I am 16 years old. I am currently studying to take my A+ certification in Computer Maintenance Technology.
I have been through so many different things in my life, some more so easier to deal with than others. I got through it all, and I'm here to give you helpful, safe advice to help you get through them also.
I'm very open to any type of questions, I will help as much as I can. I'm also very easy to talk to, understanding, and non-judgmental. So don't be afraid to ask anything.
Gender: Female
Location: Waynesboro, VA
Age: 16
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okay, well first off i shave down there and it gets irritated very easily, is there any other methods i can do rather than shaving?
i wanna try waxing but i would never be able to pull the strip off myself, so if i went to a salon or w.e-- would they do the whole downstairs?
or just the 'bikini' part, like the sides of thighs. (link)
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hmm.. thats a good question. but i have a solution to the shaving thing. make sure you use soap. like dove.. or any kind of moisturizing one. this will help it from getting any razor burning or getting dried up. if it does put on some lotion. non fragrance! =]
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ok. i should be on the period like RIGHT NOW. but i'm not. i haven't had sex or anything but it's late. can someone explain why. thanks. (link)
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sometimes the schedule changes a little. just wait a while. dont be so impatient! =]
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I am a smoker. I plan to quit.
A high percentage of smokers gain weight when they quit. I am already overweight, and am trying to loose, not gain.
So, my question is this:
What can I do to keep from adding extra pounds?
Please, if you don't have an intelligent answer, don't bother wasting my time and yours.
Thanks (link)
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most smokers replace food as their smoking habbit. that is why they gain so much weight. so as long as your not eatting excessively, you should be okay. try going for a walk everyday. and eat healthy meals. i know i might be too young to be giving advice about this but try it out. im sure it will help =]
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I really like this guy! he asked me out today adn i said yes! Things are going great! ((im 13/f by the way)) I'm sorat shy but i want to hold his hand nd stuf but i feel like mayb he is shy to. I dont want to have to make the first move so what do i do? i want to hld his hand but i dont think i should have to make the first move.... HELP!? (link)
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of course you should! dont be afraid. he is probably much more scared than you haha. just when your walking bump into his hand. and then if he looks at you go and hold his hand. if he doesnt notice. try it again later. maybe he will get it. dont be shy! its much better getting out your feelings than leaving them in!
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I have pale skin, usually. It isn't scary pale, its more like ivory, but when I'm in fluerescent (spelling?) lighting, I look really...sickly? It just doesn't look good. I look like a vampire, and I obviously don't like it. Plus, the entire school has fluerescent lighting, and I definitely don't want to look bad at school. My question is, is there anything I can do (makeup trick, etc) that won't make me look washed out? Thanks =] (link)
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of course! get a liquid foundation. not too much darker than your skin color but a reasonable color. you will look better for sure!
also, make sure you wash it off before you go to bed. i sometimes forget to do this, and wake up with pimples!!!!!!!!!!! lol
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My hair is very damaged. I wash, dry, and straighten (with a CHI iron) my hair daily. I've dyed it numerous times professionally, but she didn't dye it right.
When she redyed it to touch it up, she didn't just put color on the roots then on the rest of the hair 15-20 minutes later. She put it all on at once.
I haven't dyed my hair since July and you can see where the damaged hair stops and the healthy hair starts. I know the only way to completely repair damaged hair is to cut it off but I'm looking for a product that will temporarily "fix" my hair and give it a healthy appearance.
Thanks=)
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first of all, go get your ends trimmed. this will help it grow better. I found out that SunSilk is really good on my damaged hair. it is the green kind for damaged hair. also condition your hair twice a day! leave it in for about 2 minutes each. next when you straighten you hair get a product that will make you hair not fry up. like shine solution which is from designline. i personally use that and its great. i have the same problem like you. just make sure you keep it conditioned. try not to dye it as much.
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can someone tell me the EXACT definition of straightedge? i think its just not getting into drugs and alchohal, but can someone tell me the true definition of it. thnx
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it is a subculture centered around hardcore music. People who are straight edge do not smoke, do drugs or consume alcohol. There are no dietary or religious beliefs tied to straight edge.
late 70's They took a symbol that was originally used to identify them as being too young to drink so that the bartenders would know not to serve them and they made it their own. So they started setting themselves apart by wearing X's on their hands and by singing angry songs.
