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samee topic lol
yeahh well like i have a mom and dad right, and me and my dad get into screaming fests sometimes.. but i would never yell at my mom like that .. he says its the same way cause he never yells at his dad but he does to his mom all the time.. but then again they are divorced and he lives with his mom... %^&%63483 what do i do -______-
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i'll try to answer this to the best of my ability. see, i don't fight with either of my parents that much so i'm not good with these kinds of questions.
now try to think about what you and your dad fight about. is it about school? freedom? money? if so, even if whatever you're screaming about may not be your fault, try your best to fix it. with parents, they wont admit they're wrong when they are, and thats what usually starts a fight with my parents. the only thing you can do is smile and nod, no matter how hard it is. if he's yelling at you because you're not getting as good of a grade as you could or something that you actually DID do wrong, then promise to fix it and try harder.
when i do this, its like a cat laying on its back in front of another, bigger cat. the cat is basically saying "you are boss, i wont undermine your authority." and this is what you need to say to your parents through body language and the way you talk to them. trying to fight and prove a point to them does absolutely NO GOOD AT ALL, and even thought admitting you're wrong and falling under they're rules is really hard, you'll find that it fixes a lot of things.
i really hope thats what you were asking in your question. to be honest, i have no idea what you were asking. if you were asking me why you only fight with your dad and not your mom, message me back and tell me that and i'll answer. but if you were trying to get advice on how to stop fighting with your dad, here you go. i hope i helped :) take care.
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do you regret it when you yell at your dad or get into a fight with him?
you probably don't want to do this but, he is your father and has authority over you, every time you feel like getting into a fight or yelling at him stop yourself and think before you say something. if you ever feel he is wrong wait and let him finish his part before you start yours because if you go at it, then you guys will end up fighting for a longer period of time which might end up in drastic results. he shouldn't be yelling at his mom either, no matter how old you are, you need to respect your parents because they brought you into this world.
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