what would u do if your girlfriend got u A)boxers b) shirt c) cologne or however spell it d) bear e) nothing
it is the thought that counts when she gets you something and if she didn't get u ne thing maybe she had a lot on her mind , didn't have ne money or just didn't know what to get for you but whenever someone gets you something u should always be apperacitative
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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?
no it isn't because you are just like any other person just getting money or doing a favor
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Is it bad that my boyfriend is over protective? When ever i flirt he gets mad @ me...but he dosnt tell me other people do and its kinda noticable! But when we talk he dosnt say anything..n i dont want him to hold back anything when hes mad i want him to tell me...what should i do? He is always worried im goin to cheat on him with my ex (his best friend, because we are really good friends) He also says that he can see me and my best friend hooking up! Is this normal...hellpp
if you have a boyfriend you shouldnt be flirtin wit other guys. it kinda gets guys thinkin that somethin more might be goin on. thats a fault on your part but he also shouldnt hold back whats hes feelin from you. it takes communication to have a relationship. you and him need to sit down and have a real conversation bout everything. it will help. ~*Alexis*~
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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed
you should tell an adult about it. thats serious stuff that you shouldnt keep from someone because she can end up really hurtng herself. maybe try and talk to your school counselor or and adult you are comfortable talking to. good luck i hope you friend gets better. ~*Alexis*~
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ok my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks now and it seem like we arnt going anywhere. i mean we have gone to the movies 2 times and out to eat twice and then ice skating and we held hands during both movies but he wont kiss me or anything. is he afraid? what can i do to get him to kiss me? his friends and my friends have told him too but he wont. what can i do to get our relationship going. or is he showing me signs that he has no feelings for me? please help me. thanks.
it may be that jus isnt ready to put the moves on you yet. try and talk to him bout it. if you dont ask him whats up you will never know. good luck ~*Alexis*~
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my bf and me go to diff skools and we see eachother mostly lyke ery other day or something but we havent seen eachother for a week...well hes at the mall with his frends...and the mall is about 6 blocks away from my house...and hes walking around with his friends and hes like @ this church thats 3 blocks away frmo my house..he knows where i live n stuff but he "cant cmoe see me bc his friends will only come if i hav friends for them" and none of my friends r home....so ther goin bak 2 the mall....it really hurts my feelings bc I ALWAYS go 2 his house hes been to my house TWICE and i go to his EVERYTIME...so he called n was like uhh idk ill call u later if something comes up n we happen to go by ur house again and iw as like watever have fun at the mall bye nd i hung up on him...im realllly mad at him.....wat do i do? hes gonna b online tonite i kno that for a fact n hes gonna b all sweet 2 me....and if he calls bak....do ii answer?? wat do i say? =\
if he cant even stop by your house when hes six blocks away thats bogus. i would tell him how you feel and that things need to change. if he still ditches you for his friends all the time then you should consider finding a guy who will come to your house when they are right down the street. good luck ~*Alexis*~
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Okay so i need some help in helpin out my best friend.. so here goes with some background information. my friend met this kid over the summer at her camp, well it turns out he lives in the neighborhood where we go to school at. well my friend chills with him sometimes and she really likes him ALOT, but the thing is he says he doesn't want a girlfriend and everything but he's trying to get my friend to have sex with him!! i mean she asked me for advice and i told her she shouldn't because i mean she's 14 and she shouldn't lose her virginity to this guy who she doesn't even go with.. and it's kind of obvious that all he wants is to hit it.. well she went to 2nd base with him and i'm afraid she's gonna do it with him and he's gonna like stop talkin to her or just use her for sex. i mean i don't want that to happen to her but she won't listen to me she like wants him to like her. and he'll say all this stuff like yea after we have sex we'll go out, and i'm like yea bullshit. but she believes his lies and she needs to wake up and smell the coffee..lol.. so what can i do to help her out? help me out please. thankies i'll rate you too.. buh bye.