"I'm a person just like you
But I've got better things to do
Than sit around and fuck my head
Hang out with the living dead
Snort white shit up my nose
Pass out at the shows
I don't even think about speed
That's something I just don't need
I've got the straight edge"
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There's this guy that I REALLY like. He's sweet, sensitive, funny, kind of shy, and really cute. But he's not like every other guy. He has different opinions on things and he isn't afraid to express his views. I'm so attracted to him...and one day I told him how I felt.
He said he didn't like me yet, and that for now him and I should be friends.
But, in a way, he returned his feelings. How will I know when he feels exactly the same way as I do? (link)
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when he starts giving you hints. maybe flirting. messing around with you. try not to look so despirate for him. this will drive boys away, or think that they can make you do whatever. talk to him more. let him get to know you. this will help him get to know what youre like and decide weather or not her likes you. if not dont worry, like i always say there is someone for you out there. dont stress over one guy. they are not worth it =]
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My tampons always leak. When I take it out, there is almost not blood on it! How did it manage to leak if it never soaked anything up? What can I do? (link)
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try to get a heavier one, also buy some liners to put on. this will stop from ruining your underwear.
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Im a 15 year old female and I think Im bisexual. I like guys but I think I like girls. Like, I think about making out with them and stuff like that. I know a couple bi people but anyway. Should I experience stuff with a girl and see if I like it before I make up my mind about being bisexual? Im attractive to them, I think.
-Confused. (link)
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Mostly everyone your age gets into that stage. Even myself. im not really sure. i think about girls alot. just because you think about it, doesnt mean you have to go out in do it. maybe you should find a girl you would be attracted to. try getting to know her. see if you really like it. im not sure what to tell ya. but i know it happens to alot of people. sometimes we just dont know!
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So me and this guy have been going out for 3 months now, and we're 16. So when we're talking online, he tells me all these sweet things like how pretty i am, and how much he misses me, and stuff like that. But when we're in person, he doesnt talk about that kind of stuff. Ive asked him about it (on AIM), and he says hes just so shy. I dont know what to do to make him less shy, so he can talk about that type of thing in person. Any advice? Thanks. (link)
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Yeah, this usually happens. why dont you start by asking him questions. start conversations with him. once you get to know him more he wont be shy. believe me haha, alot of boys are shy but they'll break sooner or later, just keep talking, getting to know each other more. He will get more comfortable with you then.
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i'm 5"3 and 118 pounds.
is this too heavy? honesty, please.
also, im a bit lazy. but i want to start excersising and toning my arms, stomach, and thighs. does anyone know of any specific workouts or specific excersise plans that i can try at home
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No, you are at the normal weight! trust me! You are fine. plus once you grow, and get taller it will all go away. dont worry about it. Just start eating healthier foods. try not to eat in between meals. and if you do try and eat healthy foods. also take walks now and then. this should keep your weight good and healthy. dont pressure or stress yourself into loosing weight. your weight is fine! just do the things i said and you will be okay!
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theress this girl in my class. shes the toughest meanest girl like in the world. if she doesnt like you shes gona fight u and DESTROY u.. and now she hates me all off a sudden and i dun know why.. now shes turning all my frends against me.. she made my boyfrend dump me.. and she pushes me and hits me and everthing but i cant do anything about it because i know she'll kill me and if i fight her back and get suspended, i'll get kicked off the cheerleading team and punished for life. and in every class she sits near me and talks to the person next to her about me and she does it on purpose so i can hear her. and a couple days ago, i came late to class and sat down and everybody started laughing, my frend told me she switched my chair and desk with the special ed girl in my class...i have no idea wat to do.. ! (link)
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first of all. do not let her get you down. if she pushes you dont show her youre afraid. just ignore it, act as if it doesnt bother you. this usually gets them bored. knowing they arnt getting anywhere. and i am almost positive that something is wrong with her family, and she is having issues. that is why she is taking it out on you. I still dont understand why people do this. but its to make themselves feel better. just whatever you do dont get on her level. just ignore her she'll get tired of it. and if she is still bothering you tell your parents. get your classes switched. and if things are even worse. you might want to talk about switching schools. I hope everything goes okay for you. i know how it feels lol. i just laugh at them.
