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ok I know I always talk bout my bf in here but. I want to know is it scary when u first like make out with someone? Like I want o and stuff but it's scary (link)
well you no what if u just go for it it just comes natural i swear just be urself and relax act like its no big deal good luck hun
PeAcE


my hair falls out in the shower alot when i brush it and even when i just put my fingers through it...it used to be pretty thick and it has thinned out ALOT! my mom says it from straightening my hair (i only straighten it 2-3 times a week) and my friends says its from stress from high skool! i really want to fix this problem which one or what is the problem? (link)
this happens to me all the time to its totally normal but you should probably get a haircut more often because that is what reduced the falling out for me by alot good luck
PeAcE


ok! Well this summer I was on a very intence swim team, and volleyball team! I weighd about 84 pounds! Then after summer when volleyball and swim team stopped, i started to eat more and i just stopped exercising what so ever! And i dont have gym in school! Now i weight about 112 pounds! I really want my body shape back i've tried to hold back my eating but i cant! Please help me what should i do? (link)
hey hun. i think that to get back in shape if you want to you can excersise every day and eat very heathly. thats all you can do but dont stop eating just eat healthy good luck
pEaCe


ok im an athlete so i have practice at night & get home around 9ish & i was wondering if it's totally disgusting to take a shower in the morning before school? im a girl, but like i have homework & stuff when i get home, & i juss go to bed, nothing else. if i take a shower at night, my hair gets weird & i don't think you should take a shower twice a day. any ideas??

thanks!! (link)
i think that you should take a shower when you get home if your reallly sweaty and sorta disgusting instead of getting in your bed dirty. and yes, then you have the option of whether or not to take one in the morning but you should take atleast one shower a day
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Are contacts hard to take out? I'm thinking about getting them. Any advice on what to do lol? (link)
hey ive had contacts for years and yes- at first they are a little bit tricky but you'll soon get real used to them and it will be like an easy daily thing for you. and they are wayyyy better than glasses you just have to take care of them Good Luck hun
PeAcE


Is it true they dont make Ipod minis anymore?

And can u still get them anywhere? (link)
yeah you can still buy them at like our local Best Buy or Circut City kinda place


Over the last few days I haven't been really hungry, even when I barely ate that day. Like yesterday I had a really small sandwich in the morning and I wasn't hungry til waay later. And today I haven't really eatten anything and I wasn't hungry but I ate dinner cause I know its bad to not eat. But is there something wrong that I haven't been hungry? Or could it be that I'm just realizing I want to lose weight (which i do) or what? 13/f (link)
its not a totally bad thing that your not hungary all the time. many people go through stages like that when sometimes theyr hungry for weeks and sometimes theyr not. if it sarts getting serious like you havent been hungry for months and months at a time- double check with your doctor about it Good Luck Hope I Helped
PeAcE


whne is the right age to start wearing makeup?? (link)
well- i would say around 14-15 and its not like you want to load it on- you want your makeup to look as natural as possible with a little glow hehehe


Ok i like my bestfriend -joe- and we do everything together! i know he likes me and i dont know how to tell him i like him back! (link)
just say Joe, i like you - alot. it would be cool if we went out wouldnt it? just plain out and tell him LOL good luck


why do most seven7 jeans have little tags on the back with a 7, while just a few have a brown leathery type of tag (it's bigger) that says 7 jeans instead? whats the difference? (link)
there is no diff LoL


What are good for excersicing your thighs and abs? (like to tone)
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well situps, and running actually helps alot too


I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?

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i think that if you like him a lot and hes really good for you then go with your gut. You should also sit down with your friend and talk to her about why she dislikes him so much and if they could maybe start getting along but dont let him go just because someone else doenst like him. Good Luck
PeAcE


Is it true that lifting weights stunts your growth? (link)
well lifting weights that are much to heavy for your ability may damage something but im not completly sure i no i have heard it somewhere but check with your doctor


I got a porn pop up and now I got a virus!! I rebooted my computer a while ago and I really don't want to do it again.

My question is does anyone know any free virus things that will delete it?

Thanks so much. (link)
if you download McAffe Virus Scanner then (free) that will block viruses and popups and everything else its great go to like google.com and type in McAffee Virus and then the homepage should be at the top somewhere good luck
PeAcE


I want to raise enough money to buy a nano iPod but many places you have to be 16 to work at. My friend told me that to work at McDonalds you can be 14(my current age) Does anyone know if this is true?

P.S-I know there food is the worst for you but I'm working there for the money. (link)
no i think you must be 16 to work at a public place because its against the law to hire someone underaged sry but there are some small local businesses that will hire 14 yr olds good luck


I'm 13, and there's this guy that I REALLY like. I told him, he doesn't like me back, but we're still friends. There's a dance tomorrow on Friday, and I'm not sure whether I should ask him to slow dance. I mean, we slow danced last dance, and I'm afraid that I'll look like I'm desperately trying to "win" him when I'm not, especially considering the fact that he knows that I like him and that he does not like me back. Do you think I should, or would I just look like a loon? If not, could you give a good reason?
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hey there. I say that when you go to this dance-hang with your friends and have a really fun time. when a slow song comes on, causally go over and say "hey wanna dance?" im sure that he will say sure. its not the end of the world if he says no- just LAUGH it off and say "ok your loss buddy" and then go find your friends again. be brave and make a move first. youll be fine the best of luck to you
PeAcE


Hey,
I'm 16 and I want to try contact lenses. My optician says it's all OK. I was just wondering if anyone had any really good/bad experiences with contact lenses they could tell me about, or if there are tips any of you might have? Are they really weird to get used to? I have a real thing about touching my eyes, I don't like it at all. Will I find this really difficult? What happens if you can't get it out? (link)
hey i have contacts the first time i put them in it as hard for me but they woulndnt let me leave the eyedocotrs untill i could fully take them in and out. it will yes, feel awkward for a while but you will soon get used to it and they are oh so much better than glasses!! i had a thing about touching my eye too but YOU never touch your eye the contact does so relax relax and soon it will be like eating everyday you put them in every night you take them out the best of luck to you ITS EASY!!!
PeAcE


ok so i am getting my eyebrows plucked this saturday and i was wondering if it hurt? also can you please find some pictures that i can show the person so i can get something i really want! (link)
well...plucking them out will hurt if they are thick but i say wax is the way to go. there is barely any pain and it only stings for a second. the person who will do your eyebrows should apply some cold gel stuff and it will feel and look good instantly. she doenst have to take off a whole lot either, only a little for the shape. sry i dont have a pic but Good Luck
PeAcE


ok me and my best friend (guy) are going out secreatly and i was wondering if that is wrong to keep it even from my best friend. Should i talk to him and see if im able to tell a couple of really good friends? im 13 and a female.
**sleepiesheep** (link)
Ok well i went out with this guy and i didnt tell my best friend and she got pissed but thats just her, its totally up to you and if you want to keep it private - i see no problem Good Luck w/ your decision
PeAcE


k well I am a 14/f and i have been thinking about sex i am a virgin but i have not kissed anyone any guy i mean but i want to it is just i am scared that i will mess up i think a bout sex all the time is this normal (link)
just because you think about sex(which is yes, completly normal lots of ppl do it) doenst mean your ready. personally, i think you should only do it when your completly ready and able to share it with someone who you like a lot, or even love so when you look back you wont catch yourself saying "omg i cant believe i did it with HIM!!!" ya know what i mean? good luck
PeAcE




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