you need to let her friend know that if she is still a virgin then she needs to keep it that way.she should lose it to someone that really cares about her.havin sex is not that great. if she gives it up for a dude she dont even go wit people will start to talk about her and she wont want that.jus talk to her and if she dont listen and she is jus tryin to get wit this guy and dismissin errything you sayin then let her make her mistake. she will see that you were right even if it hurts her after its all over. sometimes the only thing that can help a person is let them make the mistake. good luck ~*Alexis*~
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My boyfriend, Matt and I have been going out for 9 months. We get along great, and I love him more than anything in the world. The day that he asked me out though another boy, Kevin was going to ask me out (ironic, right?). About 4 months ago I started talking to Kevin after me and Matt had a big fight. I realized that it was so much easier talking to Kevin then Matt, so I started hanging out with Kevin a lot. This summer Matt and I had a huge argument and broke up for about two weeks. I called Kevin crying and ended up going over to his house (he lives in my naiborhood). We talked and ended up kissing, which led to making out. After the incident Matt and I got back together, I told him what happened, and Kevin and I stopped talking. About September I ended up calling Kevin again. I went over to his house and we talked, he gave me a hug and I went home. A week later he calls me and I sneak out to see him. We talk, watch a movie, and end up making out. Matt and I are still strong, but lately I have been spending a lot of time with Kevin. I have such strong feelings for Matt, but at the same time I can't stand the thought of not being close to Kevin. They are both wonderful guys, each having thier own particular trait that draws me to them. To add the problem is that Matt and Kevin know each other and HATE each other. I'm just really confused right now and would like a little advice. Thank you for anything. -Confused
you cant keep messin wit kevin if you wanna be wit matt and you cant keep goin wit matt if you wanna be wit kevin. if you cant decide you should take a break from matt and have space from both of them. then you should be able to know which one you really wanna be wit cuz you will miss that person more. whatever you do good luck. ~*Alexis*~
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Hmm well.. I'm in highschool and so is this guy. He looks good & okay we don't talk really but every time i see him we do the eye things, just like the other day i was walking he was lookin straight at my eyes n i was lookin back in his.. it was from accross the hall wen i was about to leave & so we followed eachothers eyes, me looking back and him lookin back at me.. We do it everytime we see eachother pretty much but we haven't talked & I reallly wana get to kno him but im not jus gona walk up to him n be like yeah whats up haha.. so any suggestions? i really wana get to know himmm.
the only way for you to get to know this dude is if you walk to him and be like yeah whats up. if you dont have the courage to talk to him how can you get to know him. jus be confident and make sure you have fresh breath! good luck suga. ~*Alexis*~
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Well.. there's this boy and he is one of my best friends x's and I love him to death. Me and my best friend.. well i guess I wouldn't call her that bcuz.. I don't really talk to her all that much anymore.. but like.. I love this guy to death and I've slept with him numerous times.. the problem isn't my friend.. it's him.. He loves having sex! And I figure maybe if I have sex with him ALL the time he won't NEED any other girls.. bcuz I definitely don't have a problem with having sex with him all the time.. lol i love it! But like.. we aren't together or anything.. but we would be.. if it wasn't for all these other hoes.. He's the only guy I sleep with and I care a lot about him.. I really wish I knew what I could do to get him away from these other girls.. I want to be the ONLY one he WANTS to have sex with.. and I want to be with him.. WHAT DO I DO!! HELP ME!!
if he is sleepin wit other girls then he aint worried bout you. i know that sounds mean but its the truth. if he wanted a real relationship and not jus a booty call he would have one. dont be jus another chickenhead ta that dude. you can do betta than that. ~*Alexis*~
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i have this friend and shes like real bossy!!!
i don't hate "her" but i hate the way she acts!!
i can't tell her because she says i don't care and shes going out with this guy and she like always comes up to me and says "oh this make to weeks that we been going out"!! everysingle day ...but he just broke up with her and now i am kind of feeling bad for her what should i do???
i rate high
if she dont care that you think she is bossy and all that and you hate how she acts dont be her friend. and if she keeps tryin ta rub tha whole bf thing up in yo face she aint even worth tha time. friends dont do that shit to each other. you can do betta. good luck suga ~*Alexis*~
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Well, I like this kid named Eric, hes so sweet nice n incredible and EVERYTHING, but my friend erika always seems to get jealous when me n him talk and stuff if its like not about her.. erika asked me to ask him today who he liked. and he said me and it was like the best thing ever and hes like do you wanna date me? and i said yeah but i dont wanna hurt erika, because i know if i date eric erika will like be mad at me or treat me differently.. but i really really really like eric!! what should i do?? would u date eric and try n find erika a boyfriend? or would u jus stay friends with eric? i rate 5z!
