Ever since I was a little, I have always had vivid dreams. When I was a child I used to have dreams about dead people living in my basement, People chasing me. While I was sleeping I could feel the fear of me being kidnapped, stalked, chased..If I cried I could feel myself cry in my sleep. I am older now, I don't have dreams as often but I still to this day remember my child hood dreams and every so often I still have a vivid dream. I wake up, Sometimes I am upset throughout the day, I am depressed and I don't have the energy to do much and it will constantly be on my mind. I have seeked therapy over the years, It didn't do much. I was on medication, It only made me dream more often. I've had my medications switched several times, Dosed lowered and everything and I still have nightmares or vivid dreams. I often have dreams of people chasing me, I'm in the woods being chased by a lion or a pack of coyotes. I'm sick of it and I don't know how to make it all stop. To make matters worse, I remember them and every little detail.
One thing will cure you, it is above medicines, therapy and etc...One thing you have to do...
Prayer, you need prayer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Whenever you have dreams of death, kidnapped, chasing and etc, you are laking prayer in you life, so therefore the devil uses that as a way to prey on you and use you... he uses your energy which explains your loss of energy, depressing mood and etc....
You need to constantly walk with God....Therapy and medicines are just physical things, you need spiritual healing from all this
If you have anymore questions, I am here to help you.
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To me death is soo scary. When I was little I would stay up half the night crying bc a thought of death entered my mind. I know nobody knows what happens when we die bc nobody has been through it to tell anybody else. But I have a few theories.
1.) that when we die we just get reincarnated into someone else. That there is a heaven but only for people who truely deserve to go. Bad people go to hell. REALLY good people go to heavn and the people in the middle get reincarnated.
2.) that when we die thee is ABSOLUTELY no heaven and you just poof and your gone.
So can anyone help me. I hate having to wake up in the middle of the night bc I'm crying of watll happen. Does anyone support my theories. Please help. Thx in advance.
IF you are a Christian, when you die, you your body stays on earth, but your spirit is taken into the heaven, put to get to heaven, just doesn't mean you have to be a Christian, you have to be pure, like Jesus was, you can't sin, but since we are idiots, we sin. But the point is you have to beg for forgiveness and don't repeat the sin again. For those who sinned and followed the fallen angels way like stealing, constantly lying, fighting, yelling at others, and stuff like that, then heaven is no place for you.
Point two-No you will not be reincarnated into someone else, there is only one of you and you only...No one else.
Point three-There is a heaven and when we die those who followed God will go to it...
There is a lot of questions that may be going through your mind, i will be happy to answer them..feel free to email me or ask any of them
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I have read tons of "Don't commit suicide" pages, and I fully understand how "wrong" it may be to commit suicide, but what you people don't understand is how much of a failure I am. All this, "It's going to be ok" Or "I love you" Or "You'll make it!" is nothing but a load of crap. I'm not going to make it, I'm going to continue to mess up, and be a failure, there is no hope, and there is no reason for living. If I am going to live, it's going to be for me, not for my family or some random friend. There is no point in living if I can't be happy, do what I want, or eventually get what I want. Basically, my life is worthless, and I was wondering if anyone who has been suicidal in the past has any experience to share. "See a doctor" and "Take medication" are on my to do list, but I don't see how they can fix my crazy. And even still, I don't think they can fix my constant aptitude for failing.
Wow you sound like you have a goal set in mind...And that goal is to kill yourself. I don't know if you are a Christian, But you should know that God put you on this earth for a reason, you shouldn't take your life away, only he can do that..you are right, maybe I don't fully understand you, or what you have been through, but i do understand that you want to end your life (and that is not okay). You don't want to live for your family, fine! you don't want to live for your love ones, fine! you say you only want to live for you? then go ahead live for you and you only...everyone has failed once in awhile, but what you do is you get back up and try again...If you set your mind on failing, then you will, set you mind on a different goal..
If you have anymore questions or just need to talk then I am really here to listen, please let me help you...
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I have a really bad stomach ache it's because i have my period. It really hurts, any suggestions for relief?
my sis takes Advil, and it really helps.
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Isnt Jesus technically a zombie since he rose from the dead????
