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x0X0x My name is Jeanie. x0X0x I'm 16. x0X0x Currently a junior in a small town high school. x0X0x I'm the badminton queen of my cousins. x0X0x I've lived in 2 continents, Asia and North America. x0X0x I ♥ shopping... x0X0x The last thing I bought was a pink rubber ducky. x0X0x I ♥ coffee, Starbucks is awesome. x0X0x I plan on opening a coffee shop up one day. x0X0x I want to go to school for journalism. x0X0x I love laughing. x0X0x Friends cured my depression. x0X0x I ♥ sitting in my brother's gamer chair. x0X0x Blah. ♥x0X0x



Question with boldness even the existence of a God; because, if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blind-folded fear.
-Thomas Jefferson

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my knee has been messed up for like a long time. i had x rays taken of it and they doctor said that the knee cap had slipped over alittle but the other one was over to the side too he said i was prolly born w/ that but now it has gotten worse and my knee cracks like 2-3 times a day and it hurts even more!!!! is there anything i can do to help it?

You should go back to your doctor and ask for some medication to help your knees. If he's already done that, maybe you need to talk to him about correcting them. Good luck. :D

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my friend is having her bday party...but my other friend is having hers the same day..but invited me afterwards. I want to go to both..should i try and work where i leave one party early to go to the other..should i just pick one party to go to? i dont want to hurt anyones feelings.

I think you should go to the party of the person who asked you first, then go to the second person's party. That's a bad coincidence?... Too bad your friends have their parties at the same times... Good luck. :)

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Every day in Phys Ed, we go to my school's weight room and I always work on my legs and my stomach because I want to tone my stomach. I've been getting alot of remarks about me trying to tone my stomach. I'm happy with the weight that I'm at, I don't think I'm fat but I want to tone my stomach more so that my love handles aren't hanging out over my pants (it's really not that bad though). I'm just trying to tone up and make my stomach stronger before I have to start practicing for fencing during the summer. Many people have been starting to spread rumors that I'm anorexic because they never see me eat lunch and I'm always working on my stomach in phys ed. First of all, I am in no way anorexic. I love food and I could never give it up, the only reason why I don't eat in school is because I'm never hungry but when I get home I stuff myself with food. I don't know what to do, the rumors are eventually going to get around to teachers and my school is very small and I'm sure someone will eventually report me! I don't know what to do! How can I get these awful rumors to stop?

I don't think there is a need to even deal with these rumors, they're stupid afterall. Ignore them. You have nothing to worry about since you're not really anorexic anyway, right? :)

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My best friend(we'll say lucy) is going to prom with this kid(we'll say nick). Well recently they got into a fight because nick went out and picked up our other friend and brought her out to lucy's house after we had asked him to. Well we promised that we would give him ten dollars gas money, since he was low, if he did this for us. Well lucy has been practically obsessed with nick for the passed two years but he won't give her the time of day. Before lucy and i started talking i had dated nick and it was actually through him that lucy and i became aquainted. Lucy and nick are both seniors and lucy's dream was to go to her senior prom with him. Luckily thanks to the help of her friends, nick agreed to go with her. Well when lucy worked her ways nd talked nick into leaving without that gas money, he got really mad. (because he was on E when he got home) And the reason she didn't give it to him was because she didn't have change for a twenty. When nick got home he txt messaged me to tell me that he wasn't going to prom with lucy and this really upset her. Then another fight broke out because I have been talking to him AS FRIENDS and some of lucy's other friends don't see this appropriate. But when i don't talk to him, everyone gets mad at me and yells because they say there is no reason to hate him just because he broke my heart. So me, trying to be the peace maker, started talking to him civilized once again and now we're friends. (NOTHING MORE)Well he called me today and we got to talking. I begged him to reconsider taking lucy to prom because i know how much this means to her, nd he said: "Hmmm, i have an idea". Well this idea isn't any good :( AT ALL-- He agreed to go with lucy again to prom on one condition; if i sleep with him. He has been bugging me to sleep with him for the passed 7months because i turned him down the two times we were together. I know I can't do that to her even though it would get her to prom. And i don't know how to tell her because it would devastate her. But what if i tell him no and he wont go to prom with her? Then i will feel like this is all my fault because i didn't betray my friends trust.. I'm so hurt and confused-- please and thank you for listening to me babble!!