if you really like this dude you should go wit him but you should talk ta ya friend bout it first. you need ta find out y she is so jealous. if its jus cuz she dont want you ta ditch her fo him then let her know that wont happen and maybe try and find her the hook up. what ever you do good luck! ~*Alexis*~
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I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah
thank you in advance, I'll rate you all
~Allysa
if she is only usin you for her bf then thats not a true friend and trust me girl you can do betta than that.you need ta let her know whats up otherwise she is jus gon keep doin it. if you talk ta her and she dont change then you need ta cut her lose whether she has other friends or not. it will teach her not ta use people like that. good luck suga ~*Alexis*~
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Well I've known this guy for about 2 years over the internet. (I met him through a friend who met him 6 months before me) We've talked on the phone, sent letters, pictures, webcams, and all of that, also I've talked to his family and friends so that I know everything he says is true. I've told him that I love him, and he says the same to me. When he gets his liscence, he was going to come and visit me. We only live about 5 hours apart... Yeah, we've had our ups and downs but i still love him, even though we're not "going out" or anything. I know he's had sex once before with his ex girlfriend of a year. I would have sex with him, but I'm still a virgin and I think I'm too young. He's not pressuring me or anything, it's something I wanna do. (Please don't lecture me about it, I know, I also don't need inappropriate vulgar remarks thrown at me for this) He's 16 and I'm 14, but I'll be 15 by the time he gets to visit. I just need some help on what to do to make me feel more open with him. I guess I just feel intimidated because it's not his first time. (It's also not like I've never done anything sexual before, just not sex itself) Please help me out with this.
Before you even consider having sex with this guy you need to meet him face to face and take things really really slow. It may seem like you know everything but you might not. It would be so much easier on you if you dated someone that lives in ur own town and not 5 hrs away. Sometimes things get sticky and you never know what is goin on wit the other person when you are that far away from each other. No matter what you do good luck. ~*Alexis*~
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i'll rate anyone a 5 who reads this and helps thanx!!
me and my best friend have been great friends since 8th grade (were both in 12th now) so we've been friends for pretty much 5 years. i love her to death and i dont know what i would do without her. Were seriously inseperable. About a month ago she met this guy. All of a sudden its like she's dedicating her time to hang out with him EVERY day. I mean all three of us do hang out sometimes but i dont really like it bc i kinda feel like the 3rd wheel. Her ex boyfriend just told me that he likes me but i told him that i only like him as a friend. i told her that he said he liked me and all of a sudden she asumed that i liked him too and now she is mad at me. the reason they broke up was because she was lying to him and cheating on him with this guy she is with now. The guy she is with now wants to get an apartment. He said i could move in if i wanted but i dont want to because i cant afford it but i dont wanna loose my best friend to him because i lost her once before and i was miserable. Well today i left this guy a voicemail saying mean things and everything to him which i shouldnt but he is really rude to me. He calls me a slut and everything. i've told my friend this but she said well im falling in love with him and all that. I really dont wanna loose my best friend at all! i dont know wut to do and its killing me inside. I tryed to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen to me at all. She told me a few weeks ago the only reason she is with this guy is because he gets her w/e she wants (he got her a diamond ring...a $500 stereo and lets her drive his new car and she doesn't have her permit or license) i dont know what to do!! someone please help!! since this is long ill rate u a 5!!! thanx!!!
ok i think i can help u wit this one i have a friend just like this and for a while i did feel like the thrid wheel cuz i was always with her and so was he so i got sick of it and i just don't hang out with her as much because of him i dunno why but i just don't so heres my advice for you cuz seems like u r goin down the same road as i did and it didn't turn out good so heres what u should try ...... talk to your friend and tell her that you feel like the third wheel and you don'tlike it when they are together all the time because theres times when u just need girl time and if she doesn't understand then try to explain a little bit more into it and just try to explain how your really feeling and see if she could hang out with u more without him cuz u miss it and if it doesn't work out try and spend more time with other friends because she will prolly just hang wit him all the time i understand what you r goin through and it is really hard i am still going through the same thing and to tell u the truth there's nothin u can really do but tell her how u feel bout errything but yea do that and see how it all works out if u need more help e~mail me or im me i hope it really wokr out cuz i know how it is to loose a friend to a guy well hope it works with u n ur friend good luck ~amanda
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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)
if it is bothering you u should let your friend know you don't appericate her boyfriend treatin you and others like that and it's not right anyway but if she doesn't understand then it prolly won't phase her because they have been goin for a year but u should still let he rknow how u are feeling hope i helped ya
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Hey look this year has been so hard bettween tryin to be most popualr and all taht and tryin to beat tha skools biggest hotties and all i have totayl gotten lost u see last year i was Queen bee! this year im not and i wouod do tha world to be that again and i dont kno whut to do to win it back
So whut should i do plz help me!
Clueless
well heres what i gotta say ta that don't worry about being the most popular because u really should be focusing on school and not people there and if u want people to like you then just be yourself and if people don't like you fo you then they don't know what good of a person they are missing out on so heres what you should do just stick to your close friends and more people will wanna hang wit you and try and focus on school not being popular need ne thing else write to me @ manaboo7325@aol.com hope my advice helped you a little
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