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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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Okay so me and my bf have been dating for a year and a half. But he's recovering from a drug addiction so he hasn't treated me the best, but my brothers both went into rehab so I understand. He broke up with me last week but then started messaging me on facebook and he kept telling me he missed me and loved me but its what he had to do. I told him I understood which I do but then asked if I could see him one more time. He smiled and said of course and we met up yesterday. We were supposed to get coffee but he asked if I wanted to see a movie or go to the beach and I thought about it and said yeah cause we get along so well when we are together. We had an amazing time and ended up making out but it didn't get further. Anyways when we were driving I kinda had a breakdown and started crying because I didn't want him to disappear from my life again. He kept going from I want to make this relationship to work to I can't do this right now but I really wanna marry you one day. We ended up saying we were gonna start off dating slowly and just start over. But now I feel like maybe that's not what he wants. He's so confusing because he switches his answer and I know if he is a confused about me I should leave cause I want someone who wants me all the time but I really believe him when he tells me that I am the one for him. But I'm really scared of losing him completely, I really love him and when he's not in my life I feel extremely depressed and alone. I want him in my life really badly, especially when he's clean and doing well. I just want to know if I should disappear from his life? Even though I think when I do that he will come back in a week like he always does. :/ please help
You shouldn't disappear from his life completely, and you couldn't even if you wanted to. He seems to truly love you, which is why this is even harder on him. It's amazing that you are so understanding of his situation and he truly does seem to appreciate you being there for him. I know it's hard, but just relax and let things fall into place on it's own time. He does want to be with you in the long term, but right NOW, it might not be the best time for him. He's not in a good place completely which is why he needs time to figure out what he wants out of life, and that probably isn't for you to disappear. He probably doesn't want to bring you down or disappoint you which is why he could be trying to distance himself. You need to talk to him and let him know how much you care about him and that you will always be there for him no matter what he is going through. He may already know that, but just remind him. Let him know that you won't rush into anything again, but when the time is right you guys will continue to work on your relationship. I think the last thing he needs right now is for you to just leave him and never talk to him again. Best of luck!
I know this really sweet guy, but he lives in Illinois. He is very smart, patient, and cute, and I think I'm starting to like him. I live in Florida, though, and right now I really can't travel.
I really think I'm beginning to like him though, and he said he likes me too. He told me he has had a long distance relationship before with a girl that lived in San Diego, and she moved in with him and he found out after a year of dating her she was cheating on him the whole time. He seems like a very sensitive, emotional guy, and I want to try to make a long distance relationship work, but I know it will be difficult for both of us. Any advice?
Relationships in general can be difficult and tough, however, when the couple really cares about each other they can truly get through anything. Especially the distance. Since you both really like one another, give it a try. You both have to be able to trust one another in order to make a long distance relationship work. It's going to be tough because you would want to see him and spend time with him, and when you live so far apart that can be frustrating for the both of you. I know when I don't see my boyfriend for a week, I miss him like crazy because I'm so used to spending time with him. The best thing for you right now is just to take it slow and see where things are going. When you are able to start traveling more, it'll get a lot easier for the both of you. Good luck with everything!
my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "
do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
im 13 by the way
No!!!! Never EVER send a guy naked pictures of yourself, no matter how much they ask you or how much they "love" you.
does oral and anal sex on both guys and girls taste discusting? what does it taste like?
Oral sex doesn't taste disgusting, unless the person doesn't shower and has horrible hygiene. However, people don't really "taste" anything when they have anal sex.
Is it possible for me to 'put off' having my period for a couple of days. I'm suppose to meet my boyfriend and well i think you understand my predicament. :)
Any advice would be much appreciated. Thank you.
No, you can't put off your period. The only way you can know when you will actually have your period is if you get on birth control. It makes you have consistent periods at the same time every month. That way, you can plan your activities in advance.
is it normal for your boyfriend to act like he doesn't care about you around his guy friends? is that normal does he wanna show them that he's in charge or does he just make a joke?
No, it is not okay or normal for a boyfriend to treat his girlfriend like she doesn't exist, especially around his friends. He's trying to act cool and show off but the only thing he's showing off is his nasty personality. You need to be with a guy who is not afraid to show you to his friends and a guy who will make YOU his best accessory :)
for my birthday my mom is taking me and my friend to see something on broadway my mom wants to see mama mia but i dont know if i wanna see that can you give me ideas on better broadway shows
I've seen Chicago on Broadway and it was amazing!! It was interesting because Ashlee Simpson stared in it :)
Is school Boeing to u
School can be very boring, especially if the teacher has no enthusiasm to make the class interesting.
Why girls shake their legs continuously?
It's because we either:
a. Have to pee
b. Are nervous about something
c. Or simply because we just feel like it
my friend started bed wetting
It happens..
ok so like i haven't felt good for weeks and i realy dont know what to do we are about to go on a trip to roaring river and i will always get sick before we go or when we get there and every time that happens? i just dont know what to do. will you plz help me?
Go to the doctor.
I ate tuna a few days ago. Ever since then, my stool & urine has smelt like tuna. What's going on ?
It isn't like a gross, dirty fishy smell. It smells specifically like canned tuna...
It's completely normal, and certain foods do cause the smell. Just make sure you drink a lot of water and the smell will go away in a day.
missionary doggy and cowgirl.
They are sex positions that will give a girl an orgasm, simple as that :)
do boys get or give more rim jobs
Get.
what are sexy nicknames for a boyfriend who is really hot
Call him playboy :P
How I can I get along with better
Stubborn people do not want to be wrong, and they will not back down from an argument. I know because I'm very stubborn too. If you guys are arguing, just don't talk back because it will make the situation worse.
If that fails, sex always make things better.
i like his girl and she kinda likes me. but she still really likes her ex boyfriend.what should i do age 11 male
Girls at that age like five different guys at one time so the fact she likes her "ex" is no surprise. What happened to kids playing Nintendo games at your age?
what is sex?
It is something that happens when two people really love each other.... or when a penis enters a vagina and goes back and forth.
Porn should answer your question better.
Is it ok if I put peanut butter on my vagina then let my dog lick it?
That's like putting peanut butter on your dogs vagina & licking it. Disgusting. It can cause infection, and it's just a sticky situation.
What jobs in Texas hire at 15?
Because I don't live in Texas, I can't give you specific restaurants, stores, etc. However, most places require their employees to be the age of sixteen. But, you can get a workers permit from your high school to work. I'm sure fast food places hire people under the age of 16.