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good ways to get over a guy u really liked?
what are some good ways of getting over a guy u really liked and went out with but he broke up with you because he was just tired. and he has another gurlfriend?. and i really want to talk to him again but what can i say? its been a month and i cant get over him but i want to please help thanks.
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Yeah im sure this will happen to everyone in their lives. It's a really hard to get over. Try Talking to him over the computer. or suprise him and call , ask how he's doing. If he is an ass like my ex.. lol then thats very hard. But, find something to take your mind off of him. Go out with friends, Play some games online or w.e, have a friend sleep over , or go to theirs.All you gotta do is get your mind off of them. I know it seems difficult but thats what made me stop thinking of him. I mean yes, You'll still sometimes care about him. But, just try not to be so.. idk how to say it.. maybe...desperate. i dont know. like dont act as if it bothers you so much. it will just make him mad. but basically just do things to get your mind off of him! thats the best thing you can do, instead of sitting around eating ice cream all day haha..
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That happened to me not too long ago, he broke up with me (we were going out for 5 months) and literally the next day he had another girlfriend & all over his myspace it said "I love you Ava" and in his profile on AIM too. It hurt ALOT. I cried for a long time, and it took me a while to get over it, but I had my best friend with me the entire time, I just tried to forget about it.. my friends all told me that he wasent worth it & he dident deserve me & I'd find someone better.. & honestly, they were right. I have a new boyfriend now & I could not be happier. He was there for me when I got dumpped & helped me, and now were going out.. Just let him go, honestly.
But if you do want to talk to him again, just keep it really general like "hey, whats up?, we havent talked in a while" and if he dosent respond in a nice way than I'd stop talking to him...
Talking about it, to your best friend, to anyone really, would help majorly.
Dont worry though, there really are nice guys out there, you just have to find one, and when you do.. you could not get any happier!!
I dont know if that helped, but if you dont have anyone to talk to, I'm here & ill listen..
♥ xo
you asked me what you should do if he says he wants you back...again, same thing happened to me with the same guy, I told him that if he still wanted me, he would have never dumped me in the 1st place, it was hard to say that to him because it was like a week and a half later and I still liked him & was still trying to get over him, honestly if he still wants you, he would have never broken up with you, probably the only reason he would say that is because him and his new girl dident work out. Dont get back into it with him, its just not worth it.
I didnt go back with him & now I have the most amazing boyfriend anyone could ask for.
♥ xo
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