i'm getting married soon to this wonderful guy. we've been together a few years and he's really wonderful. there's only one slight problem. i've done stuff with other guys, but i've never had sex. i've always promised myself to save it for my wedding night. my partner, on the otherhand, has had sex with several girls. this sorta bothers me because i know our first time together isn't going to be as special for him as with me, because he's already had other girls before me to compare to, and everyone knows your first time is the most special too. i'm just so jealous when i think of the other girls who got there before me and who had him.
for some reason i always ask him about his other girlfriends because of curiosity but when i find out more it upsets me. but i still want to know more. it makes no sense. i know he really loves me, but i always want to know if he loved them too and every detail of their relationship. i can't seem to focus on the present. i don't speak to my ex boyfriends but he speaks to his past girlfriends. we even ran into one once and they got on so well i felt so dreadful.
i don't know why i feel like this. i have a wonderful guy yet i'm letting these stupid worries ruin our relationship. why do i feel like this and what can i do?
Well, you're one of few that save it and thats self respect and I Respect women who do that. I can't say that for myself but I really do respect it.
look at it this way.. he has experience and experienced men are better in bed. not only will he be better he will respect you for waiting. He's a great guy because he loved you enough to respect your decision.
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I've been friends with a married man for about 3 years and we have never crossed the line. I knew him and his wife before they moved last year. I thought of him as one of my closest friends- he was someone I could always talk to. Well yesterday we got into a big fight on MSN messenger. I told him that I missed him (because I harldy get to see him since he moved) and then he made a comment "I'm a married man". Then I said "I know- just friends". I was upset and told him I didnt think we should talk anymore. He wanted to know why. I told him that his comment " I'm a married man" made it sound like I wanted an affair with him. I assured him I was not like that. I said I would never cheat with a married man because it happend with my mom and dad. I also said I hoped we could still be friends. Well I thought he would have respected me for saying that but instead he coldly responded with "good bye". He gave me no explanation either. I thought this man was my friend- surely a true friend would understand. Now he has completely shut me out. He won't answer my phone calls and I sent two emails saying that he was the best friend I ever had and I hoped we could still be friends. He is not responding. This man has been an important friend in my life for the last 3 years- this just doesnt make sense. Why do think he's being this way? Do you think he really did want an affair with me and now is miffed that he knows he won't be getting any?
I hate to be so short but from my prespective he might of been kidding like "Oh but IM A MARRIED MAN!!" if hes the joker type.
but if he was joking.. then say u were kidding about the whole I dont want to talk to you again.
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Is running a half a mile in 4 mins and 43 seconds fast regular or slow?
That's Average but a little slow
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So there is this guy and well he really likes me, I fooled around with him for a while, but got really bored of him, now he text messages me and Calls me and he's even said he comes to my house in the middle of the night in his car and watches it all night cause he misses me, he seems really weird, what should I do?
MY ADVICE: Call the popo's (police).
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My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him. I don't think I'm ready... see he's not pressuring me, but he wants me to... I can tell. It's gunna be my first time (if i do do it) could anyone give me any tips (gross i know, sorry) on what to do?
*Thank you
Make sure you love him, and MAKE SURE HE LOVES YOU!!!! if you dont love eachother the first time its gonne be REALLY hard to cope with later. My first time I really loved him but he didnt love me. and I didnt see it before I thought he did and he didnt so that broke my heart into a million & 1 pieces!!
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Heey guys :D
HAPPY 666 (6/6-06) HAHA :P
Okeey, here's the thing, I just got a new bulletin board to my room, and I wanna make it cool!
What can I put upexcept pictures (already done that) is there anythikng else, any ideas to make it look cool??
thanks!!
Put different letters from magazines as like FRIENDS put F from one of the headlines then R from a different one and so on.
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i don't know exactly what i'm asking. & i don't know if anyone will be able to help. but i do need help. and it'd be appreciated if you do try.
i have depression, in addition, i'm most likely the shyest person on planet earth. i don't have too many friends because of both of these. in feel really insecure about my social life as well as myself. each time i attend school i feel like everyone's judging me & in a terrible way. In a way, i'm scared to show up to school. the idea of it really scares me. i psyche myself out for it. each day i think i'll go to school, but i get ready in the morning, can't find the right thing to wear & break down. See, i haven't exactly been to school for two weeks now. usually my dad would make me go to school; but in a sense he's given up. & i have to. each day i don't show up for school i realize that it will be harder to go back. but i can't bring myself to go. i haven't been in contact with friends in days & feel like i'll use the few i have, and i'm in the proccess of doing so. i don't know why i feel so bad, and i don't know why school is so scary for me. i want to feel better & be better but i'm doing nothing to helo myself.
so i guess i'm asking a few things.
