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what to do-relationship over?
Okay so me and my bf have been dating for a year and a half. But he's recovering from a drug addiction so he hasn't treated me the best, but my brothers both went into rehab so I understand. He broke up with me last week but then started messaging me on facebook and he kept telling me he missed me and loved me but its what he had to do. I told him I understood which I do but then asked if I could see him one more time. He smiled and said of course and we met up yesterday. We were supposed to get coffee but he asked if I wanted to see a movie or go to the beach and I thought about it and said yeah cause we get along so well when we are together. We had an amazing time and ended up making out but it didn't get further. Anyways when we were driving I kinda had a breakdown and started crying because I didn't want him to disappear from my life again. He kept going from I want to make this relationship to work to I can't do this right now but I really wanna marry you one day. We ended up saying we were gonna start off dating slowly and just start over. But now I feel like maybe that's not what he wants. He's so confusing because he switches his answer and I know if he is a confused about me I should leave cause I want someone who wants me all the time but I really believe him when he tells me that I am the one for him. But I'm really scared of losing him completely, I really love him and when he's not in my life I feel extremely depressed and alone. I want him in my life really badly, especially when he's clean and doing well. I just want to know if I should disappear from his life? Even though I think when I do that he will come back in a week like he always does. :/ please help
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You shouldn't disappear from his life completely, and you couldn't even if you wanted to. He seems to truly love you, which is why this is even harder on him. It's amazing that you are so understanding of his situation and he truly does seem to appreciate you being there for him. I know it's hard, but just relax and let things fall into place on it's own time. He does want to be with you in the long term, but right NOW, it might not be the best time for him. He's not in a good place completely which is why he needs time to figure out what he wants out of life, and that probably isn't for you to disappear. He probably doesn't want to bring you down or disappoint you which is why he could be trying to distance himself. You need to talk to him and let him know how much you care about him and that you will always be there for him no matter what he is going through. He may already know that, but just remind him. Let him know that you won't rush into anything again, but when the time is right you guys will continue to work on your relationship. I think the last thing he needs right now is for you to just leave him and never talk to him again. Best of luck!
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