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iiM Ariella . iim 13 . uhmm i love qivinq advise so IM me or leave me 1 here ifu need anythinq. muuah! -AriiElLa* . oh and thanx ~*Annie*~ ur great!.








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ok... so i was going to go to this one highschool... and my boyfriend is goin to a different one. and i didnt know.. but i thought i was gunna break up with him before highschool.. and i was all ready for it. and now he just told me that hes goin to my highschool, cuz he might be moving and he might pay outta district fees. and now i feel like crap, cuz i dont know how im gunna break up with him!!!! help please!!
13/f and ive been dating him for 5 months.. almost 6

you shouldnt feel bad for him, tell him nicely that you arent interested in him anymmore.. its ur life hun lol good luck! xox Ari

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ok there is this guy. We both liked eachother, we used to talk to each other all the time and he used to tell me all the time that he loves me and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. he said that he wants to be alone with on valentines day. And so i went to my dads house to be alone with him and we were talking in my room and listening to music and sudenly my dad bursts in my room and starts swearing at him to get the fu*k out of his room. i got really upset so i left. And the guy was still talking to my dad and when he came outside by me he came over to me kissed me and said that i need to go talk to my dad because he is going crazy in there. I said no because he wont listen to me(+ he was drunk so that wouldnt help)and he said that my dad thinks that we had sex and we didnt. The guy was really mad. He looked at me in front of all my friends and said: I dont even look at you that way let alone have sex with you. Im sorry but i started to cry. why would he day he want to be with me and then say he dont what up with him? And whats up with my dad??? please help me i could use it thank you. i rate high.

wow that guy is a HUGE ass . sorry but if that's the way he treats you the you REALLy dont need him , you can do better!, and for your dad he probably loves you and tries to protect you, talk to him and tell him that u didnt appreciate what he has done and to please have a little more faith in you. lol good luck! hope i helped!! xox Ari

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OK this is a really hard question to write. My parents got divorced when i was in 1st grade, and i live with my mom. Lately she and i have been fighting alot. i love her and everything, but she is just really stressing me out. ive told her this, and she does better the next day, but as soon as its a week later she totally forgets. My Dad is an air traffic controler and so h works weird hours. Me and him have a great relationship and rarely fight with him my question is, should i take a break from my moms house and move in with my dad for awhile or deal with her? Thanx!!!!!!

okay if you love your mom then go live with your dad for a while and try something new. because to tell you the truth i fight with my mom a hell of a lot(even though i LOVe her and she LOVEs me back..lol we talk about EVERYTHING..lol its complicated) but i cant move in with my dad because i dont really concider mysaelf as having one. lol dont ask. anyways good luck hope you straighten things out! xox Ari

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This is sortof long but please!!!


Ok i have this EX friend Rachael. She hangs out with William and Laura. We aren't good friends but we used to be best friends. But one day we got in a big fight and got back together. It hapened 3 more times. Then just last week William told me that Laura recorded me on her phone saying that Rachael is a b@#$% but i only called her that when i didnt like her. i asked Laura but she said she didnt.. And Rachael is like going around telling peoeple bull about me and telling people to stay away. She is just so ARGH!! i don't want anythig to do with her, but shes in my french class and she always sets her infront of me. I JUST HATE RACHEAL!!! how the heck can i get her out of my friggin life? as well as Laura and William

i know how . tell them to grow up and stop spreading rumors, tell them upfront taht if they dont like you then to leave you alone not to make your life miserable, if that doesnt work then stay strong and IGNORE them!!! lol good luck xox Ari

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tHere is a boy in my school who i have liked since the beggining of the school year... ever since my friend let him know that, i have been too she to talk to him. i have never been shy around someone i like THAT WAY! when he says Hi, i say hi back but when i look at him i can't talk about things.. normally i can't stop talking. how can i get to know him better and start conversations with him without freaKing out?
*********HELP PLEASE*******

okay , you see i used to be shy as well but then i started making myself talk to people and thinking myself that nothing bad can go wrong and that they are probably shy around me as well lol so just tell yourself that if you ever want anything to happen between the two of you then you should just stop being shy and walk over to him and talk, because obviously if he makes the effort to talk to you he wnat to get to know you better :) good luck! xox Ari PS: a REAL friend doesnt tell their friends crushes that they like him... sorry lol

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Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ?