1. why is it that school is scary to me?
2. how can i make it less scary?
3. ... just any advice is what im looking for. thought - or anything. just ideas as to what i can do.
... just ideas as to what i NEED to do. 5's for anyone who bothered reading with a sensible response. xx
You're very inscure. Very self concious, and that's not healthy. You need to RELAX!! Don't need to worry about what other people think.. now when I say that let that sink in really, dont worry about what anyone thinks because it makes your life TERRIBLE!! as you can see. I really dont mean this mean in ANYWAY!! but no one cares what you look like or what goes on in your life.. and no one cares about ANYONE's looks/whatgoes on. in yours, mine the girl that sits next to you in class, NO ONE! only when theres a HUGE deal like you lets say you got Herpes from a guy, then they talk but really they dont care they just like gossip.
YOU MUST GO TO SCHOOL!! if you dont just think how bad you will feel when graduation comes around and everyones leaving for college and you're stuck there because you have too many absences it sucks real bad. so be smart because you sound smart just because you cant find anything to wear doesnt mean you dont go to school. you're acting immature and you need to wake up and smell the coffee because life is passing you by and you're letting it.without any thought or care in the world. WHAT YOU DO NOW REFLECTS ON YOUR FUTURE!!! and you need to focus on what your goals are in life. stop focusing on your looks. when high school ends NO ONE WILL CARE WHAT YOU WORE!! they probably wont even remember, ESPECIALLY if you're not there. you need to go to a therapist and get your problems solved and get that depression under control.
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hey..i have this boyfriend and he's really cute but i don't really have feelings for him anymore. i mean he's very sweet but like he's moving too fast and it's making me like turned off. and now he's making me feel like he should be my brother. idk what to do anymore! please someone help me!
i'll give 5 for trying..thanx!
Whoa, I'm a little confused... If he;s moving too fast say this to him, I really dont want to move as fast as you want to.. Can we compromise?? If he wants to make out with you and all you want to do is hold hands.. peck kiss and if he wants to finger you and you want to make out let him touch your boobs. You get what im saying?? compromise so that you're not too prude for him but hes not too aggressive for you.
and about the brother thing I dont get it so I cant answer that...
WHY THE HECK DID I GET A 1??!
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I'm looking for suggestions about a good summer cologne for men. Nothing to "flowery", rather a nice masculine scent.
Thanks!
Curve Crush is sooo good. its masculin and sexy.
yummy
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In PE, we're swimming. I was wearing a two piece bathing suit for the first time, and it was a bit embarassing. All the girls were staring at me and moving their eyes up and down my body. And I'm not just imagining it, either. What is this? Is this a bad thing?
They're jealous!! I do the same thing and you might not notice it but so do you. You check out another girl to see what they have that you dont or what advantages you have over them.
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Help me please, fast!
My aunt just called, and she was crying, and she never cries! So I asked what's up? And she said "You need to tell your mom to get a planeticket and come to America" (we live in europe) and I was like whyyy? And she said "Baby, I don't know, I don't know what to do..Your Grandfather is very sick. She needs to know, she needs to get here!" So now it's all on me!! How do I tell my mom that her father might be dying? Do I tell my dad so he tells her? I don't know about that though cause they've been fighting alot lately!! Or do I tell her, and if so, how? Do I tell my brothers (younger) so they know that they should be nice to her?
Please help me, please! She'll be home in a couple of houres and I don't know what to do!
You should say to her "mom, I need to talk to you. Aunt_________ just called and she was in a panic, and she told me to tell you something, but you might want to sit down, Grandpa is very sick and Aunt______ wants you to come to America Immediately."
What I would do before that is look at plane tickets to America.
