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Hmm well.. I'm in highschool and so is this guy. He looks good & okay we don't talk really but every time i see him we do the eye things, just like the other day i was walking he was lookin straight at my eyes n i was lookin back in his.. it was from accross the hall wen i was about to leave & so we followed eachothers eyes, me looking back and him lookin back at me.. We do it everytime we see eachother pretty much but we haven't talked & I reallly wana get to kno him but im not jus gona walk up to him n be like yeah whats up haha.. so any suggestions? i really wana get to know himmm.
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well i definately can relate... Sparking that first convo can be very difficult! here are my ideas:
1. Do you have any friends that know him? Have them introduce you... or just have a conversation with him and your friend at the same time.
2.find out if he has AIM or Email.. and if so get his SN or E-addy. Just talk to him and say sumthing like "Hey i got your SN so i decided i'd say hi! what's up" This doesnt involve any face to face contact, but you're still making a move to be able to talk to him
3.It doesnt sound like you have any classes with him, but if you do... talk to him about assignments, teachers, etc.
4. This idea is... intresting, but it could spark a conversation. "accidently" trip and fall into him... or just bump into him... he should catch you!
hope i helped! (and sorry it took me sooo long to answer!)
~Kayla
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the only way for you to get to know this dude is if you walk to him and be like yeah whats up. if you dont have the courage to talk to him how can you get to know him. jus be confident and make sure you have fresh breath! good luck suga. ~*Alexis*~
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You should really like go up to him introduce yahself, ask him questions bout his life and what interests him and everything, something like that hope I helped and PLEASE RATE ME!!!
~Kelly
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You should take a stand and go up and talk to em.! i mean come on gurl! if this is ment to be go 4 it! :)
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well, just start off with a "hey" or "whats up" and time will come!
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See if you can get his screen name or email if he has one and just act yourself!
Hope I helped!
~Brina~
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you want to get to know him, but you wont talk to him? hun...that's the only way you can get to know him. just start with a "hey" during the "eyes thing" and then work your way up from there
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do you know what he's interested in? Maybe in order to get to know him, you have to get something to spark between you two... for example if he likes music try inviting him to a concert. good places to invite people: movies, lounges, raves/parties, ehh dances are okay, the beach, skating rinks, etc.
just say hey to him one day... don't say anything, just look him in the eye do the "nod thing" and say hey and pass by. That could easily start something. Maybe smile a little or wave. Ask him if he wants to hang out some time. Or write him a note saying you think he's cool and you want to get to know him better... notes usually work. :) Good luck with him... if you have any more details and want more ideas, email me at sweet_metal_girl@hotmail.com. thanks for your question!
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go up to him and be like "hey i heard you liked my friend.. (or juss some name)" and start a convo..or be like "hey your always staring at my eyes...why" you cant be scared or you'll never get to know him!
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