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i'll rate anyone a 5 who reads this and helps thanx!!
me and my best friend have been great friends since 8th grade (were both in 12th now) so we've been friends for pretty much 5 years. i love her to death and i dont know what i would do without her. Were seriously inseperable. About a month ago she met this guy. All of a sudden its like she's dedicating her time to hang out with him EVERY day. I mean all three of us do hang out sometimes but i dont really like it bc i kinda feel like the 3rd wheel. Her ex boyfriend just told me that he likes me but i told him that i only like him as a friend. i told her that he said he liked me and all of a sudden she asumed that i liked him too and now she is mad at me. the reason they broke up was because she was lying to him and cheating on him with this guy she is with now. The guy she is with now wants to get an apartment. He said i could move in if i wanted but i dont want to because i cant afford it but i dont wanna loose my best friend to him because i lost her once before and i was miserable. Well today i left this guy a voicemail saying mean things and everything to him which i shouldnt but he is really rude to me. He calls me a slut and everything. i've told my friend this but she said well im falling in love with him and all that. I really dont wanna loose my best friend at all! i dont know wut to do and its killing me inside. I tryed to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen to me at all. She told me a few weeks ago the only reason she is with this guy is because he gets her w/e she wants (he got her a diamond ring...a $500 stereo and lets her drive his new car and she doesn't have her permit or license) i dont know what to do!! someone please help!! since this is long ill rate u a 5!!! thanx!!!
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You need to give her a lil space im sure shes going to miss you soon. Thats wrong of her to date somone just because he gets her whatever she wants. Maybe you should thank about it at her point of veiw: I love this guy! But give her a lil space and you'll be friends again because i know she relized shes done bad! <3 American Girl
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ok..all g.f dates guys who are bozo's..and let's face it..they put them first.
good news..she will break up wiht him..trust me..you date a LOT of people in the next coming years.
I would NOT move in wiht them..for what happens if they break up??you are stuck...
At the beginning all people hang out ALL the time wiht the new b/f...eventually it tapers off.
BUT and I mean but..no one should CALL you a name..ok..you DEMAND respect..and if that person cannot give it to you..you walk away.
It maybe be that you walk away from your friend.
I had a freind that we wer e so close it was silly..but every time she got a new man..i was kicked to the corb..finally i jusr decided that i was worth more than that..and got some new friends..this will happen all your life.
she will not listen..all you can do..is either accept it..or not...but if youw ait awhile..i bet she will break up wiht this guy.
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I'm really sorry about this whole thing. what i would do is just be a good friend and stick around cause girls will always be there in the long run. this guy shes with might break her heart and then she'll regret blowing you off. but you have to stick around. Be a GOOD friend. maybe you could start hanging out with some other friends while she's with this guy. I hope i helped and i hope you and her get close again. you might want to remind her chicks before dicks!!!
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try tlkn to ur friend again n ge her to listen to ur point o view. if she rlyy wont listen nd it doesnt seem like she cares start makin some new friends. You guys mite just drift away from each othr but u need a bettr friend then her anyway. If she does come bak to her sesnses then give her anothr chance tho cuz it seems that you rlly don wanna give up on her nd that u want to b friends
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Um... wow! She might need to figure this one out by herself. Try to wheel her back in tho and ask her to do stuff a lot, without him. Talk to her, she might not listen, but if you haven't already you need to try. Say that you don't want to loose her, i wouldn't mention that you don't like her boyfriend in this conversation though. Just keep trying to talk to her, if that doesn't work then yeah i think she might need to figure it out on her own. Hope i helped!! Good luck
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just talk to her and find out how she feels about all this and u need to let her know how you feel when her and her bf are together
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Well....I' sorry but I really don't think that shes a very good friend..maybe you could try to talk to her like and stuff tell her how you feel....or maybe you could just get a boy friend and you and your boyfriend and her and hers could just hang out together and stuff....hope i helped!.. =]
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im sorry.....but shes not a good friend! find a new one!!!!!!! she sounds like a butt!
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i am not a good advice giver i am only my sisters bro and she does not know that, but i can see that u need some of the worsest help i have ever seen so ill try to help if u like wut i said just rate my sister the 5 thanx
i think u might want to speak with ur friend PRIVATELY tell her wut ur problem is with her and say that u needed advice to help u with her problem with ur friendship with her. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok i think i can help u wit this one i have a friend just like this and for a while i did feel like the thrid wheel cuz i was always with her and so was he so i got sick of it and i just don't hang out with her as much because of him i dunno why but i just don't so heres my advice for you cuz seems like u r goin down the same road as i did and it didn't turn out good so heres what u should try ...... talk to your friend and tell her that you feel like the third wheel and you don'tlike it when they are together all the time because theres times when u just need girl time and if she doesn't understand then try to explain a little bit more into it and just try to explain how your really feeling and see if she could hang out with u more without him cuz u miss it and if it doesn't work out try and spend more time with other friends because she will prolly just hang wit him all the time i understand what you r goin through and it is really hard i am still going through the same thing and to tell u the truth there's nothin u can really do but tell her how u feel bout errything but yea do that and see how it all works out if u need more help e~mail me or im me i hope it really wokr out cuz i know how it is to loose a friend to a guy well hope it works with u n ur friend good luck ~amanda
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For the mean time, give your friend some space. I know just how you feel because I have this one friend and I am very close with and when she dated someone I felt a little bit pushed aside. All you have to remember is that could be you, in her shoes: in love with a guy. Your friend should reconsider it because its hurting you and she should listen. But since I'm supplying you with advice I say you should leave her alone for now and pretty soon she will start missing you. Hope this helped!
xOx Emmz
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I think you should just gte you and your freind alone for a litlle while wiht no one else around and just tell her how you feel!! Tell her you dont want to loose her to some guy you dont like in the first place!!
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Just let her be. One way or the other one of them will figure out they aren't right for eachother or he will find out that she is using him. You shouldn't worry about her and him since she's just using him for all the goodies that she gets out of it and if she does put you in a place that you aren't comfortable like with him and her together or something then just leave. Try not to hang around them both together and try to hang out with her seperately. -Kayla
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