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One of my friends are trying to get her cousin and I together. Well we have met and we talk all the time She tells me that he really likes me. I cant say that i think about him all the time and that i really likke him but hes really nice and i like to hang out with him. Well he asked me to go to the beach with him on sunday. Well sunday i got online about 1230 and he told me that he probly wont go to the beach anymore because he has other plans. So im like alright and i just didnt think any thing of it. Later not even 30 minutes later he put an away message up saying Im going to the beach be back later on. (or something close to that) Yea so he pretty much stood me up and he hasnt said a word to me since. He has been telling his cousin that we talk all the time. I say Hey to him online and i never get a response and he at his computer.
Im 17 female . Hes 20
What should i do? Is it even worth gettting to know this guy anymore?
Tell him straight up instead of saying hey say this.
(your screen name): Listen, I dont know what the hell is wrong with you but you stood me up and if you dont talk to me and dont care then ill leave you alone but now im just gonna wait and see how long it takes for you to message me. and you say you're not going to the beach but your away message said that you were. Did you not think i was gonna see that?? or did you just try treating me like crap?! whatever get back to me and let me know.
There you go.
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Are there many girls that don't shave down there? Or do most? I was messing around with my bf today, and his hands "slipped" down there and I hadn't shaved. I asked him if he minded and he said he didn't, but I dunno. I've never shaved it before and am not sure whether I should start. Can someone give me some advice? I don't want him to be grossed out.
Well, you're obviously old enough to shave if your boyfriend is touching there. If I were you I WOULD SHAVE!! It is very unhealthy to leave all of that there and you should trim first then shave but definately shave. It's not clean looking and its sorta gross, not to be mean in anyway
I hope I helped.
dont give me a bad rating because you asked for our opinion.
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Hey. I was wondering if you guys thought tankini tops (that cover all the way down to alittle past the belly button-got from De;ia's store) looked good with boardshorts. Also, where can you get boardshorts? Thanks!
Yea I think it looks cute and you can get boardshorts from www.pacsun.com
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i asked about this girl in the past for anyone that might by chance remember...i really like her, and we're reeeeeeeeeeally close. but i don't think she likes me, cuz she tells me she likes some senior (im a sophomore), but i don't know if she's using that as a "decoy" of some sort. we're in a school show together, and we're together every night backstage until next thursday. i figure that if i'm gonna ask her out, then now is gonna be the best time, while we're having fun doing this show. so i don't want her to reject me, cuz it's probably gonna screw up our really close friendship.. what should i do???
Tell her this..
"____________
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ok well i wanna get an armoires for cheap online
does anyone know of 1 thats:
.white
.cheap
.for a girl
thx and if you can get me a link of a site please do so
thx
http://www.armoiregallery.com/computer-armoires/white/products.cfm?action=view&key=MLS022
thats for a computer
http://www.armoiregallery.com/tv-armoires/white/products.cfm?action=view&key=WAY148
thats for a TV
THESE are for wardrobe
http://www.armoiregallery.com/wardrobe-armoires/white/products.cfm?action=view&key=AWR077
http://www.armoiregallery.com/tv-armoires/white/products.cfm?action=view&key=PUL242
That one is not too cheap :-/
http://www.armoiregallery.com/jewelry-armoires/painted/products.cfm?action=view&key=PO208
this is for jewlery
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I'm 13/f. In school, I am not a nerd, but i'm not really popular either. I'm like in the middle..i guess.
Anyway, my 6th period class contains the guy I like, along with this really popular girl with gimoungus boobs that doesn't talk to me.
Everytime we are allowed to work with one another, he goes off to work with her.
I want to talk to him and get to know him stuff, but that girl really intimidating to me. Thats the only class I have with him, and I don't know him well enough to talk to him outside of that class.
What do I do?
well you're only 13 and most couples do not last when you're 13 and pretty soon something will happen where it end and you'll get your chance so just wait it out and see what happens then when hes single ask him if he wants to study together and be partners. then whatever happens happens
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My alarm wakes me up every morning at 6:00; but I usually hit the snooze button until like 6:40. How can I make myself wakeup and kick the urge to press snooze and go back to bed?
I do the exact same thing. set your clock to a time that is a while from what the real time is. and when your setting it dont look at it.
and just get up and jump in the shower it wakes you right up.
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do you have to be a certain age to buy them?
i live in VA
there is no certain age for it you can buy condoms at 5 lol
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does anyone know any good websites other then myspace, livejournal, xanga, advicenators ect. that are fun??
5s for anythingg
a good one I found today is www.hi5.com
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