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theress this girl in my class. shes the toughest meanest girl like in the world. if she doesnt like you shes gona fight u and DESTROY u.. and now she hates me all off a sudden and i dun know why.. now shes turning all my frends against me.. she made my boyfrend dump me.. and she pushes me and hits me and everthing but i cant do anything about it because i know she'll kill me and if i fight her back and get suspended, i'll get kicked off the cheerleading team and punished for life. and in every class she sits near me and talks to the person next to her about me and she does it on purpose so i can hear her. and a couple days ago, i came late to class and sat down and everybody started laughing, my frend told me she switched my chair and desk with the special ed girl in my class...i have no idea wat to do.. !
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Oh god! girls can be so cruel. i went through a similar situation except it was a group of five girls instead of just one, and they turned my best friend against me. it was awful!
i just ignored them as best as i could, and eventually they stopped.
bullies like to get a reaction out of the person they're bullying. if they dont get a reaction, they get bored and find another victim.
so if she does something that makes the whole class laugh at you, laugh with them. no matter how embarrassed or hurt or sad you may feel, just laugh. that will really confuse her.
and if gets really bad, then you should talk to a teacher, a counselor, or even the principal.
you could try standing up to her, but i don't want you to get hurt, so letting someone older with more authority to handle it is much better.
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I don't know why. I have been in this situation too. One day my friend brought one of her other friends oer so we could all play at recess and for some reason I just hated her. We real don't like each other. Sometimes it just happens even if you don't do anything. That girl might be thinking shes 'taking revenge' or something. I have to agree with the other person that gave you advice. Shes being a bitch. There are just theses people out there that we will never know why there doing this. There just bored with they own lives and need to try and control someone elses.
You need to talk to someone - the counciler, fill out student form (well we have thoses) and get it to stop. Also if your in a conersation that someone is talking bad about someone else - back away fom it. Even if your just kidding around. Be alot more consterate. Make her be the bad guy (girl). Tell her to back off and ask her why shes doing this. If she gies you some dum reason like 'because I don't like you' Tell her shes being hold-hearted and just to be humain.
Well I don't know if that helped, but good luck. ^_^
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Well first things first, if she wants to fight you ( not saying you should) but if comes down to that and she throws a punch first and pushes you first you can fight back for sefl defence, you will still get in some trouble but it will be minor. Other than tha you kinda just have to deal with her. Dont let what she says or do get to you ccause thats what she wants to happen. If she knows your weeknesses then she will use it to her advantage. If your friends are turning on you because of her then there not very good freinds. Also it may sound dorky but if it gets bad you need to tell someone. A parent or the guidence in your school. Good Luck:)
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yeah, this girl sounds like a major bitch. i'm sorry, but she does. first step is to tell your school guidance counslor about it. she/he can probably help you sort this whole thing out. if you don't like talking to your guidance counslor, try your parents. tell them about whats going on. so if you ever do punch her in the face (which she really needs at the moment) they'll understand why. honestly, if your friends ditched you because of SOMEONE ELSE, they're obviously not strong enough to be your real friends. real friends wouldn've leave your side through this bull. but for now, i would try ignoring the situation and stick close to the clothes you have right now.
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first of all. do not let her get you down. if she pushes you dont show her youre afraid. just ignore it, act as if it doesnt bother you. this usually gets them bored. knowing they arnt getting anywhere. and i am almost positive that something is wrong with her family, and she is having issues. that is why she is taking it out on you. I still dont understand why people do this. but its to make themselves feel better. just whatever you do dont get on her level. just ignore her she'll get tired of it. and if she is still bothering you tell your parents. get your classes switched. and if things are even worse. you might want to talk about switching schools. I hope everything goes okay for you. i know how it feels lol. i just laugh at them.
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