You shouldn't sleep with him just so he'd take Lucy to prom! Lucy would probably be more hurt if you had to bribe and sleep with him to have him take her to prom than if he didn't go with her. You should tell Lucy what's going on and why she should go with someone else, like someone who actually likes her and respects her.

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Why aren't you supposed to do sit-ups/crunches everyday? How many should a beginner do? Any other ideas to tone your stomach?

When you begin you need a day in between exercise to let the muscle form/tone, that's what I've read anyway. I'm not sure how many situps/crunches to do everyday, I think 3 repitions of 10. I do reverse crunched to help tone my tummy.

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Okay does any one know how to get stains out of a white purse! I already tried soap and water and it does get some out but not all of them. The stains are like pencil/pen/dirt on the bottom from the ground and stuff! My purse is a white corderroy! Please help me Ill give 5's :o)

I clean by shoes with Clorox bleach, maybe it'll work with your purse since it's white. Good luck. :)

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The other night, I was out with a friend, and we met up with these guys. I guess you could call them 'skaters'. So. The two of us walked around, while they skated around us. They asked us if we'd let them finger us, and we joked around saying yeah. We told them we'd have sex with them in an instant, even though we were kidding, which I guess they didn't realize.
So, we headed for a park by a school, and they got behind a bush and pretty much just pulled it out right there, and they were begging us to come back there and, well jerk them off. I wouldn't do it because quite frankly, I've got a little more self respect than that. I wouldn't let my friend do it even though she was tempted because she has a boyfriend and she knew she'd regret it right after she finished.
So, these guys were telling me I'm a total "downer" and a "prude" and later they told my friend that they really didn't like me, just because I wouldn't give them a handjob.
So, I feel really bad about myself, like I let them down or something, even though I know that they're just huge jerks. For some reason, I can't stop thinking about it and wishing that I had just done it and everything would be fine now.
I'd really like some advice about what I should do. Thanks.

It'll pass. But I know how you feel. What I do is just remember that I don't have to prove myself to anybody in high school, because most of the kids there will most likely be bums while I make something of myself in the future. I'd rather be called prude than easy anyway, wouldn't you? Hope ya feel better.

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im like so worried u no evryone nows like you have to be naked when you do it.. but i hate my bodie. i dont want to have sex then evryone runs away!!!!! k i need help does anyone no of ways to have sex without being naked?!?!? sry if this is uncomforible but hey i cant ask my freinds. they'll think im a freak! k im so enbarressed so plz help! before i make a bigger fool of myself!

If you're a girl you could wear a skirt, I guess...

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where can i find slightly fitted band or vintage T's i cant seam to find them anywhere, if you could a website would be nice our the store name thanks -XXOO

Hot Topic has a lot of band tees. That's one of the only really good reasons I shop there...

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i have this boifriend that lives in different part of missouri!!well my cusion lives out there and i see him every weekend!!but he REALLY hot and all these gurls like him!!well he was over his friends house and my boifrinds brother was there and his brother called me and said that my boifrind was askin for lapdances,kissen on all these gurls's neck,and grabbi their boobs!!but my cusion said that i shouldnt trust my boifriends brother cuz hes jealous of me and his relationship and only wants me and him broke up!!should i trust my boifriend and these gurls??even my boifriends mom said i shouldnt trust his brother!!im so0o0o confused!!

xOx cOnFus3d!!
13/f/mo

Relationships should be based on trust. Ask your boyfriend, not his brother.

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My friend and I were making fun of our French teacher in class yesterday. Well, we didn't notice but our teacher was walking by and she kind of stopped for a second. We only thought she heard us but, today she was being extreamly mean to us. And just us. So know we know she heard us. My friend doesn't care that she heard becasue she hates her but I do. I feel really bad about all of it. I don't blame her for being mean and I don't know what to do. Should I just drop it?

That happened to my class like a year or two ago. My advisor was made fun of by almost my whole class and she heard a lot of it. When our class had an end of the year party, she didn't even come because she was so upset at us. She was all mad and crying. I felt bad even though I only listened to people make fun of her, so some of my classmates and I went to talk to her. We apologized and she came to the party and everyone apologized. Apologizing is the best thing.

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ok i know im really skinny, but i cant help it! i eat like a fucking dinosour and i still weigh only 70 pounds at 13! i was wasndering if there is ANYTHING for me to get guys to like me. i think that im to skinny and thats why guys dont like me, but i do like guys and not a single one is interested in me! i think im pretty all but my weight, i have white strieght teeth, blonde hair, no pimples and i have big green eyes, but what the hell is with my weight? i mean is that why guys show no interest?!?! please help me. people who give me nice answers i rate 5s!

