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irs fraud? deadbeat dad


Question Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 12:39 pm

my kids father took me to court a year ago. His wife wanted him to lower chld support, get rid of kids medical, all so he could continue to pay for her 4 kids. he covered all of her kids (none are his)on medical and asked to drop mine. They submitted a request and made me sit there until i agreed to sign over my son for tax purposes, drop medical, and lower support. A mediator submitted a form and i was supposed to be notified of the outcome. Thing is, the judge denied it. There are no court papers on file, i went to the courthouse yesterday. He gave the original mediators request to a tax preparer, who claimed my son, and gives the same INVALID paper to his employers so that he doesnt have to pay medical. we both claimed my son and now I am wondering how much trouble he could get in for showing this false paper to everyone. I told him i wouldnt sign my sons exeption paper because he never sees the kids and is always behind on support. His felon exwife drew up these papers by the way. Am I missing something. The court has nothing on record for me to see?he has a$5000 return and is $2500 behind on support, is jobless and wont pay a penny o me.what can be done? thanks guys!

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WittyUsernameHere answered Saturday May 22 2010, 6:53 pm:
Do not repeat what happened. The judge denied it because you're an idiot.

Who gives a fuck what he wants. It's your kids (and his kids) that are in the balance here. You need to speak to a lawyer. You've allowed two people who are entirely selfishly motivated to lead you into a legal circus you do not know how to get yourself out of or even sort out into a coherent set of problems.

Get legal advice from a lawyer. Now, before the IRS starts talking about auditing you both for his fraudulent filings.

Sue him for every penny you can get if he violates the orders for child support. Do not sign ANYTHING he hands you unless your lawyer has looked over every inch of it first. Do not show up to any court proceedings, mediations, or anything else that your ex and his bitch set up without a lawyer present _and_ having been served a subpoena.

As I said, Lawyer up. On Monday, make time for t his, don't wait an extra day to get it done. Start with a family law attorney or firm, get them to look into the tax issue for you and get a letter sent to his employer with the correct paperwork so that your son gets put back on his insurance ASAP.

You are letting two self serving assholes lead you around by the nose, and only some Judge who's inclined to read through things saved your ass at this point. Take advantage of the gift that strange man or woman has given you, and go contact a lawyer.

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sarline answered Saturday May 22 2010, 4:20 pm:
The wife is obviously playing mind games. she is playing with his head and the worst part is he can't even see it, only you can. it might be hard but i think you should try and help him somehow after all he is you kids father...second get a lawyer before things escalate into something even you can't control and if he is jobless, then at least tell him to pay what he can without putting too much pressure.... HE NEEDS TO GET A JOB AND HE NEEDS TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT WEATHER HE LIKES IT OR NOT!!!! And his wife, she needs to be told when to stop

let me know how things work out!!

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karenR answered Saturday May 22 2010, 3:52 pm:
You need a lawyer. One of you is going to be in trouble with the IRS. You don't want to be in trouble with the IRS. It will cost you much more than a lawyer will to deal with them. A lawyer can find things out at the courthouse that you can't find unless you know the proper questions to ask.
Find one and nail your ex's hide to the wall.

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