No he isn't a Zombie. he is a person. He was sent to die on the cross for our sins the moment he step on earth. Zombies are myth, everything that does not come from the power of God, is from the devil himself which explains the zombie thing. but Jesus is the son of God....Not a Zombie, if he was a zombie, he would be selfish and instead of dying for us, he will eat us. either way, i understand what you mean....
hope i helped.
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I recently turned 21. I was very excited for it and still am. I'm a responsible and sensible person, I go to school and work full time. When I'm not busy, I like to let loose and have a good time. The thing is, I like alcohol, very much. The problem is, my mom absolutely hates it since her mother (my grandmother) was an alcoholic. Every time I go out, she gives me this look and gets upset because she knows I'm going to drink. I can't stand it, because it makes me feel guilty for nothing and I end up not having a good time. I love my mom and tell her everything, but this is one thing that we disagree on and is tearing at our relationship. Turning 21 was supposed to be fabulous, but it's her nightmare. How do I handle this situation?
You have to understand, your mom doesn't want to feel the same anger that perhaps she has for her mother. watching you drinking scares her that your going to end up like her. so perhaps compromise, tell her that you are going to drink only once or twice in a while and find something that will appease you both so that that relationship can go stronger.
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K so I'm 13, in 7th grade, (girl) and all my friends (girls) are like all prude, but I would like to grind and make out with people that I'm not dating but all my friends would judge me. We have parties all the time so there's a lot of grinding going on. I didn't grind at the last party because my parents were invited but in school today my friend and I were joking around and I ended up in front of him against the wall and he started grinding me without holding my waist and now everyone is making a huge deal out of it and calling me a slut and I feel horrible but I really want to do stuff like grind! Am I being a slut and should I feel bad???
7th grade girls shouldn't be grinding. and no you are not a slut....yet. but stay clear of that way so you wouldn't become one. if you want to make out, find a boyfriend. but grinding is for attention and just because everyone else does it, you shouldn't be doing it too. people are always going to judge you because they can't judge themselves. if you want to do something bold, go ahead and do it, but also make sure it's appropriate. Plus don't feel bad!
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We both went off to differnt schools. We still talk to each other over the phone. We arrange to go round each other's houses. My friend said that he wants to kiss me. He told her because he was too shy to tell me. Which is fair enough!
I really wanna kiss him hold hands or something like that he's really shy and so am i.
Should i take charge or should i wait until he's said to ME he's ready...?
Take charge don't wait a great opportunity pass you by like that. if he is shy then he is waiting for you to help him since he is still deciding whether to kiss you or not, so kiss him and let him know its okay to do so.
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I'm 15. I have a huge obsession with Call Of Duty. It's all I talk about in school, at home, and outside. I feel it eating my brain. I play all day and all night. It makes me seem as if I have no life. I even speak with accents and say lines from the game in school, even to my teachers, I would say, "Oi' suzi, Tango down pass me' ye' paper eh" in a scottish accents. I don't want the accent to stick. I also do the Russian accent, and Arab accent, all the time. Call Of Duty is all I think about, I even stopped hanging out and playing sports. WTF! It's like trying to get my mom to quit smoking.& I have not been with a girl ever since my obsession's origin.
wow if thats some serious obsession. challenge yourself and ask someone else to challenge you. whenever you feel the need to play the game, say no and challenge yourself to do something else.or someone should promise you something whenever you don't play the game. like for example you can say i am not going to play it for one day, and then increase it for two days and etc, And if you want to say something, the first thing that pops in your mind is the game, so you need to think twice before you say something and make sure it's not of the game. it will take time since you are already addicted to it, but you can get out of it the same way you got into it
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I recently self blessed a crucifix necklace and promised that i would not have sex until i was married. i am 15 years old and I have so much tension and horniness so this is incredibly hard. I want to masterbate so bad, but i feel like if i don't masterbate, i'll only get hornier and want to do bad stuff before i am married. I don't want to have sex though i think it's awkward and disgusting kinda, considering that my labia is huge. But is masterbation considered stroking your vagina? cause i don't finger myself. what i do is i watch stuff and stroke my.... ya know. I don't know if thats considered masterbation, but i am catholic. I don't know what to do. I can't wait about 11 years to have pleasure, i have to take it out someway..... i dunno what to do!
it's wrong and you should not be doing it. that is like a sin and you said you promise to wait to have sex and doing that it's just as sinning like having sex before marriage. plus that thing is not good for you it can hurt you. anyway if you are afraid it's a sin, then it is probably one. so just wait don't think soo horny think about God stuff like maybe you should read the bible or ask God to help you because it's the devil that is making you do this things.
