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Masturbation friends...mom thinks I'm gay now
I'm 14/m and my best friend (also 14) and I have been j/o together since we were like 11... we just think its fun but my MOM caught us 2 days ago and now she's convinced that I'm gay. So she doesn't want us to like EVER talk to each other again and she's maybe going to call his mom about it. I mean, is it so freaking awful - is it so terrible that we shouldnt be allowed to hang out ever anymore - or is my mom just homophobic?? I'm not even gay but she doesn't believe me.
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circle jerks freak parents out just give her time to get over it
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Your mother is just going through a stage. Parents sometimes are afraid if their child is sexually active when they are soo young or being gay. I wouldn't consider you gay. If you masterbate him with your own hands and he does it to you, it's just a feeling. Every person has a sexual feeling and can't control it. You will be gay if you are attracted to men and want to do it with men all the time, I will consider you gay. Maybe you consider it as playing with your friend. You might be bisexual. Just let your mother go crazy..yes it is annoying. Or tell her a long speech that makes her guilty.
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I think your mom is overreacting a little bit... let her cool down and see what happens. I read a book on paul mcartney 2 years ago and it talks about him and his friends having like group jackings in the dark and he's not gay. <3
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I totally disagree with Ender's answer. it doesnt necissarily MAKE you gay or bisexual. and even if you are, its not wrong.
i would give your mom some time to cool off, then talk to her about it. explain to her that your not gay, you just find it fun. it sounds like your mom could be homophobic, so just talk to her and assure her your not gay.
good luck!
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wow. that really sucks, but it does sound like your moms a homophobic. i would deffaintly talk to her about it. explain what has been going on. hope everything works out okay, hope i helped. bye bye.
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That is gay. You might not be gay, but if you jack off with another guy, you're at the very least bisexual. It is wrong, end of story.
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