Question Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 7:39 pm
ok... so i was going to go to this one highschool... and my boyfriend is goin to a different one. and i didnt know.. but i thought i was gunna break up with him before highschool.. and i was all ready for it. and now he just told me that hes goin to my highschool, cuz he might be moving and he might pay outta district fees. and now i feel like crap, cuz i dont know how im gunna break up with him!!!! help please!!
13/f and ive been dating him for 5 months.. almost 6
leetizzle319 answered Thursday February 17 2005, 10:22 pm: I think you shoudl end it if you donot have any strong feelings for him.if you dont, then you would just be leading him on,which would make it worse.Explain it to him in the nicest way possible.Tell him that you just need some space.He'll understand.But if he doesnt,then he wasnt a good boyfriend to begin with.I wish you all the best of luck.Let me know how it goes and drop it in my inbox.
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populargirl24 answered Thursday February 17 2005, 10:21 pm: There was a guy at my school and he wasn't hott didn't dress good, couldn't flirt, but he was an A B student and funny. The thing was, i didn't like him. And he came to my face and and said I like you more than a friend. We have been going out but this is where my story relates to yours. I decided a month later to tell him i didn't like him anymore. And he at first was very sad and I felt bad for him but as time passed we became friends again. You can try easing the subject in and trying to tell him over the internet or something-that way he may no be emarrassed by his emotions if he shows any. I really hope it works well because I went through the same thing only not as bad as what your going through.
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Farren answered Thursday February 17 2005, 9:12 pm: If you don't like him then you should by all means end this, don't waste his or your time. Yes, he'll be sad and it will be hard on him, but it would be worse to continue the relationship and lead him on by faking affection. Just tell him things aren't working out, you're only 13, it's not like you were planning on marrying him. Lay it on him as kindly as possible, and maybe you guys will end up being friends. Good luck.
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