NOT WITH YOUR FRIENDS!!, if you're ready then do it (cant tell you not to) but all my advice to you is whatever you do just dont do it with your herpe friends!!! sorry and good luck! Ariella

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My best friend in the world asked me to our Junior Prom. I have a HUGE secret crush on him too so I'm really happy he asked me. I have no idea if he likes more than a friend or not, but I guess that's beside the point. Anyway, We've been best friends for abbout 6 months now. He asked this other girl about 2 months ago who he liked and at the time they were kind of "together." She said yes but then about 2 weeks later they broke it off and she got another bf and then she nvm about going to Prom with him.. Then about a month later he asked me.. I dont know I guess I feel like his "back up" or his "second choice" because the first girl who he liked said no... i told him how i felt and he said that it's not even like that.. He said that ofcourse his first choice would be like his gf or a girl that he's "intimite" with. He said that if that didn't work out he'd only want to take his best friend, which is me.. What do u think.. I guess I feel like this only because i really like him.. If i didn't like him more than a friend then I probably wouldn't feel this way.. What do you guys think? (please don't say that I should tell him how i feel because I would never. In his eyes, we are like brother and sister.) Thanks!

hmm okay well this guy obvioulsy loves you...as a friend.. and trsut me he definatly doesnt think of u as his "back-up"...he obviouslt enjoys your company otherwise he wouldnt have asked you to go... all i can say is take your time and see how things work out.. u nvr kno maybe soon you guys will be more than just friends!!! good luck!
xox Ari

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Theres a boy whos in one of my classes and hes definitely `the class clown`. The problem is sometimes hell yell out my name and other girls in my classes names out loud and pretend to do very innapropriate things with his pen, whatever is around! Im serious. Today he started humping the air and was like uhhhh and was like your so hot "Kirsten" *name is changed* Its really funny but is this sexual harrassment? thanks.

no..but you shouldnt let himt ouch you..lol i ahve a "friend" in my class who like to touch girls boobs, some girls are okay with it but i told him to stop and that i didnt think it was funny and he did.. so if you dont like what your friend is doing tell him to stop or slap him heehee...srry lol good luck!!
xo Ari

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is it bad to go out with some one if that some ones best friend likes you? Diane-age 13-female

No.. unless that someone's bestfriend is your close friend as well.

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hi im about to peirce my cartilidge but im not sure exactly where to do it, i need someoen with expericne and or i need some websites with pictures (or not i dont care) because ive been searching and im not sure how to.. please help! last time i did it i messed up on my lobe cuz noone helped me! please help me!

omg dont peirce it by yourself!! thats my advice to you...lol get it done profetionally...i got mine done at claire's lol!

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well im 16 and started my periods when i was 13 and i havent told my mom yet!! (ive been gettin away with it through usin loadsa toilet paper n stealin pads off her n buyin them at school, if your wonderin). the thing is i cant tell her because shes really mean and honestly does hate me and wants to put me in care - she has told me herself that she only lets me stay here still cause she gets paid in child benefits. she would laugh at me if i told her...how do i tell her that i have started without her laughing?
please dont tell me she wont or shes been through it too or whatever because i know this woman and you dont. i know she will laugh its what she does.
besides shouldnt a good mom have asked her 16 yr old daughter if shes started her periods yet anyway??

wow ... well no offence but your mom sounds.. a little horrible.. im sorry if i make you feel bad when i say this..but if your mom tells you that your only here because of getting paid in child benefits ... i mean seriously that's the worst thing a mom can tell a child.. anyways enough about that.. you should tell your mom and if she laughs about it tell her to grow up and that she really makes you feel like crap...sorry if i couldnt help.. i tried lol good luck !!
xoxoxoxo Ariella

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this kid i like b4 i met him seemed like this reeally nice kid really umm perfect...he still seems that way he just swears alot...dont get me wrong im notlik goodie tooshoes...but i didnt think he would so im kinda shaky about everything else unless hes changing to sound tough to impress me..idk..? help please

well maybe he is trying to impress you .but why is that hirting any1 . like u said ur not a goody 2 shoes so if he likes u he;s trying to imopress you .it might not be the best way .but if it really botehrs you tell him about it.

hope i helped!