A lot of guys (the good ones, anyway...) don't look at the body, they look at your personality. If you want guys to like you, have a great personality.

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i'm 13/female and i've never waxed or shaved before. can someone please help me by suggesting what brands are good and what i should do and how you wax or shave and if it hurts or not and other info thx

I wax and shave.

Waxing hurts because the hair on your body is literally pulled out of your skin.

Shaving doesn't hurt unless you accidently cut yourself or get razor burn afterwards. If you get razor burn, use aloe vera based lotions or creams. Shaving can cause ingrown hairs, which suck, but can be prevented by shaving correctly and by using the right products.

Sorry, I don't know what brands are best. I use Sally Hansen for waxing or I go to a pro. I always experiment with shaving stuff, I'm trying to find what's good for my skin. Good luck. =D

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okay im 14/f.

i started babysitting at the beginning of the school year. the lady who hired me said that she needed someone she would be able to rely on. she pays really good money but recently her hours got changed and i'm working 3:30 to 6:00 when usually i only did 3:30 to 5:00. i don't even get to eat with my family. and when i get home all i wanna do is just go to bed.

the kids are fucked up. they get disciplined but their mother just laughs when she yells at them. they're really spoiled and get their way all the time.

the other day i was watching them and i was swinging on this swing. well their dog attacked me for no reason. when i told the mother she said "oh sometimes you just need to hit him" he even ripped my pants! there's a small hole in the pants and there's a HUGE bruise on my leg from where he bit me.

when i got my paycheck their was no money for the pants that the dog ripped. i'm really sick of them and i wanna quit but i don't know how to say it. if the dog bites me again i'll have no problem but what should i do in the mean time? i was thinking of giving her my two weeks notice but chickened out. what do i say?

You can tell her that the job doesn't fit in with your schedule anymore (because of the new hours), you know, since you don't eat dinner with your family and go to sleep from being tired.

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I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart but I'm bi.He doesn't know it. There was one time that he accidently called me bi and I fussed at him.I said he would probably like it if I was. He said he would never like that because she would be licking and then trying to kiss him.He said bi girls were nasty as hell. Because of that I haven't told him I was bi because I'm scared he is going to break up with me. What should I do?

If I were you, I would've broken up with him, but that would be harsh and rash. I think you should tell him. If he loves you too, he shouldn't mind much. If he calls you 'nasty as hell,' the relationship would obviously be over. Someone more open-minded might be best for you.

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Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react?

I thought it was strange the first day I got mine, so I told her right away since she's the only female around and is actually someone who would understand what to do. She was fine with it and I had to take a religious good luck shower thing...

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Heylo everyone,
i'm going on hols tomorrow (yay) but my lil bro always goes through my stuff!!! i'm gonna be on my period so i dont want him looking through my suitcase like he always does and finding the pads. so where can i hide them? i've had the idea of like rolling them up in my socks but i think they might be too thick or it might damage the pad or curl it up and make it hard to wear?

I would put them in the back pockets of my jeans. Maybe put them in a purse and put a little lock on it, like the kind that come with little diaries.

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hey everyone! ok, this is going to be so lame, but me and my friends are trying to find this one site and its' one of those website quiz things- it's the one where it says like " number 1-11" and like 'put someone of the opposite sex on #3" and then "put a song on #11" and like when you're through it'll give you the answers and will be like "the song title in #11 is what describes the opposite sex person in #3" do you know what i'm talking about? any help would be appreciated! thanks!

Do you mean like Mad Libs? http://www.eduplace.com/tales/ has some boring ones. I know http://kiwibox.com has some on there somewhere too.

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hey! im doing a project for school and i need to collect some data about things some teens do that they realy dont want to just to fit in. if u could tell me all the things that u did just to fit in, it would help. thanx

ps: annyone who ansers will get a 5 rateing unless they r joking or being rood or whatever

-wear makeup
-wear certain clothes
-ignore certain people
-get certain hair styles
-have sex
-take drugs
-drink alcohol
-take up hobbies (like skateboarding or basketball)
-date certain people

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How do I get rid of my writers' block?

What helps me get rid of writers block, is to free write for a while.

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