about

hi, im marissa, and im HXC, and im a hippie, and im opinionated, and im fucking crazy. and i have gone through alot of shit in my life, so i have answers to some problems from personal expirence. im almost 16, but i want out of my house. im in a relationship, and its been going on for over a year. he means the world to me. i love my life, and i cherish it. but i do live on the edge, and i like to go fast. i know breaking laws is bad, but its like an addiction to me. i am the treasurer of my schools gay straight aliance, and i get alot of shit for it. but it dosent affect me. i havee alot of friends. and im with them 24'7. and i would not have it any other way. im always faced with tough decisions and fears... long story. but im a pretty interesting person.

advice



anyone know how to
set a picture as a
picture caption?
thnxxxx lotszz

< img src="image url here" > just take out spaces before and after the > and the

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I was making out with my boyfriend the other day...and it was my first time and his 2nd...there was a little drool on our chins...is this normal for begginers or everyone ?

its completely normal, but sounds like you guys use alot of toungue or are sloopy. lol those are my kind of kisses. :]. hope i helped.

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uhh how long is a guys penis when he's 16?

umm theres not really like a certain size, but average size is 6 inches. so probably like around there. hope i helped

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i sent my friend a video i found online. at the end, a boy blows a kiss with two fingers, then they split into a peacy sign and he sticks out his tongue. my friend said this meant somthing nasty. what does it mean? i dont knoe how to search urban dictionary because its a motion, not a word. thanx!!!!!!

it means like eat out pussy. lol.

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what are your opinions on tankinis.

are they more for older women (25 and up), or can teenagers where them too and still look cool. like would you wear them?

thanks

hey. personally i dont like tankinis, but yeah teens can deff. wear them. like my best friend has duble d's and she cant wear bikinis cause guys hit on her toooo much when shes in them, so she wears tankinis, but you can find some really cute ones. but personally im a bikini girl. hope i helped.

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15/f
there's this guy that i really like, but he has a girlfriend... but we're still pretty good friends. so this weekend i want to hang out with him and some of my other friends... everyone says that if i invite him over i have to invite over his girlfriend as well, but the thing is that she's a total b**** to me. and i don't know, i just wanna hang out with him... so is it so wrong to want to hang out with your guy friends if they have a girlfriend?

OMGSH!! im in the same situation. but my guy friend's gf is really nice, and shes my friend. but anyways enough about me. about your situation. like i dont understand it at all, like i dont get what the big deal is. but i would just hang out with him anyways/not invite her, dont care what people say. or invite her sometimes. or talk to him and be like "do you want to hang out? but do you mind if your gf dosent come?" hope i helped.

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I'm 14/m and my best friend (also 14) and I have been j/o together since we were like 11... we just think its fun but my MOM caught us 2 days ago and now she's convinced that I'm gay. So she doesn't want us to like EVER talk to each other again and she's maybe going to call his mom about it. I mean, is it so freaking awful - is it so terrible that we shouldnt be allowed to hang out ever anymore - or is my mom just homophobic?? I'm not even gay but she doesn't believe me.

wow. that really sucks, but it does sound like your moms a homophobic. i would deffaintly talk to her about it. explain what has been going on. hope everything works out okay, hope i helped. bye bye.

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tonight im meeting my potential boyfriends parents!

i dont want to give them the wrong impression, but i dont want them to think im a prude or anything.

suggestions?

hi! i personally would wear like a polo or a button up shirt with jeans and like clogs or sneakers. unless like the guy says to wear something a little more fancy, then go with like cordoroys(sp?!) or a kind of pants that arent jeans. but i would stay away from skirts, dresses, things with leggins, and low cut tee shirts. hope i helped.

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hey im 13 and i have never been kissed before. There is this thing that im going to this weekend and people said my boyfriend wants to kiss me. Im scared will i be a bad kisser or will it come natural ??
HELP

hey!! well honestly i think it comes natural. but let him make the first move with toungue or not. just go with the flow. hope i helped.

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I need a song to do a
hip hop dance with my
friends/ kind of funny
and sexy. Past year's
we've done Switch & Hotline.
Dont say some song thats on
the radio every day that I
could just think of myself. thanks

these songs i would do.. but there new. and rhere on the radio sometimes, tell me by p. diddy and cristina agulara (SP?) and give it to me my timbaland nelly furtado and justin timberlake

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how do you make an icon be a caption for a picture...also how do you make your text colored and bolded. i tried looking for the codes but i couldn't find any thanks!

hi! the code is... < image src=(put URL here) >. but take out the spaces between < and image and the end of url and >. hope i helped

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is it normal to be jealous when your boyfriend tells you that he looks at porn? should he be looking at it while he's in a relationship? does that mean that he's not satified with his girlfriend?
thanks xo

hi! i always get jealous if i find out like my boyfriend watches porn. its normal for me to get jealous. but it dosent always mean hes unsatisfied. but i mean you cant really stop him from watching it. but yeah. but if it REALTT botheres you, talk to him about it. but dont make it a HUGE deal. hope i helped.

