoo covered punk i met in a mosh pit. I hate sneaking around, i am usually honest with them. But now its also gettting hard to keep up the secrecy since we live fairly far away. I honestly don't even know if its worth it anymore. How did you know your boyfriend was the right one?
Hey.
Just tell your parents you have a new boyfriend, tell them you've known him for a while, and that you really like him and want them to meet him.
I didn't really have to deal with telling my parents since we had known him for so long, and they pretty much knew it was gonna happen sooner or later anyways.
Arrange for you and your boyfriend to take your parents out for dinner. Tell your boyfriend to act really mature and all and it should go through alright. :]
Good Luck.
Ok, so I dye my hair A LOT! i use a hair dye called Manic panic. Well, i know that i'm damaging my hair, and my friends have said that there are certain conditioners you can use to keep your hair.."life-full", so it won't look all dead, and thinning. Because i have pretty thick hair, and i want to keep it that way. I've just started dying it here recently..but it's semi-permanent hair dye, so you have to do it ever week, to two weeks.
So, yeah, what is the BEST conditioner/shampoo you can use for damaging hair.
Hey.
My fiances sister is a hair stylest, and since my hair is pretty much fryed she says the best shampoo and conditioner is;
-Chi [yes they make shampoo and conditioner. i use it]
-BioSilk
-Joico
& Redkin
Ok, i really need a new straightener. Can you guys help me, soon if possible. Here are some of my questions: what is a decent prise for a GOOD one that will actually straighten nicly and not take too long. also what is a good brand?? conair, revlon, chi..? whateva any suggestions would be welcome! Thanks soooo much
Hey.
My fiances sister is a hair stylest and is always referring Chi.
I have a Chi, and as you can tell in my user pic, it is well worth the $150 my fiance payed for it.
You can actually get Chi from amazon.com for $115.
They are actually better for your hair than cheaper straightners. I'd say get a Chi.
how can you get prgenet? is it when a penis cums inside your vagina, also what are the safest way not to get pregenet & if a guy uses a plastic bag or like a plastic sandwithc bag other than a condom , would you might be able to get pregent? Thanks so muchh anways, Luvv Esty!
Hey.
Condoms are meant to be tight, and air-free. Well they are. That way, all the cum stays in one place and doesn't go toward the only way out of the condom. Plasic anything = Not Good. It won't be tight, or air-free. Don't risk it.
And you can get pregnant by pre-cum just as much as you can cum. Just chances are less, but still possible. You can also get pregnant even if the penis is not inside the vagina.
when you discharge should you change your underwear
Yes.
Planning to have sex for the first time this weekend.
Im just a little nervous.
Mostly about what if the condom comes off or breaks and i end up getting pregnant.
Any advice or tips about Sex for the first time.
Hey.
If you buy the right brand, and size condoms, you shouldn't worry about it breaking. Now, if you buy cheap crappy ones that don't fit, you may have a problem.
I have found out..by experience, that Trojan is wayy better than LifeStyles. But LifeStyles doesn't make condoms large enough to fit my fiance...that could have been the problem. I have heard that Trojan is better, I agree.
Just enjoy it.
Good Luck. Be Safe.
Hey its WoahThereBabe, let me start off saying that i LOVE your new picture, its really cool.
My question is how do you get your hair that straight!?
thanks :]
Hey. Thanks :]
Tommys sister is a hair stylest and hooked me up with all the Chi products. Well actualy, Tommy payed, she just picked them out. :]
I use the Chi shampoo/conditioner as well as the Silk Infusion, and I can not leave out the wonderful Chi flat iron. :]
Thanks again! :]
Hi,
I`m almost 18 years old.. and recently found out that i`m pregnant. I couldn't be more than a month.. Birth control obviously isn`t a hundred percent.. well, i've done way too much to stress out my family and i have way too much planned for me to have a baby right now.
I can`t let my mother know what's happenening.. and my father has always been out of the picture.
My boyfriend is almost 20; he's ready for this, i definately am not. He doesn't really respect my decision.. but i`m going to do what i need to do..
does anyone know what alternative i have since i`m not 18 and can't go and get an abortion on my own? is there anything else..
Please help.. as soon as you can..