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im fat. all i ever think about is food and eating. i cant stay out of the pantry and fridge, and i eat when im bored. i dont want to be this way. i already work out and it helps some. now i just need to control my eating. how can i not be so distracted by food? i talked to my mom and i asked her to stop buying junk but i have 6th other family members..and this is not an option. help me please. (link)
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Ask your mom to buy you better foods. foods that are healthy for you atleast. so that you arnt eating junk. Also do things to get your mind off food. Go hang out with friends and have fun. this usually gets your mind off of things.
i didnt say she had to stop buying junk food. i just ment like for you. so you wouldnt have to eat the junk food.
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14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him (link)
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Why dont you try getting your mind off of him. Like I told the last person. It might take a while, but it wont hurt to go out and have some fun. having fun will make time go by faster. also gets your mind off of them. Try not calling him as much. that also helps. remember there is always someone for you! i never thought there would be anyone for me, but i was wrong. You will be much happier once you move on! so start getting out of the house!
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what are some good ways of getting over a guy u really liked and went out with but he broke up with you because he was just tired. and he has another gurlfriend?. and i really want to talk to him again but what can i say? its been a month and i cant get over him but i want to please help thanks. (link)
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Yeah im sure this will happen to everyone in their lives. It's a really hard to get over. Try Talking to him over the computer. or suprise him and call , ask how he's doing. If he is an ass like my ex.. lol then thats very hard. But, find something to take your mind off of him. Go out with friends, Play some games online or w.e, have a friend sleep over , or go to theirs.All you gotta do is get your mind off of them. I know it seems difficult but thats what made me stop thinking of him. I mean yes, You'll still sometimes care about him. But, just try not to be so.. idk how to say it.. maybe...desperate. i dont know. like dont act as if it bothers you so much. it will just make him mad. but basically just do things to get your mind off of him! thats the best thing you can do, instead of sitting around eating ice cream all day haha..
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i really like this cute guy in my gym class. hes really quiet and shy. my friend has 2 classes with me and she says hes really quiet and doesnt have friends. i want to talk to him and make him notice me. what can i say or do without looking desperate or stupid please help.
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maybe you should go up to him and talk to him. chances are he probably likes you. after you start talking to him, see if yous have anything in common
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I like this kid.... lets call him *bob*...... bob had a gf but she broke up with him cuz he cheated on her...... lets call his ex gf marie.... and the girl he cheated with alex.....i don't know why but i still like him....all my friends say i shouldn't like him because what he did to marie but i still like him and he's really nice to me and alot of people say he likes me, and he's gunna ask me out..... should i go out with him? (link)
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of course you should. dont worry about what other people say. if you really like him. and if he really likes you thats great. but if he were to cheat on you just dont even bother with him. theres nothing wrong with giving him a chance. he might have changed.
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okay so fingering....what preperations would you need before you do it..ive never had it done and i dont plan to like ever with my bf....cause i think its gross and it wouldnt pleasure me at all..
but do you shave EVERY LITTLE BIT down there? and the top part? what if you leave some? do you shave between your crack?
it may sound stupid but i have to ask haha (link)
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you dont HAVE to shave anything at all. But personally I do. because its just annoying to me. some guys may think its gross but others dont mind. theres no preperations. it just happens.. dont worry about it so much. and if you do shave you can do hoever you want. theres no right or wrong way. just be sure to use soap! and a clean razor. and if it gets dry 'lotion' non fragrance =] any other questions you can ask me
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OK this is a reallllly weird question, But me and my friend are 13, and she is in a size 36 A and i'm in a 30-32 A.....and she alrdy has cleavage!!! But i dont, and i was wondering how big your boobs have to be to get cleavage lol, i was wondering if there is anything i can do to get it? (link)
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well you shouldnt be worried about how your boobs look. everyones grows different. and you cant do anything to make your boobs big. youll have to just wait like every other girl
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