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Sex
Planning to have sex for the first time this weekend.
Im just a little nervous.
Mostly about what if the condom comes off or breaks and i end up getting pregnant.
Any advice or tips about Sex for the first time.
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Make sure you really want to do it before you acually want to. Make sure its what you always wanted and its special.. If you don't you'll regret it. When i fist had sex with my boyfriend(who i'm still with[for a long time now]) i never regreted it was with him. Becasue i love him and i know he loves me. And i;m sure your boyfriend loves you. But i always regreted that it wasn't what i wanted. It was in his room with his mom downstiars and cloths on. Not the perfect dream i always dreamed of. And if your carefull it really wont come off. If your worried about getting pregnate you might want to buy some "spermiside"<[sp] comdoms. They kill the spirm cells when it comes out of his penis. They work from what i know. But you can use regular and you should be fine if there new.
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Use two forms of protection: get on the pill, take it everyday at the same hour & use a condom every single time. That way, if one protection fails, the other is there to back you up.
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My advice is to wait a couple of weeks more. You should get on a form of birthcontrol that works for you incase a condom breaks or slips. By getting on birthcontrol you have a safety net there.
If you're scared of that happening and getting pregnant wait a few weeks and allow a birthcontrol device to kick in that will protect you.
You should look into a new form of birthcontrol that you put in your vagina once a month that releases a chemical that prevents pregnancy called NuvaRing. It might be helpful to you.
As far as first time advice is make sure there's a condom, make sure you are properly lubricated (buy a bottle of an artifical one if needed) because if you're not you'll feel discomfort. Communicate with your partner about what you want and make sure he knows ouch, quit, it hurts etc. etc. means to stop immediately.
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if your nervous about teh outcome, dont have sex....
if you still want to have sex them buy a condom with spermicides in it, in case the condom does break atleast the sperms were killed.. MOST LIKELY...
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wait till you can get on birth control and even if the condom does break atleast you wont get pregnant...
but if you really are nervous then it could make for a not so comfortable first time
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If you're not ready to deal with the possible consequences of sex, then you're not ready to have sex.
There are tons of fun things to do without having sex, and it's really better if you wait until you're old enough to deal with anything that could go wrong. Then you're not paranoid and you can relax more!
If you're going to go ahead with it anyways, then I would NOT suggest Trojans. Durex are the best... never had one break before. My personal favourite is Sensi-Thin.
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Hey.
If you buy the right brand, and size condoms, you shouldn't worry about it breaking. Now, if you buy cheap crappy ones that don't fit, you may have a problem.
I have found out..by experience, that Trojan is wayy better than LifeStyles. But LifeStyles doesn't make condoms large enough to fit my fiance...that could have been the problem. I have heard that Trojan is better, I agree.
Just enjoy it.
Good Luck. Be Safe.
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