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can your period skip a month sometimes? i know its not likely to do that but is it possible?
yes it can! mine did i freak out, but my mother said it's okay that it means that now you are really starting t get your periods
hope i helped
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yeahh well like i have a mom and dad right, and me and my dad get into screaming fests sometimes.. but i would never yell at my mom like that .. he says its the same way cause he never yells at his dad but he does to his mom all the time.. but then again they are divorced and he lives with his mom... %^&%63483 what do i do -______-
do you regret it when you yell at your dad or get into a fight with him?
you probably don't want to do this but, he is your father and has authority over you, every time you feel like getting into a fight or yelling at him stop yourself and think before you say something. if you ever feel he is wrong wait and let him finish his part before you start yours because if you go at it, then you guys will end up fighting for a longer period of time which might end up in drastic results. he shouldn't be yelling at his mom either, no matter how old you are, you need to respect your parents because they brought you into this world.
if you have anymore questions, contact me!
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hey sry this is personal, but i wana know if u and/or ur friends shave.. "down there" should i? or shud i not? thanks ;)
you can shave, but do make sure to be careful.... my mom disapproves it but it feels so much better once you shave
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i know friends that talks crap about people and make fun of them or just talk behind people's back, but i know a friend that she doesnt talk bad about anybody or doesnt gossip about anyone and when one of my friend is talking bad about someone to my friend she just doesnt say anything or agree with them, it seems like shes uncomfortable by it, does that make her loyal?
you friend is very loyal thats the kind of friend that you want to hang out with..... it shows that she can be trusted.
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are you being fake if your being too nice to a person you dont like? lets say you dont want to talk to them but when the person starts talking to them you end up talking to the person you dont like because you are too nice to say "i dont want to talk to you" so you talk behind that person's back?
thats not necessarily fake, but it's not nice either and for you to right it here, then you understand that it's wrong as well. if you don't want to talk to someone simply say you don't want to talk to them instead of pretending. the person might be angry, but they will be happy that you were honest.
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Why do people talk bad about people?
why do people talk sh*t about other people? how come some people doesnt talk bad abou people and theres people that gossips all day?
they have nothing better to do and they want to make themselves look more angelic like. gossiping is a sin that people don't realize they commit so anytime someone starts to gossip and talk bad someone else you should exit because even if you just stay they and listen it makes you just as guilty as them.....
BYe
HOpe i HElp
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i have a hard time admitting that im wrong i always blame the person and get mad instead of saying sorry, because when i say it i feel weak,mad,sad and defeated and i dont know why. I know its bad but i dont know why i feel this way. Is it pride?
that happens to my friend a lot.
yes it is pride, it's like when you apologize you feel weak and like the bad guy. but unless you apologize, you ARE the bad guy....apologizing only makes you the better person and from people will actually like you better because you can admit when your wrong....
my friend learned that the wrong way lolz
GOOD LUCK!
HOPE I HELPED
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My parents have been divorced for several years now and until about a year ago I've had a good relationship with both of them. I live with my mom and I used to see my dad every second weekend. Then about two years ago he got re-married. At first things were going good and then she got pregnant and my step-sister was born just before Christmas. I spent last Christmas with them and that was the last time I've seen my dad. I don't know what happened but all of a sudden he just stopped calling me. I used to try and call him but he never answered the phone or was too busy to see me. So I've basically given up. It's gotten to the point the point I don't even want to see him anymore because I really feel like he doesn't care. Everyone tells me I need to re-establish a relationship with him, and I've been thinking about it, but he acts like he doesn't want to see me. What should I do?
you have to understand that even if he does that, it's not on purpose... he just got married and he just got a baby into the house he has to settle down into every thing which i think must be pretty all too much for him. and yes he shouldn't ignore just because he has a new child, but still have a discussion with him and unless you do that you might end up hating your dad for no reason and missing out on a great relationship with him..
hope i helped.