Hi.
Please don't get an abortion.
Talk to your boyfriend, see what he wants for the baby. If he wants to keep it, then have the baby and see if he wants to take care of it and keep it. Then when you get older, and ready, you can take over with him. That's what I would do anyways.
Or, Have the baby and put it up for adoption.
Just make sure whatever decision you make, your boyfriend agrees with it.
Alright, so I started stretching my ears just this past sunday. I started at a 20 and bought 16 and 14 gauge earrings from spencers. The 16's went it like nothing, so I tried to put in the 14's. They went in a little tighter, but it didn't hurt at all, bleed,or anything. It's been a couple of days now, and I know normally you're supossed to wait like a week or two before you put new ones in, but I can move it around freely cause i play with the ring a lot. Is it alright if I gauge up another size like today or tomorrow? Oh yeah and what size is it once you go past your ears don't close up anymore?
Hey.
I have over 20 piercings, and I do gauge.
I went from 20 to 12 in a week. If you feel like its okay to put it in, then go for it.
Typically, you are supposed to wait one week between gauges.
Oh, and its 8 gauge that is where your ears don't close up. I had a 10, and when I took it out, it looked like I still had a 20. But anyways, I gots a 00 now.
Good Luck. :]
you're 14 and engaged to a 21 year old?
how on earth do your parents allow that?
We have known him forever. They really like him. Plus my parents have the same age difference.
They pretty much know that he respects me and doesn't only want to fuck me.
my friend needs some ideas on what she should do for her boyfriends birthday. shes goann see him at school so she wants to know wfat she can either give him or just do or make or watver for him at school any ideas open to anything thanks!
Hey.
I think she should take and make a scrapbook for him. I always thought that was cute. Guys love it.
I recently made my fiance a book and titled it "100 Reasons I Love You". He loved it.
She can write him a poem. Those are sweet.
Or even make a picture frame. Craftster.org has some amazing ideas. Which reminds me..
This site has a bunch of stuff to make boyfriends;
http://www.craftster.org/forum/index.php?topic=47986.0
whats that song that goes "Because maybe youre gonna be the one to save me, after all you are my wonderwall"
Its called Wonderwall by, Oasis.
Today is gonna be the day that they're gonna throw it back to you
By now you shoulda somehow realized what you gotta do
I don't believe that anybody feels the way I do about you now
Back beat, the word is on the street that the fire in your heart is out
I'm sure you've heard it all before but you never really had a doubt
I don't believe that anybody feels the way I do about you now
And all the roads we have to walk are winding
And all the lights that lead us there are blinding
There are many things that I would like to say to you
But I don't know how
Because maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonderwall
Today was gonna be the day but they'll never throw it back to you
By now you shoulda somehow realized what you're not to do
I don't believe that anybody feels the way I do about you now
And all the roads that lead you there were winding
And all the lights that light the way are blinding
There are many things that I would like to say to you
But I don't know how
I said maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonderwall
I said maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonderwall
I said maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
You're gonna be the one that saves me
You're gonna be the one that saves me
(Really cool but short guitar solo. You have to love it.)
is this website really real its been going on in myspace comments:
www.bosgoe.com
Hey.
Nope. They won't work.
One thing to learn; if it was on a myspace comment, chances are its fake.
Ok...i'm 16, my parents are going away and my aunt is staying with us. She already told me i could have some people over, like 10ish...and that we could drink.
Should i do it?? I'm a little worried about being caught, but i feel like if we're careful we wont get caught....
Advice??? I feel like its all a part of being in highschool :)
Hey.
Wow. If you are asking strangers if you should drink, then obviously you aren't mature enough to.
I think your aunt is testing you. She is giving you the temptation to see if you will or not. I think so anyways. You probably shouldn't drink, you risk you're aunt telling your parents. Also, just think of how proud your parents will be to learn that you were offered beer and turned it down.
Is universal fun? I've heard from some people its a blast and others its not that great. What do you guys think?
(Please only answer this question if you've been there. thanks (: )
Hey.
My fiance and his family took me for my birthday last year. It was amazing! I would go back in a minute if I had the chance. You should defiantly go. We all had a blast. :]
Hope you go, & Have fun! :]