_X0OH * Arii \\

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17-F Ok there are these to boys Rob and Dan. Dan is my type and we get along really well, the thing is we don't wanna screw up what we have and it seems whenever we hang out I wanna do naughty things to him. But Rob he's more sweet and nice to me and I've known him for a while and I can see us having a long relationship. But Dan is more exciting and Rob is more loyal and faithful. I'm a senior in HS and I haven't had a BF in over a year so I dunno who to pick please help

well it depends who;'s mroe fun to be with . you should think about who u like more and who makes you laugh . but also someone who is loyal and gr8 BF (Rob for instance) . but ifu wnat someone to just fool around with and have a good time but arent lookinq for a serious .loyal and lonq term boyfriend then go with dan . hope i helped!

X0OH * Arii \\

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Im nearly 15 and ive got a very small penis
and its a bit worrying does it matter to girls?

Well . not to most girls . it hurts more when it is bigger . the vigania isnt very big so u ahve no problem . girls just say they like it big for reputation . hope ii helped

X0OH * Arii_

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

well i myslef live in Florida and yes you can get in trouble...but you can do it in private .but if your mom knows and she doesnt like this boy she can get him put in jail.

hope i helped
x3 Ari*

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Well, my question has 2 parts to it. The first part is, what causes hiccups (sp?)? And what is the best way to get rid of them? I get them ALL the time, like 2-3 times a day. They never go away. Help me out!

lol wow that'sz a lot of hiccups.. but i dun indertsnad..lol i loooove qetting hiccups..lol !!

x3 Ari*

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my mom and dad have basically failed in bringing up a good family there idea of a good family has screwed with our heads. none of us plan on being mormon (my parents religion) my brothers shoplift do drugs drink. my sister has a kid and a boyfriend who used to beat her. my little sis. is spoiled and i am worried about her. i smoke drink and am just screwed up in the head. my parents try so hard to keep us together and happy but they don't get that they can't do anything anymore so they might as well give up. how can i get away from there useless attempts to make me the good kid that doesn't do anything wrong when i do and i can't stop myself? also how can i stop my brothers and sisters from reminding me i am the last chance? it makes me feel guilty.

iitsz not ur job to "Make ur family qood" but ifu y taht its all ur moma nd dad's fault then try and make and effort to behave .

x3 Arii*

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I have pretty dark arm hair, and my arms are kinda hairy. How can I make it look a lot less obvious(without completely shaving it off). help! thanks! i rate!

Oqm DO NOT USE NAIR UNDER YOUR ARMS... it will burn like craszy!!! well for ur arm hair u can bleach the hair and for the underarm i suggest shavinq or waxinq.

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okay i really want to get colored contacts for xmas or something idk but i want pink ones is that weird? either that or cat eye ones or a pretty blue but i really want pink but i can never find them...are there any websites i can go to or a store? and plz dont say go to yahoo or google cuz i did and it didn't help. thankz so much!!! *Melissa*

wow i've never heard of pink ones thats so awsome..lol ii wish i could help but i cant srry i just wanted to gibve u my opinion .lol

byesz
x3 Arii*

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14/f One of my friends is really starting to annoy me. It's not anything in particular that she does that gets on my nerves, it's just about everything she does. Some stupid/odd/quirky things she does that I used to like about her just annoy me. She's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her. How can I stop being annoyed with her? I really don't want to be.

i kno how you feel i ahve a BFF named (lets call her sobii .lol)and now the smallest things about her piss me off..like i feel like she gets on ym nerves all the time.. and i try to make me stop doing that but idk what qot into me . lol i just try to sasy to myself that she;s my BFF and she loves me and im overreactinq lol ii guessm you just get tired of hanqing around the same person all the time so you start getting annoyed..maybe u need to spend a few days away from her
and ull be alright just do taht everytime u feel taht way . hope i helped .

muah .
x3 Arii*

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