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My best friend(we'll say lucy) is going to prom with this kid(we'll say nick). Well recently they got into a fight because nick went out and picked up our other friend and brought her out to lucy's house after we had asked him to. Well we promised that we would give him ten dollars gas money, since he was low, if he did this for us. Well lucy has been practically obsessed with nick for the passed two years but he won't give her the time of day. Before lucy and i started talking i had dated nick and it was actually through him that lucy and i became aquainted. Lucy and nick are both seniors and lucy's dream was to go to her senior prom with him. Luckily thanks to the help of her friends, nick agreed to go with her. Well when lucy worked her ways nd talked nick into leaving without that gas money, he got really mad. (because he was on E when he got home) And the reason she didn't give it to him was because she didn't have change for a twenty. When nick got home he txt messaged me to tell me that he wasn't going to prom with lucy and this really upset her. Then another fight broke out because I have been talking to him AS FRIENDS and some of lucy's other friends don't see this appropriate. But when i don't talk to him, everyone gets mad at me and yells because they say there is no reason to hate him just because he broke my heart. So me, trying to be the peace maker, started talking to him civilized once again and now we're friends. (NOTHING MORE)Well he called me today and we got to talking. I begged him to reconsider taking lucy to prom because i know how much this means to her, nd he said: "Hmmm, i have an idea". Well this idea isn't any good :( AT ALL-- He agreed to go with lucy again to prom on one condition; if i sleep with him. He has been bugging me to sleep with him for the passed 7months because i turned him down the two times we were together. I know I can't do that to her even though it would get her to prom. And i don't know how to tell her because it would devastate her. But what if i tell him no and he wont go to prom with her? Then i will feel like this is all my fault because i didn't betray my friends trust.. I'm so hurt and confused-- please and thank you for listening to me babble!!
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It might hurt her but you really should say something to her. Maybe she will get over her obsession with him. He isn't real crazy about her or he wouldn't be jerking her around like he is. Nor would he be wanting to sleep with you! So, tell her. And never fall for that sleep with me for favors thing. You will just feel bad. The friend will find out and she'll feel bad. The only one benefiting is him.
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heya
i think you shdnt sleep wid him. i think shld go 2 lucy and tell her you hav sth to tell her tell her then that uve been after the fight. you knw what tell her the truth tell her what relli happ. because you dnt wnt her finding out from sbd else or if this nick guy is as bad as he sounds he cld always say to her that she said she wld sleep wid me if i went to da prom wit u so i think u shd jus tell her.hope i helped
tanya
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dont sleep wit him!! then its like a pity date, *lucy* is better off finding someone who would really like to go with her
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You shouldn't sleep with him just so he'd take Lucy to prom! Lucy would probably be more hurt if you had to bribe and sleep with him to have him take her to prom than if he didn't go with her. You should tell Lucy what's going on and why she should go with someone else, like someone who actually likes her and respects her.
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I think you should tell her the conditions and explain that if she really waas your friend she'd believe you and not make you do it. And if she doesn't accept you not wanting to sleep with him or doesn't believe you then she isn't a true friend. Just do what you think is best in your heart adn don't let "Lucy" or "Nick" talk you into it.
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tell her what he said and then maybe she'll realize what an asshole he is for saying that in the first place.tell her not to waste her time and that she can do so much better. tell him that you will not sleep with him and thank him for breaking your best friends heart. (sarcastically)
-me
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