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kind of an awkward question, sorry, but. what do you girls find some of the most pleasurable positions are for you, and also, shaved or not when it comes to downstairs?

hi! personally i would rather have things shaven. but thats just me. anyways like what kinda of positions are you talking about? like 69? 69 spose to be good, tehe. but i dontknow. fingering for girls or like eating out is good. like message me back and tell me if i answered this right, please. sorry if i dident. hope i helped.

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I feel pretty stupid for asking this, but what are all the "bases"? (Ya know, like some guy is bragging "Oh, we made it to 2nd base last night!"

1st base - making out
2nd base - feeling
3rd base - oral sex
homerun - sex

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he cheated on me. hes with the girl he wanted and wont leave me alone and still bugs me for liking guys. hes really jealous and annoying! is it because he still cares about me and loves me?

16/f

hey. it sounds like he still likes you, and is trying to get you jealous. but i would like totally ignore him, or talk to him. but like ignore him, he sounds like a ass. he probably wants to start a fight, and make it look like he dident start the drama. i say ignore him or talk with him. hope i helped.

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so i was getting fingered by this guy and after he's like "your pussy's so wet"...that's good right?

yeah. its good.

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I'm just looking for some opinions here. Do you think giving head is a bad idea? I've always thought that blowjobs were gross and should be left to the sluts, but some of my friends are trying to convince me differently. I just don't want to be labeled as a whore amongst the guys.

Any opinions would be helpful. Thanks.

hey. i think giving a blowjob is bad in some situations. like... your not very serious with a guy. you just got out of relationship. hes just looking for ass. he just got out of a relationship. thats only my opinion though, but its not just for sluts. lol. hope i helped.

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well me and this guy have been friends for a while, and we always talk, in person, on the phone, on myspace ext. and help eachother with our hw and i like him a little/lot more then a friend
and like i got my best friend adn him to talk and stuff, im basically the reason why they met, and he told me he kind of likes her, and i think she likes him alittle, and she always trys to flirt with him and push me out of the picture
we like have compatitions talking to him.
but him and i are close, so he talks to me alot, and idk if he likes me.. i dont think so but sometimes it seems like it cuz hes like yeah i hope i see you or please call me soon or something.
But i dont know what to do..

hey! honestly i have been in situations like yours. but i would talk to him and maybe be like "what do you think about me?" or something like that. and like talk to your friend and be like "do you think he likes me?" or like try something different like this ... and this is what i do, let your friend and him do stuff, flirt, or whatever they do, and see how stuff goes. i would deffently try and talk to him either way. but i really hope things work out. and i hope i helped. and i would write something longer to you, but i have to go take my dad back to the nursing home. much love :]

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Okay, I'm 17/m and have a beautiful girlfriend that I've even promised to merry(sp?). Anyways, I have a friend that I was talking to, 15/f, and we got into a discussion. This discussion was about sex, we were talking and she asked me what I was thinking about. This was kind of weird because she usually can assume what it is. She kept wanting to know and then she asked me to email her my fantasies that I have about her. I hate to say this but I do have fantasies about her as well as my gf and sometimes all three of us. I know most of you think thats sick but were all young and young people do stupid things. Anyways, I'm scared and don't know what to do. Should I give into temptation and reveal my fantasies or keep them to myself? Is this feeling unnatural? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!! I'm sooooooo confused!
Thank you.

P.S. Me and my gf are perfectly happy with each other. We never fight, we love each other to death. We've been going out for 1 year.

aww you and your girlfriend sound really cute. i ask my boyfriend about his fantasies WAYY too much lol. but anyways. i would not tell her your fantasies (and if my boy friend reads this he will call me a fickle lol, cause i always him there not private) but tell your friend there your PERSONAL fantasies. hope i helped.

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this will sound stupid. but when people say like "what base have you been to" or soemthing i have no clue what they are talking about, so i just go along with it. could you explain like

base 1 is - then tell me

thanks

hello. the base system tht i use is...
first base- making out
second base- feeling up or down
third base- head, handjob, fingering, sucking of boobs, eating out
homerun- sex
buuuuuut everyone has diff opinions, some people say tht second is aboove waist and 3rd is below. but idk. hope i helped

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