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fuckkkk pregnant or not?
15/f
So on satuday may 5th, i had sex with my boyfriend
that ive been with for a longg time. Now it went fine. I lost my viginity to him and he lost it to me. Now we did it in the woods which is strange but we arent supposed to be doing it and it was fine i didn't mind. So he left his pocket knife out in the woods that day. A few days later him and his 2 friends went out to the woods to get it. His friend lets call him Jay saw the condom and accused my boyfriend lets call him Ryan. He refused because we promised eachother we wouldnt tell anyone that we did it. If certain people found out somehow it would get to his brother and we would be forced to break up. Blah Blah but that not important. When "jay" and "ryan" and lets call the other guy "joe" were out in the woods jay said there was a hole in the condom. Now this was 3 days after we did it and we left the condom in the woods. We thought jay was trying to be a pain in the ass and get a reaction out of us but we had to ignore him because he couldnt know we did it. So i didnt care anymore. Then ryan told me he was still bothered by what jay said. now im scared because if there was a hole i could be pregnant. im not buying a test to dont try that. i know im supposed to get my period this week or the beginning of next. if i dont have it in 2 weeks then theres deffinatly something wrong. I hate to sit and wait though. Im getting the symptoms that i usually get a day ahead of the day i get my period. But what if its not that. I had these pains last nigth and all day today. Which is not normal. Maybe i should just wait. But is there anything i can do to tell sooner? If im pregant im fucked! my mom would kill me and "ryan". And reminder pregnancy test arent available for me wats so everr.
Please help me
Sorry it was soo longg
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ok having sex will make you period come late just calm down and if you dont get it get a friend to take you to a drug store and get a pregnancy test they will sell them to you honestly its all probably from it being your first time and if the condom was out there for 2 days theres no telling what got a hold of it so calm down and see what happens good luck
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You won't get pains from being pregnant only a week after conception. These pains are totally unrelated to pregnancy. My guess is that Jay just made it up. Taking a home pregnancy test now is useless. It'll only work 2 weeks after you had sex. Just wait for your period to come. It will. Good luck and next time, check to see if there's holes before and after you have sex to help you feel better and not have to go through this again. Good luck. :)
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all you can do is wait, just try and calm down.
You could try going to a planned parenthood and get tested (its confidential) but other than that you just have to wait. sorry theres nothing mroe we can say =[
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Try to stay calm and not think about it. If you're really stressed out, that will delay your period even longer. Since you can't buy a pregnancy test, really all you can do is wait. It's too early to tell.
Have you considered calling a doctor? They do allow people in your situation to set up private appointments that your parents will never find out about. The doctor can give you a pregnancy test.
If you can't do that, just remember what I said: don't let yourself get stressed out. I really think that Jay just said that to get you guys to confess you did it. I wouldn't worry about it.
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