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My family situation is pretty crazy and embarrassing to talk about, and I'm still having trouble coming to terms with it. My parents divorced 3 years ago. Basically, what happened was that my dad said he was going a business trip, and then never came back.
Since he disappeared he left a lot of loose ends. He has never let me talk with him about what happened in an honest and open way (he didn't bother seeing or calling me until one year after he left), the divorce process lasted a year and was really ugly, he left my mum to pay the bills and take care of me, he remarried without telling me, bought his new family a house and settled down on the other side of the atlantic with them etc.
Now he's saying he wants to talk to me and reestablish a relationship, by sending emails full of either sentimental bs, or unreasonable demands, or long explanations of how everything wrong in his life is my mum's fault. He finds it perplexing that I don't respect him or listen to him at all. He expects me to be perfectly fine about the fact that he never showed any interest in my life before, left me to fend for myself, and that he was never honest with me about anything before either. A part of me would like to just ignore the fact he exists for the rest of my life because he is such an idiotic, annoying and selfish b*****d, but he is my dad and I can't ignore that fact, so another part of me wants to give him another chance. At the moment I'm ignoring his messages by not talking to him. I blocked his email addresses for a few months too. I just didnt know what to think about him so I gave up thinking about him for a while until now.
What can I do now? I tried many time in the past to reestablish communication with him and trust him, but all that happened was that he ignored my attempts and pretended like there was nothing to talk about and that I was a yabbering whiny little kid, which really hurt me. Now he's trying, and I'm tempted to do to him what he did to me. He's so useless. Obviously if he wanted to make things right he'd do more than send emails.
Sorry this is such a long-winded and nonsensical question but I just need somewhere to vent my emotional steam. And btw I have seen a counsellor in the past to sort out my thoughts but it really didn't help... at all. Thanks!
yes i understand that he a lot at fault. but right now i think you are at fault. he obviously is trying his best and from your explanation i see you have a lot of hurt in you and you believe that if you give him another chance he will hurt you even more you you put up this wall between you and him....it's like the wall he started building years ago have been finished by you and now he has realized that he doesn't want that wall there and had tried to destroy it, but you are refusing, that wall is now what protects you pride from him and he wants to take that away. i know how you feel, my friend felt the same way when a similar situation happened to her. the thing is you are expecting him to make up for all the years he missed you want him to make up at such a speed that you don't even want to look at him try you just want the end result, give him a chance Please........wait, prove to him that although he gave you a scar, you have found a way to get rid of it and of yu haven't, it will heal soon trust me...
if I am wrong correct me please
hope i helped
Bye
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my kids father took me to court a year ago. His wife wanted him to lower chld support, get rid of kids medical, all so he could continue to pay for her 4 kids. he covered all of her kids (none are his)on medical and asked to drop mine. They submitted a request and made me sit there until i agreed to sign over my son for tax purposes, drop medical, and lower support. A mediator submitted a form and i was supposed to be notified of the outcome. Thing is, the judge denied it. There are no court papers on file, i went to the courthouse yesterday. He gave the original mediators request to a tax preparer, who claimed my son, and gives the same INVALID paper to his employers so that he doesnt have to pay medical. we both claimed my son and now I am wondering how much trouble he could get in for showing this false paper to everyone. I told him i wouldnt sign my sons exeption paper because he never sees the kids and is always behind on support. His felon exwife drew up these papers by the way. Am I missing something. The court has nothing on record for me to see?he has a$5000 return and is $2500 behind on support, is jobless and wont pay a penny o me.what can be done? thanks guys!
The wife is obviously playing mind games. she is playing with his head and the worst part is he can't even see it, only you can. it might be hard but i think you should try and help him somehow after all he is you kids father...second get a lawyer before things escalate into something even you can't control and if he is jobless, then at least tell him to pay what he can without putting too much pressure.... HE NEEDS TO GET A JOB AND HE NEEDS TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT WEATHER HE LIKES IT OR NOT!!!! And his wife, she needs to be told when to stop
let me know how things work out!!
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